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Clitoral Orgasms #393
Dec 12
Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … We address some feedback we’ve received from the SM Nation regarding last week’s show with Pam Costa. An email…
Awaken Female Desire #392
Dec 5
Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a higher desire wife who’s in a catch-22. Plus a conversation with Pam Costa on her journey and work…
Being Sexy and Connecting #391
Nov 28
Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Do you have to believe you’re sexy before you can be sexy? How do you connect better with your spouse? And a…
Power and Sexlessness #390
Nov 21
Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … A couple of callers who feel powerless in their marriage either because of a husband’s continued use of porn or a…
Getaway and Masturbation #389
Nov 14
On today’s regular version of the show … Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 Plus an email from a listener asking about masturbation and religion. And a second opinion segment with Dale…
When Sex Seems Like Work #388
Nov 7
On today’s regular version of the show … A lengthy conversation with Jessa Zimmerman about how sex can be a lot of work, as well as some discussion of the Higher and Lower Desire paradigm when it comes to sexual differences. On the Xtended version … A…
Not Sexually Attracted To My Husband #387
Oct 31
On today’s regular version of the show … How to break the negative interaction cycles that can happen in marriage. Plus a conversation with a married couple that’s part of the Sexy Marriage Nation. We dive into why she’s not sexually attracted to her…
Masculine and Feminine Energy #386
Oct 24
On today’s regular version of the show … More conversation about what do you do when trust is broken in marriage based on a callers response to a previous episode. Sexy Halloween – what role can dressing up play in married life? Plus a caller asking for…
Sexual Attraction and Fantasy with Dr. Julie Slattery #385
Oct 17
On today’s regular version of the show … What do you do if you find you’re not sexually attracted to your spouse? We have emails from both genders. A Second Opinion segment. Dr. Julie Slattery joins me to answer a Sexy Marriage Nation member’s question…
Seven Year Itch #384
Oct 10
SEXY MARRIAGE RADIO TURNS SEVEN THIS WEEK!!!! On today’s regular version of the show … A man calls in who was able to shut down desire and arousal as a kid because of the guilt associated with the subject but now as a husband he has trouble performing.…
Marriage Grows You Up With Dr Corey Allan #383
Oct 4
Marriage is mostly on the job training. And there’s a purpose for the relationship that not enough people are talking about. Marriage is designed to help you grow up. Period. Today I’m a guest on my own show as we discuss the journey of Sexy Marriage…
Repeated Betrayals and The Wife Is The Higher Desire #382
Oct 1
A caller asks us for help in understanding why he would seek attention elsewhere when his marriage is really good. And a wife calls trying to understand what she can do to get her husband interested in sex more than just on the weekends. Enjoy the show!…
Sex After 50 With Laurie Betito #381
Sep 27
Aging impacts us all. It’s inescapable. But that doesn’t mean sex is over or even fades. Dr. Laurie Betito joins me today to discuss ways to keep sex going after you’ve turned 50. Enjoy the show! You can find Dr Laurie’s work here –…
Unilateral Marriages #380
Sep 24
What do you do when you find yourself stuck against a stone wall in marriage? And that wall is your spouse and they’re unwillingness or disinterest in participating in sex? Also, a woman calls in wanting help understanding what to do since her breasts…
Puppy Dogs and Pussy Cats With Sheri Winston #379
Sep 20
There are differences between men and women. These differences can sometimes cause some issues in marriage. What if the differences can be captured with the images of a puppy dog and a pussy cat? That’s what Sheri Winston joins me on the show to discuss.…
Emptiness vs Fullness #378
Sep 17
A member of the SM Nation adds to the conversation regarding the optimum penis size. Is there a Sexy Marriage Diet? Translation, foods that will aid your sex life. Pinching. It may not be what you thing. Plus hear our thoughts for a caller who’s at an…
Marriage Roundtable: Breaking Free of Ruts #377
Sep 13
Life has ruts and routine. So do relationships, families and marriages. So how do you break out of these ruts? And when should you? That’s what we discuss today – and we’re joined by our friends Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele of Only You Forever and…
Someone Has To Lead #376
Sep 10
Hear several callers each wanting assistance with how to approach rejection, engagement from their spouse during sex, and how to handle being the Higher or the Lower Desire in the marriage. Plus some push back from a caller regarding our past show with…
The Ultimate Intimacy App #375
Sep 6
We continue on the topic of intimacy today. Although we also add in some technology. The Ultimate Intimacy App is a fantastic resource for marriage and sex. It’s a great blend of provocative and informational. And it’s free! Enjoy the show! You can…
Tastes, Body Is Not My Own, More Foreplay #374
Sep 3
Today we cover several different topics as well as a follow-up from last week’s show. What can help change the taste of my semen? A husband and wife disagreeing about the scripture “Your body is not your own.” And a caller wanting help with confronting…
Deeper Intimacy With Steven Ing #373
Aug 30
Intimacy. The word can mean so many different things. Steven Ing joins me today as we discuss what does intimacy mean, and how do we create a deeper level of it with others. Enjoy the show! You can find Steven’s work here – stevening.com Or check out his…
Semen, Breasts and Fantasy #372
Aug 27
