This Confession comes from “Turned upside down in Illinois” I have been with my husband for almost 14 years. I’m a sound sleeper, and I suspect he has been having sex with me while I’m sleeping. I have woken up without clothes on, my undergarments askew or the waistband “rolled on.” I called him on it and told him I knew and that I’m not OK with it. Weeks later, I caught him red-handed. This time I was awake, but I was so frightened that I froze! I was sexually abused as a child and raped as an adult, and now I feel like my marriage has been turned upside down. My husband denies it. He claims it’s all in my head. My friends say that for the sake of my children I should ignore it or I’ll turn their lives upside down. Abby, everyone thinks my husband is a catch! I’m sure if I walk away I’ll lose friends — maybe even some of my family. Please help me. I feel lost. LivinUnleashed Twitter: @LivinUnleashed Facebook: LivinUnleashed Webs: www.livinunleashed.com Email: LivinUnleashed@gmail.com Soundcloud:…