What is the approach when it comes to focusing in on trying to solve a sex problem? Learning some lessons from people and organisations who spend way more energy on judging the path over walking the path. What does Lady Gaga, the film Dodgeball (A True Underdog Story) and the Apostle Paul have in common? We get into the left brain, right brain understandings of reason, meaning and instruction. Are film makers, song writers and poets highlighting the fact that our feelings are deceptive or undervalued? One could say both, right? How would looking at our lives as a story transform the path we are on?