Today is another potpourri show as well as a couple of follow-ups from last week’s show. A wife emails us for help in how to better handle her reaction to her husband’s semen. Another emailer asks if there is any research on the benefits of breast play.…
Broken Trust #371
Aug 23
Unfortunately everyone is likely going to face the topic of today’s show. Betrayal, deception and the pain it creates in relationships are far too common. That’s why Dr. Tim Cole joins me for today’s episode. Enjoy the show! You can find more about Dr…
Honesty, Ickiness and Waited Now Terrified #370
Aug 20
Today is a potpourri show where we cover three different emails. How do you tell a spouse the truth when they ask you “Was it good for you?” Some thoughts for helping with the ickiness of sex. And a question from a newlywed who is now terrified of sex…
Better Sex Through Mindfulness With Lori Brotto #369
Aug 16
There are many shows and books and articles aimed at helping you achieve better sex. Sexy Marriage Radio exists to try and help as well. And throughout the 6 1/2 years worth of shows we’ve yet to discuss our topic for today. Mindfulness is a better way to…
Negotiation In Marriage #368
Aug 13
Negotiation can be a part of business. Even part of relationships. But what if it’s actually part of the growth process in life and marriage? Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com.…
Sex, God and Church With Tina Schermer Sellers #367
Aug 9
Why is there so much shame surrounding sex and sexuality? Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers joins me today as we discuss her research and work around this subject. Enjoy the show! You can find Dr Seller’s work and book here – Sex, God and the Conservative Church:…
Toys, Erotica and Fantasies #366
Aug 6
We have discussed the use of toys and fantasy in the past, but this time we venture into the topics a little differently, and also address the world of erotica. Enjoy the show! Looking for more of a community? Find it in the Sexy Marriage Academy.…
Love Worth Making With Stephen Snyder #365
Aug 2
Dr. Stephen Snyder joins me today as we discuss what can make sex in a long lasting marriage fantastic. Enjoy the show! You can find Dr Snyder’s book here – Love Worth Making Watch the show on YouTube here. __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565…
Living In Community With Others – #364
Jul 30
We all live among other people – but how deep are we really in a community of others? There’s tremendous benefit to living life on a deeper level with others. That’s where we go today. Enjoy the show! Looking for more of a community? Find it in the Sexy…
Good Girls And Sex With Sheila Wray Gregoire #363
Jul 26
There are many women who grew up thinking sex was something bad, and they’ve carried this belief into adulthood and marriage. Today Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me as we discuss how sex is a beneficial thing in marriage, and life. Enjoy the show! You can…
When One Spouse Is Too Busy #362
Jul 23
We all live busy lives. Perhaps too busy. But what happens when one spouse is just too busy for what they say they want in marriage? That’s where we go today. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Covenant Spice.…
Spirituality and Sexuality With Chuck MacKnee #361
Jul 19
Is there a link between spirituality and sexuality? Can that link be greater than we think? Dr Chuck MacKnee joins me on today’s episode as we discuss these questions and discover the answer is yes, to both. Enjoy the show! You can contact Dr Macknee here…
When Roles Reverse #360
Jul 16
There are roles each spouses play in marriage and family life. What happens when the traditional roles you play get reversed? That’s where we go today. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet®. Enter…
Grief and Sex With Elise Thompson #359
Jul 12
Grief is a reality of life. And when one or both spouses are directly impacted by loss it can affect the marriage in several ways. My colleague Elise Thompson, LMFT joins me to discuss this today – recorded live from the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway.…
Teaching Intimacy To Your Kids #358
Jul 9
We are big proponents of teaching our children about sex. But an emailer asks us how do you teach them about intimacy? That’s what we discuss today – recorded live from the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL…
Seeking Your Pleasure In Sex With J Parker #357
Jul 5
On today’s episode I’m joined by J. Parker or Hot, Holy, Humorous – a blogger, podcaster and author who leads the conversation about how wives should seek their own pleasure in sex. You can find more of J.’s work on her site: Hot, Holy, Humorous Sex Chat…
Wedding Vows, Sex Vows and Erotic Vows #356
Jul 2
Everyone is likely familiar with the idea of wedding vows. The commitments we make to our spouse regarding our life we’re beginning together. But what about vows for our sex life? Or our erotic life? That’s what we discuss today – recorded live from the…
How To Awaken Desire #355
Jun 28
On today’s episode I’m joined by Laurie Watson, a LMFT, Sex therapist and author who leads the conversation about how to create desire in marriage, specifically for women. You can find more of Laurie’s work on her site: http://awakeningscenter.org/…
When The Dynamics Of Sex Are Unfair #354
Jun 25
There are many things about life that may seem fair, or unfair. What about the dynamics of sex that may not seem fair? That’s what we discuss today – recorded live from the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode…
Simplicity, Habits and Marriage #353
Jun 21
On today’s episode I’m joined by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits. He and I discuss how his journey of simplicity and habits has impacted his life, marriage and family. Find Leo’s work at Zen Habits. Enjoy the show! You can also watch the show here on YouTube!…
Conditions and Imbalance in Marriage #352
Jun 18
