What She's Thinking: men's dating & sex questions answered by women

What She's Thinking: men's dating & sex questions answered by women

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Men like you submit questions on dating & sex, I interview a group of women to get their various answers. I help them explain answers in ways men will understand, and keep them focused on positive feedback (what they like and want us to do more of).


Covid-19 Cuties Z and C, part 2: why Z is having more sex, but dating less, and C isn’t dating at all
May 17 • 20 min
How can we date during the Coronavirus pandemic, aka COVID-19? 35-year-olds Z and C answer questions about how they’re dating during this era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing. Submit your questions or Come on the Show!…
Covid-19 Cuties Z and C, part 1: why Z is having more sex, but dating less, and C isn’t dating at all
May 10 • 23 min
How can we date during the Coronavirus pandemic, aka COVID-19? 35-year-olds Z and C answer questions about how they’re dating during this era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing. Submit your questions or Come on the Show!…
Bonus Coronavirus episode for women: do you want sex more or less during the pandemic, types of video dates
May 1 • 13 min
Bonus episode for women. The ladies on the last interview asked for advice for themselves, so I thought I’d share that with you. Please email me and let me know what you think of the episode! I’m greg@debugdating.com. If you’d be interested in hearing…
More Coronavirus Dating with S and D: do you want sex more or less during the pandemic, types of video dates
Apr 25 • 18 min
Once COVID-19 hit, I knew I wanted to restart this podcast. Like many of my friends, I’m sure you’re wondering how to date right now. So pardon the lower quality audio of my guests! How can we date during the Coronavirus (aka COVID-19)? S and D answer…
Coronavirus Dating with S and D, part 1: dates in the era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing
Apr 19 • 27 min
Once COVID-19 hit, I knew I wanted to restart this podcast. Like many of my friends, I’m sure you’re wondering how to date right now. So pardon the lower quality audio of my guests! How can we date during the Coronavirus pandemic, aka COVID-19? S and D…
Top 2 love languages, what does “gifts” really mean, should I send a 2nd message, “good” aggressiveness vs scary, how a man can tell her sex drive
Apr 13, 2019 • 27 min
A (27), J (27), Lauren (37) answer your questions about dating and sex. In the San Francisco Bay Area? I’m hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we’ll:- Debug your…
No kiss by the 2nd date=move on, best activity for 1st date, does work stress affect your libido, and more!
Apr 5, 2019
A (27), J (27), Lauren (37) answer your questions about dating and sex. In the San Francisco Bay Area? I’m hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we’ll:- Debug your…
Who pays on 1st date, favorite foreplay spots, how to ask if she likes what you’re doing during sex, attractive parts of men’s bodies, things she appreciates when you do
Mar 21, 2019 • 28 min
R (36), S (27), and G (26) finish answering your questions about dating and sex. In the SF Bay Area? I’m hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we’ll:- Debug your…
Best way to get consent, length of ideal sex session, creating connection on a date, top 2 languages of love, discussing fantasies that aren’t mainstream
Mar 15, 2019 • 34 min
R (36), S (27), and G (26) answer your questions about dating and sex. In the SF Bay Area? I’m hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we’ll:- Debug your profile,…
Turn-ons during sex, caring about how much you make, how to tell her you’re excited for sex, how you can create connection on a date
Mar 8, 2019 • 37 min
Stefanie Maegan (28), the host of the Broke Girl Therapy podcast, and Rose McAleese (29) answer your questions! (Part 2 / 2) Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions This episode covers: - Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like…
21: work affecting libido, when to talk about sex, aggressiveness you like in a man
Feb 28, 2019 • 34 min
Stefanie Maegan (28), the host of the Broke Girl Therapy podcast, and Rose McAleese (29) answer your questions! (Part 1 / 2) Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions This episode covers: - How would you like to be approached at work? Have…
20: who pays on 1st date, do you care how much a guy makes, what can he do to help her make clear sexual requests, how does work stress affect dating and sex, optimal sex session length
Feb 25, 2019 • 28 min
Note: this episode got messed up on my podcast host, with 2 minutes of silence and a weird speed adjustment (no, I wasn’t on helium!) so I’ve re-uploaded it. Sorry about that — give it another listen! Z, Janey, and Chloe answer your questions! Office…
19: First date topics, languages of love, women’s short answers, Instagram, older vs younger matches, last things you appreciate
Feb 23, 2019 • 24 min
Z, Janey, and Chloe answer your questions! Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What are the first…
18: Non-American perspective, part 3: do you enjoy teasing men, best venues to meet potential partners, who pays on the first dates
Feb 15, 2019 • 23 min
Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions! Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - Do you enjoy teasing…
17: Non-American perspective: wanting sex more than he does, favorite foreplay spots, favorite parts of men’s bodies, breast touching, favorite ways for man to tell you he’s excited for sex
Feb 7, 2019 • 23 min
Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions! Workshops: facebook.com/debugDating/eventsSF: find a date for Valentine’s DayLA: Get the first dates you want! Office hours, Wednesday 1pm PT: facebook.com/debugdating Hear your questions get answered! Send them…
