“In turmoil in Israel” I live in Israel, and for the past five years I’ve been having an affair with a great guy I’ll call Yuri. I married very young to a man who is kind and very Orthodox. I love my children and grandchildren. Yuri thinks we should leave our spouses and make a fresh start. (I’m not Orthodox and neither is he.) I am afraid if I do, I may lose my children and grandchildren. On the other hand, I can’t survive without Yuri. I have always had lovers since I discovered how Orthodox my husband is — it’s a survival thing. I am going nuts. What should I do? “Nowhere in Texas” My ex sent our children letters from prison. I didn’t give them the letters because he was abusive. In one of them he asked our daughter to forgive him and not punish him forever. David, her father had abused her, and he’s asking for her to stop punishing him? She was going to kill herself because of what he did to her. My daughter went through several years of intense counseling and still battles depression, so there is no way…