Today we cover a couple of emails from the Sexy Marriage Nation. Are there conditions in marriage? And love? How do you address major unbalances in marriage? Enjoy the show. Editor’s Note: Due to some repeated sound issues shows are not appearing on…
More Love, Less Conflict #351
Jun 14
On today’s episode I’m joined by Johnathan Robinson, a psychotherapist and a professional speaker who leads our conversation about how to create more love with less conflict in our relationships. You can find more of Johnathan’s work on his site:…
Libido and Oxytocin #350
Jun 11
There are many times we receive an email about how a spouse has no, or low libido. This will impact the relationship and their life, but is their baseline level of libido that important? Or is there something else to focus on in this area of life? Enjoy…
Becoming Cliterate #349
Jun 7
Today the Sexy Marriage Nation hears from Dr. Laurie Mintz, a professor at the University of Florida and a Licensed Psychologist. Her new book is the topic of our conversation – Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters, And How To Get It. Find more…
Our Journey Of 25 Years #348
Jun 4
We celebrated 25 years of marriage last week! Join us as Pam and I discuss some of how our 25 years of marriage together have impacted us, and how Sexy Marriage Radio has impacted us as well. Enjoy the show. Or, watch the show here on YouTube! __________…
Menopause and Marriage #347
May 31
Today’s show is a continuation of the menopause discussion. This week Dr. Carol Peters-Tanksley joins me to explore the subject from her view as an OB-GYN. Find more about Dr Carol here. Enjoy the show. You can also watch the show here on YouTube!…
Masturbation In Married Life #346
May 28
Today my wife Pam and I follow from last week’s episode on sex toys in marriage. This time we discuss more about the use of toys but land more in the area of masturbation and married life. Enjoy the show! Or, watch the show here on YouTube! __________…
Menopause and Hormones #345
May 24
One topic has shown up a lot recently in the Inbox of feedback@sexymarriagereadio.com is how to address menopause and hormones. Well today I have Nancy Houston, LPC and Certified Sex Therapist join me as we cover these issues directly. You can find more…
When Sex Toys Feel Like A Threat #344
May 21
Sex toys are great! Or they’re a threat! Join us as Pam and I discuss the history of vibrators and answer a couple of emails about confidence and sex toys. Enjoy the show. Or, watch the show here on YouTube! __________ Sponsor: Dr. Allan’s book: Naked…
Marriage Roundtable: Best and Worst Marriage Advice #343
May 17
Our first ever Marriage Roundtable! Today Pam and I are joined by Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele of Only You Forever and Seth and Melanie Studley of The Anatomy of Marriage. In this episode we discuss the best and the worst marriage advice we’ve heard…
Talking About Sex With The One You Have It With #342
May 14
Talking about sex is an important aspect of marital, and sexual satisfaction in life. But it is also a difficult conversation for some to being, get through, or feel like they get anywhere with. Today we dive more into the struggles many people have…
Communication of Desire #341
May 10
Communication is a big deal in life, and marriage. Everything we do (and don’t do) communicates. So how does this all play out when it comes to our desires in marriage? When it comes to sex in marriage? Lorraine Wrage, LPC is a Certified Sex Therapist and…
Welcome to Sexy Marriage Radio 3.0 #340
May 7
WELCOME to SMR 3.0!!!!! And yes, it’s Monday and there’s a new episode. Why? You may ask. Listen to the show to hear all about the new things happening in SMR 3.0. Or, watch the show here on YouTube! Enjoy the show. And thanks for joining us. __________…
SMR#339: Sexually Confident Husband
May 2
Today we tackle a couple of emails following up the Pain During Intercourse Episode and then cover a voicemail on the idea of regaining your sexual confidence as a husband when his wife says she wants more erotism during sex but doesn’t follow through.…
SMR#338: Sexual Compatibility
Apr 25
What exactly does it mean to be compatible? Specifically sexually compatible? That’s what we explore today. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy. https://sexymarriage.net/smracademy __________ Got a question?…
SMR#337: Authenticity and Saying No
Apr 18
Today we have a couple of calls – one with a great idea to spice up your TV watching and other asking how do you be authentic in your life while struggling to say yes or no to sex with their higher desire spouse. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This…
SMR#336: Pain During Intercourse
Apr 11
There are times when sex is not pleasurable at all. In fact there are women who experience pain during sex. Today I’m joined by a colleague, Debby Wade, LMFT, LPC who works with women and couples who experience pain during sex. Enjoy the show. Resources…
SMR#335: A Sexual Moratorium
Apr 4
Perhaps you’ve heard of this idea, or not. What would happen in your marriage if you took an extended, purposeful break from sex in your marriage? It may surprise you. Plus a couple of voicemails on porn and marriage. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor:…
SMR#334: Defensiveness In Sex
Mar 28
Today my first co-host of Sexy Marriage Radio joins me on the air. Gina Parris and I discuss the differences between higher and lower desire in sex through the lens of offense and defense. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by…
SMR#333: The Energy Differences Can Create
Mar 21
There are many differences between spouses in marriage. Higher vs Lower Desire. Initiating vs Responding. Connecting to be interested in sex vs sex to feel connected. Today my wife Pam and I discuss how these differences can actually create energy for…
SMR#332: Initiate, Responding and Triggers
Mar 14