16: Non-American perspective: good first dates, creating connection, stress affecting dating & libido, asking for feedback during sex
Feb 3, 2019 • 36 min
Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions! Workshops: facebook.com/debugDating/eventsSF: find a date for Valentine’s DayLA: Get the first dates you want! Office hours, Wednesday 1pm PT: facebook.com/debugdating Hear your questions get answered! Send them…
15: Frequent travelers: How to tell she’s not interested, turn-ons before & during sex, best offline ways to meet, top languages of love
Jan 23, 2019 • 29 min
Two frequent travelers, Patricia and Anna answer your questions. Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What are your biggest turn-ons before sex? - What are your biggest turn-ons…
14: Frequent travelers: sending a 2nd message, who pays on first date, dating preferences in 20s vs 30s, men being emotionally present, talk on Instagram vs app
Jan 14, 2019 • 31 min
Two frequent travelers, Patricia and Anna answer your questions. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - After we match, if you don’t respond the first time I send a message, should I send another? - After we…
13: best places to meet besides online, turn-ons before sex, turn-ons during sex, opposites attracting, when she follows you Instagram, final things they appreciate men doing
Jan 7, 2019 • 32 min
Answering your questions about dating and sex we have: - Christina Weber, founder of Deepen - Ozzie Osbourne, a love & relationship coach with a podcast of her own: “The Sexy Shift” Plus Ozzie is collaborating with me to host a dating workshop in LA on…
12: how can men help when her work affects libido, how to tell she has a high sex drive, kickstarting her sex drive, first date topics, length of sex, how to help her ask for what she wants
Jan 5, 2019 • 27 min
Answering your questions about dating and sex we have: - Christina Weber, founder of Deepen - Ozzie Osbourne, a love & relationship coach with a podcast of her own “The Sexy Shift”. Plus Ozzie is collaborating with me to host a dating workshop in LA on…
11: Favorite ways for nipples and clit to be touched, do opposites attract, how to ask what she wants during sex, rate your sex drive
Dec 28, 2018 • 18 min
Marissa and Ms. X answer your questions about dating and sex. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What’s your favorite way to have your breasts touched? What about your nipples? - What’s your favorite way to…
10: Teasing/hinting makes sex better, wanting sex more than he does, being emotionally present in sex, dating preferences 20s vs 30s
Dec 24, 2018 • 31 min
Marissa and Ms. X answer your questions about dating and sex. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - How have you evolved in your dating preferences from 20 to 30? - How important is it that your partner be…
9: First dates, languages of love, creating connection, how to see if she’s not into you
Dec 20, 2018 • 32 min
J and Dr. Lanae St. John [ themamasutra.net/biography ] answer your questions about dating and sex. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What’s a good first date activity? What’s one that is boring or overdone?…
8: Making more than him, how dating online is for you vs men, profile mistakes, appreciating things men do
Dec 16, 2018 • 30 min
Lady-bosses Jessica, Hope, and Jen answer your questions about dating and sex. This is the third and final part of our discussion! Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - Do you care how much the guy makes? What if…
7: Turnons, talking about sexual desires, “what do you want” vs “may I?”, length of ideal sex, etiquette to get back in touch
Dec 13, 2018 • 28 min
Lady-bosses Jessica, Hope, and Jen answer your questions about dating and sex. Our discussion went so long, it’s going to be three parts! Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What are your biggest turn-ons…
6: Teasing; Foreplay spots; Saying no thanks to her, and how she’ll show she’s not interested; Where to meet besides online
Dec 10, 2018 • 32 min
Lady-bosses Jessica, Hope, and Jen answer your questions about dating and sex. Our discussion went so long, it’s going to be three parts! Part 2 is coming on Wednesday. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: This…
5: turn-offs, discussing fantasies with a guy, her sex drive compared to avg woman, how to ask what she likes, kegels
Dec 4, 2018 • 25 min
Women answer your questions about sex! Part 2 of 2. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers these questions: - I love it when my partner squeezes her kegels while we’re having sex. Is that something you can do? Do you…
4: Consent, foreplay, turn-ons, aggressiveness, length of ideal session, favorite parts of men’s bodies, and more! (Sex Q’s Part 1)
Nov 29, 2018 • 31 min
Women answer your questions about sex! Part 1 of 2. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers these questions: - What’s the best way to get consent? Explicit and direct, or a bit more nuanced? Tell us, how you tell us…
3: Should I send a second message? Why she followed you on Instagram… (Dating Q’s Part 2)
Nov 25, 2018 • 19 min
Women answer your questions about dating! Part 2 of 2.Guests: Courtney, Yijen, and Li. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers these questions: - After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what’s the next step? Do…
2: Good first dates, and should I pay? Why she sends short answers (Dating Q’s Part 1)
Nov 25, 2018 • 30 min
Women answer your questions about dating! Part 1 of 2.Guests: Courtney, Yijen, and Li. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers these questions: - Why do women so often just answer with something short (“things are…
1: Hello & What this podcast is about (trailer)
Nov 25, 2018 • 1 min
Hello! I’m Greg Schwartz, thanks for listening to this podcast. On each episode I ask a group of women questions submitted by men like you. Questions on dating, sex, whatever you’d like to know. To submit your questions, go to…