Kate's Nuggets

Kate's Nuggets

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Bite-sized chunks of wisdom about self-leadership for you to chew on..


The Importance of Rest
Oct 7 • 12 min
Rest is a crucial part of life. Especially when we are stressed and things are busy. In this episode, Kate discusses rest as a radical act and rest as the foundation of productivity.
Connecting with Your Inner Sage
Sep 30 • 10 min
Your Inner Sage is capable of handling every situation you might encounter. All you have to do is learn how to put it in charge. In this episode, Kate helps you get to know this very powerful part of your consciousness.
The Anatomy of Fear
Sep 23 • 14 min
Many of our self-sabotaging behaviors are overactive responses to fear. In this episode, Kate describes the anatomy of fear and discusses how understanding that anatomy can help us learn more appropriate fear responses.
Connecting to the Largest Possible Community
Sep 16 • 9 min
We all belong exactly where we are, but we don’t always feel like we belong. In this episode, Kate describes a powerful way of increasing our felt sense of belonging.
Cultivate Courage Through Commitment
Sep 9 • 14 min
One powerful way to overcome the disruptive effects of fear is through commitment. In this episode, Kate discusses some ways to think about and work with commitment.
Feelings Need to be Validated, Not Obeyed
Sep 2 • 17 min
Emotions are messages from our non-cognitive intelligences about the state of our world and what actions we might want to take. We need to take them seriously, but we don’t want to be ruled by them.
The Importance of Noticing the Good Stuff
Aug 26 • 19 min
When life feels tough, it is more important than ever to have a practice of noticing the good that exists simultaneously.
Different Moods, Different Neurotransmitters, Different Tools
Aug 19 • 19 min
There are so many self-care tools to choose from. How do you decide how to spend your time? If you understand which neurotransmitter is involved in the mood or experience you are trying to shift, it is easier to decide.
Mindfulness in Action
Aug 12 • 15 min
It is one thing to be mindful and compassionate when things are calm, but how do we stay open and loving when the world is exploding around us? In this episode, Kate provides some ideas for practicing mindfulness in action.
Use Sympathetic Joy to Improve Your Relationships
Aug 5 • 17 min
Episode Summary: One of the easiest ways to improve relationships is to celebrate each other’s joy whether we understand it or not.
How to Increase Your Powers of Compassion
Jul 29 • 15 min
We can get cut off from our natural compassionate natures because we didn’t know how to handle the tenderness. In this episode, Kate provides some tools for rekindling your compassion and managing the associated vulnerability.
Cultivating Grace Through Action
Jul 22 • 12 min
How can you create the elegant simplicity and ease of grace when things are busy, complicated, or stressful?
How to Find a Motivating Perspective in any Situation
Jul 15 • 13 min
What can you do when lack of motivation to get started is stopping you from reaching your goals?
The Difference Between Helping and Being of Service
Jul 8 • 20 min
Too often, when we try to help people it doesn’t go well. We may not understand why they don’t take our feedback or advice. We feel unappreciated. Frequently, they feel patronized. In this episode, Kate offers an alternative approach.
4 Tools for Emotional Control in a Crisis
Jul 1 • 11 min
Kate shares 4 tools for quickly calming the emotional storm provoked by a crisis so you can avoid becoming paralyzed, or overreactive and can act with courage and clarity.
How to Feel Your Feelings Without Becoming Overwhelmed
Jun 24 • 19 min
If we are afraid of being overwhelmed by our feelings, we avoid feeling them, at great cost to our mental health and our effectiveness.
The Power of Your Inner Witness
Jun 17 • 17 min
When we are able to observe ourselves as if from the perspective of an external witness, we are able to speed up our growth and personal development. In this episode, Kate shares tips on how to develop this inner power of self-observation.
The Differences Between Stress, Strain, and Trauma
Jun 10 • 19 min
Stress needs to be managed, strain needs to be reduced, and trauma needs to be healed.
Finding Your Way When You Are Exhausted and Things Feel Futile
Jun 3 • 25 min
When we are overextended and want to give up or can’t get motivated, there are some gentle, easy things we can do to help get us moving again.
Fun and The Art of Enjoying Life When Times are Tough
May 27 • 13 min
Having fun is more important than ever when things get rough. Here are some tips on enjoying the journey while minimizing unintended negative long-term consequences.
How to Maximize Your Resilience
May 20 • 14 min
Extreme resilience is created through consistent use of a few teachable and learnable skills.
Cultivating Compassion When Things Feel Scary
May 13 • 14 min
Are you finding it harder than usual to give others the benefit of the doubt? Are you judging yourself or others for being overly cautious or overly reckless? This is normal. When people feel threatened or afraid, we tend to judge others more harshly.
Permission to Grumble & Permission to Thrive