Today my wife Pam and I cover a couple of related topics … What does a husband do when his wife doesn’t initiate sex? And an email from a listener asking for more information about bringing triggers out in the open in the marriage. Enjoy the show!…
SMR#331: Looking Back And Forward
Mar 7
Join us for Shannon’s farewell episode as we look back on our journey together on the show – and a brief look forward towards what is yet to come. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Covenant Spice. http://covenantspice.com…
SMR#330: Priming the Pump
Feb 28
There are many times when one spouse wants the other to change something, stop something or start something. Losing weight, better diet, more initiation, etc. So how does the Higher Desire spouse address this with their mate? That’s what we discuss today.…
SMR#329: Mindsets Toward Sex
Feb 21
Have you ever looked at the mindset you have towards your sex life? That’s what we explore in this episode. Plus, there’s an important announcement towards the end of the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet®.…
SMR#328: I Want You To Want Me
Feb 14
It’s a common human desire to feel wanted. But what most often keeps us from feeling this way in marriage? Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by the 2018 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. June 21-24, 2018 at the Marriott Solana in…
SMR#327: Past Used Against You
Feb 7
What happens when your past (or a fantasy you’ve shared) is used against you by your spouse? Shannon is back to help me explore. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet®. Enter the code word SEXY at…
SMR#326: Positive Emotional Tension
Jan 31
Dr. Robert Glover joins me again as we discuss the idea of creating positive emotional tension in married life. Check out more of his work at https://www.drglover.com Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by the 2018 Sexy Marriage…
SMR#325: Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway and Initiation
Jan 24
Announcing the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway 2018! June 21-24 at the Marriott Solana in Westlake, TX (just north of DFW Airport). This is our fourth annual getaway and it looks to be one of the best. Register to join us today. Plus, an email from a wife who…
SMR#324: Birthday Sex, Shower Sex, Oral Sex
Jan 17
Emails from listeners … I’m fascinated by the differences between higher and lower desires – particularly about Birthday Sex. A discussion about the logistics of shower sex. And how does a wife grow more comfortable with oral sex on her husband? Enjoy the…
SMR#323: Lingerie For Your Bed
Jan 10
This month we have a new sponsor for SMR – Naked Bed ~ A Sensual Sheet® designed to help you let go and experience more in your intimate moments in marriage. Today I’m joined by the creators of Naked Bed and talk about their story behind the idea, as well…
SMR#322: Kids and Money in Married Life
Jan 3
Voicemails from two listeners … What are some tips to help recapture married life and sex before kids? How can we approach money in our married life better in 2018? Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Covenant Spice.…
SMR#321: Helpful Tips For Married Life
Dec 27, 2017
Email from a listener … What are some things you’d recommend for young married couples (or every couple) since you’re wife is on air with you now and you’ve been married for almost 25 years? We don’t get to 20, but we have some good ones. Enjoy the show.…
SMR#320: Longing vs Lusting, Holiday Sex
Dec 20, 2017
Voicemail and email from listeners today … What is the difference between longing vs lusting? (@ 2:30 mark) Tips for sex over the Holidays, especially when traveling with family. (@ 27:33 mark) My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show.…
SMR#319: Rebuilding and Keeping A Deeper Connection
Dec 13, 2017
Voicemails from listeners today … What can you do to establish a deeper connection after discovery of pornography use? And a caller who is interested in how to keep a deeper connection with his wife during sex. My wife Pam joins me on this episode again.…
SMR#318: Sex After Pregnancy and Being The Higher Desire
Dec 6, 2017
Voicemails from a couple of listeners today … How do you get back to normal sex after pregnancy? How do you deal with being the higher desire when your spouse responds to your levels with “But we have sex the normal amount of time.” My wife Pam joins me…
SMR#317: Great Married Sex, Feeling Cherished, Intergenerational Nice Guy
Nov 29, 2017
Today we tackle several emails from our listeners … What makes married sex so great? How to feel cherished and loved. Breaking the intergenerational Nice Guy trait. My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question?…
SMR#316: Animals in bed, No kissing, Accepting compliments
Nov 22, 2017
Today we tackle several emails from our listeners … Animals in bed. No kissing in the marriage, even during sex. My spouse will not accept my compliments. My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ Take our brief survey –…
SMR#315: After The Discovery of Spouse’s Porn Usage
Nov 15, 2017
We’ve covered the topic of pornography on several past shows, but not quite in this way. What do you do after you discover your spouse’s porn usage? My wife Pam joins me on this episode to unpack this struggle and the path towards growth. Enjoy the show.…
SMR#314: Marriage Undone Then Redone
Nov 8, 2017
Today I’m joined by Tray and Melody Lovvorn of Undone Redone, a podcast and ministry willing to wade into the messiness of life and marriage. Listen to their story of how their marriage ended in divorce, then 6 years later remarriage. Enjoy the show.…
SMR#313: Marriage Maintenance
Nov 1, 2017
Maintenance is a known requirement when it comes to our cars, homes, and other things we own. But what about our relationships? Especially our marriage? What are the ways we can practice maintenance in our marriage? My wife Pam joins me on this episode.…
SMR#312: The Nice Guy
Oct 25, 2017
