We Don't Talk About That with Lucas Land

We Don't Talk About That with Lucas Land

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The podcast where we talk about things we’re not supposed to, learn how to have difficult conversations, and talk to people about what makes them different.


036: Hometown Conversation with Mary Beth Kendrick Part 1
Jul 13 • 52 min
Show Notes Reply All #149 30-50 Feral Hogs - https://gimletmedia.com/shows/reply-all/n8hw3d Support the Podcast - https://www.patreon.com/wdtatpodcast Leave us a voicemail! https://www.speakpipe.com/wdtatpodcast Email your feedback to…
035: The Change Code with Monica Bourgeau
Jun 29 • 53 min
Guest Plugs Monica Bourgeau - https://monicabourgeau.com/ The Change Code Book - https://thechangecode.net/ The Change Code - http://facebook.com/groups/thechangecode 7 ways to change the world huffington post…
034: Can We Say Lynching? with Musiki Glover Part 2
Jun 15 • 44 min
Part 2 of my conversation with my friend Musiki Glover about race, racism, using the word lynching, and her experience growing up as a black woman. Just a heads up since I know there are listeners who listen with their kids, there are a couple expletives…
033: Can We Say Lynching? with Musiki Glover Part 1
Jun 8 • 45 min
In this episode I talk to my friend Musiki Glover about race, racism, using the word lynching, and her experience growing up as a black woman. Just a heads up since I know there are listeners who listen with their kids, there are a couple expletives…
032: Practice Makes Better with Gary Goodson
May 25 • 57 min
Show Notes Paul Tillich - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_Tillich John Shelby Spong - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Shelby_Spong End of Faith by Sam Harris - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/29501.The_End_of_Faith Skepticism -…
031: Spiral Dynamics with Steve McDonald Part 2
May 11 • 44 min
This is part two of my conversation with Steve Mcdonald about Spiral Dynamics. In this episode we make the leap from Tier 1 to Tier 2 and talk about what the heck that means. If you haven’t listened to part 1 yet, you might want to listen to it first…
030: Spiral Dynamics with Steve McDonald Part 1
Apr 27 • 37 min
Guest Plugs Future Sense Podcast - http://futuresense.it Steve McDonald - https://www.eman8.net/ AADII Change Agency - https://www.aadii.org/ Switzerland Talk 2018 - https://youtu.be/Iz6RNJPUUak Show Notes Image of spiral dynamics model -…
029: Fake News with The News Literacy Project
Apr 12 • 35 min
In this episode I talk to Suzannah Gonzales of The News Literacy Project about why there's so much misinformation, what w can do about it, and how her organization can help! Guest Plugs The News Literacy Project - https://newslit.org/ Checkology FREE to…
028: Cross-Cultural Life and Love with Sharyl Loeung
Mar 29 • 64 min
Well, when I recorded this interview with my friend Sharyl we lived in a very different world. We weren’t thinking about global pandemics, social distancing, or using zoom quite as much as we are now. Many of us are sheltering in place and facing…
027: Encountering Silence with Carl McColman Part 2
Mar 15 • 40 min
In part 2 of my conversation with Carl McColman we talk about technology’s effect on us, why we are afraid of silence, and what it can contribute to better conversations. On his podcast Encountering silence they always take a 30 second pause of silence in…
026: Encountering Silence with Carl McColman Part 1
Mar 8 • 43 min
In this episode I talk to Carl McColman about technology’s effect on us, why we are afraid of silence, and what it can contribute to better conversations. This will be a two part conversation that we will finish next week. On his podcast Encountering…
025: Our Better Angels with Paul Kirst
Mar 1 • 57 min
In this episode I talk with Paul Kirst about his work with Better Angels to teach and promote dialogue across the red and blue divide. We also discuss civil wars both past and future and what they might teach us. Show Notes Better Angels Workshops -…
Episode 24: 024: Civic Engagement with Erin Payseur Oeth
Feb 23 • 67 min
In this episode I talk to Erin Payseur Oeth about how to get beyond the binary in our discussions, being co-creators of the communities where we live, and we reveal the hidden truth that… the government is us! Guest Plugs What is Public Deliberation? By…
023: LGBTQ Identities with Rev Erica Lea Simka
Feb 16 • 70 min
In this episode I talk to Pastor Erica Lea Simka about LGBTQ identities and terminology, practice introducing myself with my pronouns, get corrected more than once, and we almost have an altar call when she tells me about the antidote to call out culture.…
022: The Energy of Empathy with Michael Evans
Feb 9 • 63 min
In this episode I talk to Michael Evans about empathy, what it is and how it works. We also talk about our feelings, why dads are the MOST emotional, and develop our new brand… the Baptist Buddha! Guest Plug Empathy & Podcast - http://www.empathyand.com/…
021: All About Sex with Julie Jeske
Feb 2 • 60 min
Lucas talks with sex therapist Julie Jeske about how to talk about sex, why it's so difficult, and what the BDSM kink community can teach all of us about how to improve our relationships! Guest Plugs Julie Jeske - http://juliejeske.com Swoon Podcast -…
020: Immigration with Anali Looper
Jan 26 • 53 min
Lucas talks to immigration lawyer Anali Looper about why people migrate to other countries, myths about immigration, and we get down and dirty with the nitty-gritty details of the immigration system. Guest Plug American Gateways -…
019: The Curiosity Hour with Tommy Estlund
Jan 19 • 55 min
In this episode I talk to Tommy Estlund about his podcast the Curiosity Hour, how we know when to block or unfriend someone, and why we don’t want to be like Marty McFly. Guest Plugs The Curiosity Hour Podcast - http://thecuriosityhourpodcast.com Tommy…