May 6 • 9 min
Whatever you are feeling is okay. There is no way you SHOULD be feeling. You feel how you feel and there is wisdom and value in whatever you feel.
How to Not Make Things Worse When People Are Irritable
Apr 29 • 15 min
Kate presents a simple approach to keeping things as positive as possible when people are irritable.
Planning When the Future is Uncertain
Apr 22 • 19 min
When the future is wildly uncertain, planning is difficult. How can we maximize our ability to take advantage of opportunities and minimize our exposure to risk? Kate presents an approach to planning that can be used to navigate rapid change with maximum…
Emergency Stress Relief Process
Apr 15 • 11 min
When you are stressed or anxious and can’t spare time for a lengthy calming process, you need an emergency stress relief process.
You ARE Adaptable. Don’t Believe Me? Here’s the Evidence.
Apr 8 • 18 min
With all the changes happening in the world, many people are questioning their ability to successfully adapt and thrive in the new world. In this episode, Kate talks about the natural human capacity for adapting to change and offers a practice to enhance…
How to Make Good Decisions in Uncertain Times
Apr 1 • 15 min
Kate shares a process for making decisions when we can’t predict the future. These tips will help you be adaptable and flexible and maximize your ability to act from your creativity rather than your fear.
How to Feel a Sense of Control When The World Feels Chaotic
Mar 25 • 16 min
When the world and the future are uncertain, we need tools to find a sense of control and agency. In this episode, Kate shares a crucial tool for gaining a sense of control in any circumstance.
Using Anxiousness as a Springboard for Personality Development
Mar 18 • 18 min
Many people are anxious these days. In this episode, Kate explains why anxiety and depression often occur as a cycle and how to break the cycle and use anxiousness as the springboard for increasing our self-actualizing potential.
How to Be Special Without Being a Jerk
Mar 11 • 13 min
We all want to feel special, but many of us try to feel special using tactics that isolate us from people. It doesn’t have to be that way.
The Most Compelling Version of You
Mar 4 • 8 min
How to create or amplify your charisma.
Two Tools to Improve Your Relationships with Yourself and Others
Feb 26 • 20 min
We find it easier to love ourselves and other people when we cultivate two surprising attitudes: Unconditional Positive Regard and Unconditional Compassionate Disregard. What are these attitudes and how do they help? Kate explains.
Self-Care: It’s Not What You Think it Is
Feb 19 • 17 min
Self-care is about taking care of yourself, but what does that really mean? How do you distinguish self-care from self-indulgence, selfishness, or self-soothing?
Why is Mindfulness an Element of Good Self-Leadership?
Feb 12 • 20 min
What is it about mindfulness that makes it so popular and what can it really help with?
How to Disarm Your Inner Critic
Feb 5 • 15 min
We all have voices in our head that tell us we shouldn’t do things. When this voice prevents us from doing the things that will make us happy, we need tools to work with or around it.
The 5 Elements of Thriving
Jan 29 • 11 min
These 5 things are all necessary in order for you to feel like you are thriving. If you are missing any one, you will have a feeling that something is missing even if you can’t identify it.
Dealing with Big Ambitions without Getting Discouraged
Jan 27 • 5 min
When we have big ambitions, the gap between where we are and where we want to be can feel overwhelming. Here are some tips on how to manage that gap.
Getting Curious About Ourselves
Jan 22 • 6 min
Cultivating curiosity about ourselves enables us to interact more authentically in all situations.
Dealing with Fear, Shame, and Resistance
Jan 15 • 6 min
Learning to handle fear, shame, and resistance is crucial for effective self-leadership.
Asking for Help is a Leadership Skill
Jan 8 • 7 min
Many people believe that asking for help is a form of weakness, when in fact, the opposite is true.
Self-Leadership for Intense or Highly-Sensitive People
Jan 7 • 3 min
Making the shift from being highly reactive to being the leader your life AS a highly-sensitive or intense person creates a greater sense of ease and competence.
Creating a Vision When You Don’t Know What You Want
Jan 1 • 9 min
How do you know which changes to make in your life if you don’t know what you want? What can you do to start the process of forming a vision? Kate Arms talks about why some people have difficulty finding a vision and provides a few options for how to…
Recognizing a High-Stakes Conversation
Dec 25, 2019 • 8 min
High-stakes conversations take more preparation and greater skill than low stakes conversations. How do you recognize a high-stakes conversation?
The Mindset of Conscious Self-Leadership
Dec 18, 2019 • 7 min
Cultivating the mindset of self-leadership is the starting point for developing all the other self-leadership skills.
Introducing Kate Arms and Kate’s Nuggets
Dec 11, 2019 • 8 min
Kate Arms, CEO and Lead Coach at Signal Fire Coaching introduces herself and talks about the ways Kate’s Nuggets can help you develop your self-leadership skills.