I’ve talked about the idea of the Nice Guy before on Sexy Marriage Radio, today I’m joined by a friend and mentor of mine Dr. Robert Glover. He’s the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy. In this episode we discuss how the nice guy impacts relationships and how…
SMR#311: Vanilla Fantasies
Oct 18, 2017
There are people and couples who may not have fantasies, or if they do they are very vanilla. So what do you do if this is you, or you’re married to them? That’s what we discuss today. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#310: The Silence Is Killing Me, Part 2
Oct 11, 2017
In case you missed the beginning of our discussion on this idea, check it out here. Today we continue with some practical ways you can confront the silence that many couples face in married life. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#309: The Silence Is Killing Me
Oct 4, 2017
An email from a listener helps set the stage for this episode. One answer to the conflict we have in marriage surrounding sex could be one thing, but it could also another thing that all of us will face in married life. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a…
SMR#308: Listener Emails – The D Word, Spouse Is My Anything, Oral Sex
Sep 27, 2017
Listener driven radio happens this week. We cover emails about The D Word, can my spouse be my anything, and oral sex. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …
SMR#307: I Do Not Know What I Want
Sep 20, 2017
There are times in life, sometimes many times, when we may not know what I want. What do I do when this happens in my sex life? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen…
SMR#306: Sex and Infertility
Sep 13, 2017
There are many couples who struggle with infertility issues. But what makes this struggle even greater is the way this struggle impacts the marriage’s sex life. That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#305: Can Marriage Be Solved?
Sep 6, 2017
There are many times when we fall victim to the belief that marriage is an issue that can be solved. That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio…
SMR#304: My Spouse Is My Everything
Aug 30, 2017
Far too often we have placed unrealistic expectations and requirements on marriage and our spouse. What has been the fall out from this pressure? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#303: Redefining A Stud
Aug 23, 2017
There are many definitions of a stud (not talking about building materials). So how do you define what makes a stud? Or makes someone sexy? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#302: Handling Regrets in Marriage
Aug 16, 2017
Regret is something humans face in many facets of life and relationship. But how do we handle regret better in marriage? That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to…
SMR#301: Abstinence and Married Life Follow Up
Aug 9, 2017
Several episodes ago we talked about the abstinence movement and its impact on married life. This show resulted in lots of emails from our listeners. Because of the way the conversation was heard by many of you, today we’re circling back to the topic.…
SMR#300: Episode 300!
Aug 2, 2017
EPISODE 300!!!! What a great milestone. Listen as we celebrate this accomplishment – live from the 2017 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below…
SMR#299: Overreacting To Triggers
Jul 26, 2017
Overreactions run rampant in marriage. And it can cause quite a bit of trouble in like. So how do you get better hold of overreactions to triggers in life and marriage? That’s what we discuss this week coming to you live from the 2017 Sexy Marriage Radio…
SMR#298: Self-Soothing
Jul 19, 2017
One of the main ideas that will help grow us up is our ability to learn how to self-soothe. What exactly does this look like? That’s what we discuss this week coming to you live from the 2017 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a…
SMR#297: Men Can Also Be Crock-Pots
Jul 12, 2017
It has been said that women are like crock-pots and men are like microwaves. But what if men are like crock-pots as well? That’s what we discuss this week coming to you live from the 2017 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a…
SMR#296: Abstinence and Married Sex
Jul 5, 2017
Many listeners may have been raised with an abstinence message when it came to sex before marriage. While this message is important it can also have some unintended consequences. That’s what we discuss this week. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question?…
SMR#295: Antidepressants and Sex
Jun 28, 2017
One theme in our Inbox keeps being repeated, how medications for depression, anxiety and the like impact sex life in marriage. It can be a real issue. But there are some things you can do that will help. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us…
SMR#294: Power of the Third Follow Up
Jun 21, 2017
In episode 292 we interviewed a listener and his struggle with the power of the third in his marriage. Based on feedback from several listeners, this concept deserves to be explored more. Here you go! Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#293: He Comes First
Jun 14, 2017
We have scripts that we follow in married sex. One of the most common would be she comes first. What if he comes first? Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …
SMR#292: The Power of The Third
Jun 7, 2017
One thought we have talked about is this idea of “the power of the third.” The idea that we are trying to live fully alive lives, which will possibly be noticed by others. In this episode a listener joins us to discuss to struggle of using the power of…
SMR#291: Potpourri Feedback from Listeners
May 31, 2017
Sexy Marriage Radio listeners are the best in the world. Especially when they call us to task and keep us in check. Like today’s show where we answer some criticism from several listeners. Enjoy the show. Still time to go to the Sexy Marriage Radio…
SMR#290: Security and Desire