018: Unschooling with Pam Larrichia
Jan 12 • 56 min
Lucas talks to Pam Larrichia about unschooling, awkward conversations about parenting, and ways we can work on connecting more with our kids and each other. Show Notes Living Joyfully with Unschooling - https://livingjoyfully.ca/ Exploring Unschooling…
017: Addicted to Hating Your Enemies with Geoff Holsclaw
Jan 5 • 66 min
In this episode I talk with Geoff Holsclaw about why Facebook arguments are like heroin, understanding the ways our brains work, and when we should have enemies. Guest Plugs Geoff Holsclaw - http://geoffreyholsclaw.net The God With Us Podcast -…
016: Addiction and Recovery with Christina Gibson
Dec 15, 2019 • 59 min
Just a couple notes before this episode. This episode talks about addiction and recovery. We don’t dwell a lot on trauma, but we do mention some of the painful things that are often connected to it such as suicide and sexual assault. They are only briefly…
015: Beyond Shame with Matthias Roberts
Dec 8, 2019 • 47 min
Lucas talks to Matthias Roberts about his new book Beyond Shame. Lucas also confesses that Matthias is his style guru and he has been stealing his haircut for years! Guest Plugs Matthias Roberts - https://matthiasroberts.com Pre-Order and email receipt to…
014: Better Conversations with C. Christopher Smith
Dec 2, 2019 • 62 min
In this episode I talk to C. Christopher Smith about what he has learned from over a decade of intentional conversations in his church, different ways to make our conversations better, and I solve the mystery of his first initial. Guest Plugs C.…
013: Oriented to Faith with Tim Otto
Nov 25, 2019 • 58 min
Lucas talks to author Tim Otto about being gay in Christian community, what we're afraid of, and finding love in all kinds of places! Guest Plugs Oriented to Faith by Tim Otto - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/22812306-oriented-to-faith Show Notes…
012: Convictions, Conversations, and Economics with Justin Tapp
Nov 18, 2019 • 45 min
Lucas talks to Justin Tapp about lessons we have learned living in other countries, assumptions we bring to dialogue, and the line between having convictions and keeping an open mind! Show Notes: God The Economist by M. Douglas Meeks -…
011: Community Engagement with Ashley Bean Thornton
Nov 11, 2019 • 67 min
Lucas talks with Ashley Bean Thornton about working with the community, the role of experts, and how to invite mean people to breakfast. Show Notes Hurricane Katrina Recovery and History –…
010: Old Friends, New Religions, and Referees with Gary Goodson
Nov 4, 2019 • 61 min
Lucas talks to long-time friend Gary Goodson about the hard conversations they've had over the years and doctrines for their new religion. Gary is the first person to have to be censored on the show to keep it family-friendly! Show Notes The New Atheists…
009: Praise Sandwiches, Curiosity, and Conflict with Elise Willer
Oct 28, 2019 • 57 min
Lucas talks to international conflict mediator and consultant Elise Willer about her work, tips and tricks for dealing with conflict, and the little man that lives inside me. Show Notes Border Immersion Experience –…
008: Growing Up Zapotec with Luis Matias Cruz
Oct 21, 2019 • 41 min
Luis Matias Cruz talks about growing up Zapotec, moving to the city, falling in love, and moving to the US. Show Notes Zapotec – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zapotec_peoples Monte Alban – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monte_Alb%C3%A1n Ethnocide –…
007: Chronic Illness, Community Life, and Inspiration Porn with Amanda Moore
Oct 14, 2019 • 55 min
Amanda Moore shares her journey with chronic illness, helps us with what to say and what NOT to say, and educates us on inspiration porn. Asking questions is a kindness! Guest Plugs Email Amanda Moore amanda@koinoniafarm.org The Mighty…
006: Growing Up Two-Spirit, Cherokee, and Lutheran with Vance Blackfox
Oct 7, 2019 • 59 min
Lucas gets corrected by Vance Blackfox for not listening close enough. We learn about the history of the Two-Spirit movement and what it’s like to grow up Cherokee, Lutheran, and Two-Spirit! Guest Plugs Other+Wise http://otherwise.red Native Americans in…
005: Abortion in Argentina with Lucy D’Cruz
Sep 30, 2019 • 46 min
Lucas talks to filmmaker Lucy D’Cruz about her film My Body, Their Choice about the abortion debate in Argentina. We discuss Argentina’s “La Loca del Bebito” or Crazy Baby Lady and ways we can try to have better dialogue and understanding about abortion,…
004: Parenting After Significant Loss with Dr. Renee Turner
Sep 23, 2019 • 49 min
In this episode Lucas talks to Dr. Renee Turner about parenting after significant loss, debunking myths about dealing with grief, how to be a "good enough" parent, and whether he will be billed for this super helpful episode! Guest Plugs Dr. Renee…
003: Growing Up in Kenya, Cultural Exchange, and Black Panther with Joy Anindo
Sep 16, 2019 • 62 min
Lucas talks to Joyfrida Anindo about what it was like growing up in Kenya and whether or not she had a pet giraffe. What it was like becoming a parent and inevitably becoming like your parents! Living and learning with volunteers from around the world,…
002: Politics, LGBTQ Inclusion, and Detroit with Rev Samuel Doyle
Sep 9, 2019 • 59 min
Lucas talks to Rev Samuel Doyle of Greater New Light Baptist Church about seeing different sides of the abortion debate, growing up in Detroit, and attempting an experiment to switch sides on LGBTQ inclusion in the church. Show Notes Wesleyan…
001: Nonviolent Communication with Kelly Lawson
Sep 1, 2019 • 58 min
Kelly and Lucas discuss Nonviolent Communication, the 4-part process, feelings, needs, and why Lucas’ feet smell bad. Show Notes Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/71730.Nonviolent_Communication Respectful…