May 24, 2017
We have discussed how women are security seeking creatures and when a husband’s job outlook fluctuates it could impact security. Today we are joined by a caller who wants help increasing her desire for her husband when her security feels threatened. Enjoy…
SMR#289: Solidness
May 17, 2017
One of our challenges is for us as married people to be more solid. So what does solidness mean? That’s what we discuss. Enjoy the show. Still time to go to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us…
SMR#288: Sexual Laziness
May 10, 2017
Laziness can be something many people face in life. But what about in marriage? In sex? That’s what we cover in today’s episode. Enjoy the show. Still time to go to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question?…
SMR#287: Sexless Marriages – Power And Control
May 3, 2017
Last week we covered Sexless Marriages, and we struck a nerve with several of our listeners. Lots of times what is really happening in a sexless marriage comes down to power and control. That’s the angle we take for this topic today. Enjoy the show.…
SMR#286: Sexless Marriages
Apr 26, 2017
We have episodes on this topic in the archives, but it’s so worth covering again. The sexless marriage. It’s quite a bind – for both spouses. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________…
SMR#285: Soft and Hard and Scheduling
Apr 19, 2017
Soft and hard – the words can bring very different thoughts to mind. Especially within the context of sex. Same with the word scheduling. Want to know what meaning we attach to these words? Listen. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage…
SMR#284: The Dance of Desire Differences
Apr 12, 2017
This week we are joined by a listener looking for help in understanding the differences in desire levels and the dance that causes in his marriage. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register…
SMR#283: Americans Are Having Less Sex
Apr 5, 2017
Research from late last year states that Americans are having less sex that they were a couple of decades ago. Why do you supposed that is? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway –…
SMR#282: Pursuing vs. Asking
Mar 29, 2017
To ask for sex or pursue it. It can be quite the quandary. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Early bird discount goes away April 1st! Register __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#281: Cuckolding
Mar 22, 2017
Perhaps you’ve never heard about cuckolding. Well, after today’s show that will no longer be the case. Enjoy. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Early bird discount goes away April 1st! Register __________ Got a…
SMR#280: Sexual Confidence Or Vulnerability
Mar 15, 2017
Another listener joins us for this episode. Join us as Molly asks how she can increase her sexual confidence. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Early bird discount goes away April 1st! Register…
SMR#279: What Is It Like To Have Sex With You?
Mar 8, 2017
We have asked this question before … Would you want to be married to you? Today we ask – What is it like to have sex with you? Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question?…
SMR#278: Low Desire But Likes The Chase
Mar 1, 2017
This week a listener joins us on the air to explore her issue of feeling like she is the low desire spouse, yet wants to be the chaser in the marriage. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register…
SMR#277: Trust Equals Lust
Feb 22, 2017
Trust equals lust. But trust isn’t just about infidelity or affairs. It is so much more. Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#276: Dirty Talk, RV Sex, Dealing With Rejection
Feb 15, 2017
It’s been a while since we’ve done a potpourri show. In this week’s episode we cover three different emails from listeners: Dirty talk RV sex Dealing with rejection Enjoy the show. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017.…
SMR#275: Spouse Shuts Down Because of Past Abuse
Feb 8, 2017
The things that happen to us when we’re young can impact us for a long time. In today’s episode we discuss an email from a listener that faces shutting down sexually when things get too close to feeling out of control or uncomfortable. Interested in going…
SMR#274: 2017 SMR Getaway
Feb 1, 2017
Valentine’s Day is fast approaching? Have you thought about what you can do to enhance your relationship? What about coming to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, June 22-25, 2017? Register to Getaway That’s what we talk about in this episode. You can also…
SMR#273: Behind Your Spouse’s Back
Jan 25, 2017
Some things happen behind your spouse’s back. But what about when those things actually involve them, or betray them? That’s what we talk about in this episode. Interested in going to the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway – June 22-25, 2017. Register __________…
SMR#272: Being Vulnerable With You
Jan 18, 2017
Each week you guys faithfully tune into our show. You email, you ask questions, you give feedback and you support us. This week we offer up a new level of vulnerability with you and share what’s been going on behind the scenes. What is that, you ask?…
SMR#271: Tests in Marriage
Jan 11, 2017
Perhaps you don’t think of some aspects of the marriage as tests, but there are things that happen that may in fact be just that. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy…
SMR#270: The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy
Jan 4, 2017
Welcome to 2017! Interested in a new resource that will help take your marriage to the next level? Consider joining the Sexy Marriage Radio Academy That’s what we cover in this episode. Join the Academy __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#269: How The High Desire Wife Gets In Her Own Way
Dec 28, 2016
There are many couples that face the dilemma of the the wife being the high desire partner. While the dynamic between the high desire and low desire has some similarities when she is the high desire – there are things she can do that doesn’t help. That’s…
SMR#268: How the High Desire Gets In Their Own Way
Dec 21, 2016
We have talked at length about the high desire and the low desire. Many times the low desire partner gets all the focus, but there are some things the high desire does that gets in their own way. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a…
SMR#267: 10 Hot Spots To Touch
Dec 14, 2016
There are many areas worth touching when it comes to foreplay and sex. But what about some areas that may get overlooked? That’s what we cover in this episode. To check out the couple’s massage course MELT, click here. __________ Got a question? Email us…
SMR#266: Redefining Normal
Dec 7, 2016
Normal. What exactly does that mean? This question is particularly troubling sometimes when it comes to marriage and sex That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage…
SMR#265: How To Connect When You Don’t Agree
Nov 30, 2016
The political season has given way to the Holiday Season – but what do you do when the prior season found you and your spouse (or family) on opposite sides? How do you connect when you simply don’t agree? That’s what we cover in this episode. __________…
SMR#264: Naked Marriage, Getaway, and SMR Academy
Nov 23, 2016
Today we take care of a little house-keeping. There are some great things happening at Sexy Marriage Radio … The Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway 2017 Bed Buddy Club Members can register now (you will have to log into your account to access the payment page)…
SMR#263: Books That Shaped Our View, Part 2
Nov 16, 2016
Last week we covered several books that helped shape our views about marriage, sexuality and our role as counselors. This week is part two of our list. Enjoy. Shannon’s books: Arousal – Michael Bader Divine Romance – Gene Edwards The Mystery of Marriage –…
SMR#262: Books That Shaped Our View
Nov 9, 2016
There are many things that influence and define our view or life, marriage, and sex. In today’s episode we discuss the impactful books that helped shape us professionally. Enjoy. Shannon’s books: Daily Meditations for Women Who Love Too Much – Robin…
SMR#261: Knowing vs Caring, Part 2
Nov 2, 2016
There is a difference between knowing something and caring about something. In episode #257 we began this conversation, today we expand it. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …
SMR#260: Bids For Relationship
Oct 26, 2016
We make bids every day. Some are more overt and straight-forward than others. So how do bids play out in your marriage? What’s that? You don’t know what a bid is? Then listen to today’s episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#259: When A Spouse Does Not Like To Talk
Oct 19, 2016
In every marriage relationship there is a talker and a no-talker (or a talk-less talker). This can create a great deal of angst both within you and between you. That’s what we discuss in today’s episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#258: Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 5!
Oct 12, 2016
On October 10, 2011 Sexy Marriage Radio hit the airwaves! Join us this week as we celebrate 5 years! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …
SMR#257: Knowing vs. Caring
Oct 5, 2016
Many of us believe that if our spouse knew what we struggle with or what we need then they would offer it or change it. But what if they do know and we interpret that as they don’t care? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question?…
SMR#256: Fetishes
Sep 28, 2016
What’s a fetish? If you don’t know, be sure to listen. That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …
SMR#255: Stop Shoulding On Yourself
Sep 21, 2016
Shoulds are everywhere. Far too often it’s our shoulds that cause the most frustration and pain. How often do the shoulds impact your marriage? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com.…
SMR#254: Boldly Go Where You Haven’t Gone Before
Sep 14, 2016
Routine plays a role in life. But it also causes boredom. So how can you “boldly go” where you haven’t gone before? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage…
SMR#253: Amateur Videos
Sep 7, 2016
We are big advocates for spicing things up in sex. That’s part of why Sexy Marriage Radio exists. But what about spicing it up with videos or cameras? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#252: Porn and ED
Aug 31, 2016
We have several shows on the effects of porn and marriage, but what is the relationship between porn and ED? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below…
SMR#251: Orgasm Is A Poor Litmus Test For Great Sex
Aug 24, 2016
Orgasm gets lots of focus when it comes to sex. But what if orgasm is actually a horrible litmus test when it comes to what makes great sex? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com.…
SMR#250: When Sex Is Painful
Aug 17, 2016
Sex can be a lot of things. Some of them good, some bad. What about when sex is painful? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …
SMR#249: Sexual Courage
Aug 10, 2016
Courage surrounds a lot of things. But what about sexual courage? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …
SMR#248: Doing The Best You Can
Aug 3, 2016
You’ve likely heard about the idea of people doing the best they can with what they have, but what about when people don’t? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy…
SMR#247: Keeping a Marital High
Jul 27, 2016
Most everyone has experienced an emotional high in life, or marriage. The euphoria of a vacation, a getaway, a great weekend. So how do you keep it going? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#246: Sex Hacks
Jul 20, 2016
A hack is something that makes things easier or improves it. So what are some good sex hacks? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below …
SMR#245: How Is A Relationship With God Sexual?
Jul 13, 2016
My guess is this isn’t a question you’ve asked yourself? But we did while at the SMR Getaway and it lead to some great discussions among the listeners who attended. That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#244: The Importance of Emotional Intimacy
Jul 6, 2016
Intimacy is something most everyone seeks. But what does intimacy really mean? Is it physical, or emotional? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below…
SMR#243: The Importance of Physical Intimacy
Jun 29, 2016
Intimacy is something most everyone seeks. But what’s so important about the physical aspects of intimacy in marriage? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage…
SMR#242: Getting Your Spouse In The Mood
Jun 22, 2016
There can be a lot of turmoil surround the idea of “being in the mood.” Specifically when you may be in the mood and your spouse isn’t. So who’s job is it to help get your spouse in the mood? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a…
SMR#241: Guilt and Shame
Jun 15, 2016
There are many different meanings associated with sex and sexuality. And not all of them are good. Especially, guilt and shame. That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy…
SMR#240: Staycation Sex
Jun 8, 2016
Summer is here! Time for sun, fun, and sex. If you don’t plan on a vacation this summer, have you thought about planning a staycation? What about staycation sex? That’s what we discuss in today’s show. __________ Got a question? Email us at…
SMR#239: Three Different Types of Sex
Jun 1, 2016
Based on listener emails we’ve been asked about several different types of sex. Today we discuss three. Which ones are they? You’ll have to listen. Last chance to register for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Only a couple of spots left! You can read…
SMR#238: Surviving an Affair
May 25, 2016
This seems like a logical follow-up to last week’s show … surviving an affair. If your relationship has experienced betrayal, then you should listen to hear about a great way to address healing and moving forward. That what we talk about in today’s show.…
SMR#237: Old Flames
May 18, 2016
There are times when an old flame re-enters your world. Or you intentionally seek them out. But be warned: this can be one of the most destructive things to your marriage. That what we talk about in today’s show. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy…
SMR#236: Married To A Workaholic
May 11, 2016
Some seasons of life require one spouse to spend long hours at work, or school, or both plus more things that take them away from the relationship and family. What do you do when you’re married to a workaholic? That what we talk about in today’s show.…
SMR#235: Long Distance Relationship Tips
May 4, 2016
There are times when you can’t be with your spouse, either because of business or military service or schooling, etc. So how do you maintain a steamy connection while you’re apart? That what we talk about in today’s show. Registration is open for the 2016…
SMR#234: It’s Always About Sex With You
Apr 27, 2016
Perhaps you’ve heard (or said) this before. It can become quite a bind for both parties when you are gridlocked over sex. In today’s show, we address a couple of emails on this very subject. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway.…
SMR#233: Ticklishness
Apr 20, 2016
A topic we have not covered on Sexy Marriage Radio, ticklishness. It can be something that adds playfulness and laughter, or it can derail foreplay and sex. That’s what we address in today’s episode. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio…
SMR#232: Forgiving Yourself
Apr 13, 2016
Our episodes on forgiveness really hit home for many of our listeners. But there was one aspect we didn’t cover, forgiving yourself. That’s what we address in today’s episode. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. You can read…
SMR#231: A Potpourri of Emails
Apr 6, 2016
We have some of the greatest listeners and the greatest emailers, so today we simply spend the entire show answering emails. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. You can read more and register here. __________ Got a question?…
SMR#230: Forgiveness Part Two
Mar 30, 2016
We received a lot of email from our previous show about forgiving and forgetting, so much so that in this episode we answer emails from listeners about last week’s topic. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. The Early Bird…
SMR#229: Forgiving and Forgetting
Mar 23, 2016
Forgiving is a vital part of marriage. At least a marriage that lasts and thrives. But what about the relationship between forgiveness and forgetting? That’s what we discuss. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. The Early Bird…
SMR#228: Rebooting Your Sex Life
Mar 16, 2016
Whenever you have trouble with your computer, you’ve likely heard the statement, “Did you try rebooting?” What if you did this with your sex life? That’s what we discuss. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. You can read more and…
SMR#227: A Chronically Negative Spouse
Mar 9, 2016
Every marriage has one person who sees the silver lining in things, or who is a half-full kind of person, or is always optimistic. That means the other spouse is the negative one. Which one are you? That’s what we discuss. Registration is open for the…
SMR#226: Taking The Lead
Mar 2, 2016
There will always be one person who leads. Is that you or your spouse? And what’s the importance of being a good lead? That’s what we discuss. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. You can read more and register here. __________…
SMR#225: One Sided Sex
Feb 24, 2016
In response to last week’s episode, today we answer several listener responses. What’s one sided sex? That’s what we discuss. Registration is open for the 2016 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. You can read more and register here. __________ Got a question?…
SMR#224: Sex When Your Spouse Isn’t Into It
Feb 17, 2016
There are times when sex will happen and one spouse isn’t into it. Does this mean something is wrong? More importantly, what do you do when this happens in your sex life? That’s what we discuss in this week’s episode. PLUS: Registration is now open for…