The Things We Don't See

The Things We Don't See

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Motivational and educational podcast discussing mental and emotional health and how our struggles in life can unite us and make us stronger people.


The Freelance Flutters ~ Letters to January #2
Jan 29 • 12 min
I am a freelancer, which can - at times - be a very inconsistent lifestyle to lead, full of ups and downs. In today’s entry, I talk a little bit about how this affects me in my everyday life.
Monkey Minded TEDx Speaker ~ Letters to January #1
Jan 6 • 29 min
I am knee-deep in TEDx rehearsals, but finding it so hard to keep my mind on the matter at hand!! 😱
Test Your Relationship at Christmas ~ Letters to December #7
Dec 24, 2019 • 15 min
The fun and games of exploring a Christmas market when you can’t see!
You Can HEAR Rolls of Eyes! ~ Letters to December #6
Dec 24, 2019 • 17 min
When you dress up as an elf and suddenly people start reacting to you differently!
Shmooze ~ Letters to December #5
Dec 13, 2019 • 17 min
My experience looking in the Men’s Department!
Wasted Time? ~ Letters to December #4
Dec 11, 2019 • 15 min
today, i spent HOURS working on a project which didn’t really pay off for me at all. It was a long and arduous process, but i think i managed to learn some things from it along the way!
Unexpected Visitors ~ Letters to December #3
Dec 11, 2019 • 18 min
We all like to pretend that our houses are pristine - but i had NO opportunity to do that when some unexpected visitors arrived. Here is the utter chaos which ensued. How should I have handled this?
Learning by Doing ~ Letters to December 2019 #2
Dec 9, 2019 • 18 min
Ever copped out of doing something because you didn’t know how and convinced yourself you would break things if you tried? Sure, me too. Today was a day of technological challenges OVERCOME! Sometimes small victories are the very best kind.
Editing is not Honesty ~ Letters to December 2019 #1
Dec 8, 2019 • 17 min
I have many thoughts which come up throughout my day, so I decided to brain dump them onto a fun little chatette of a podcast. Each day i record will have its own little nugget of my very own brand of wisdom for your listening consumption. This episode…
How My Stepdad’s Death Changed My Life ft. Charlotte O’Callaghan
May 30, 2019 • 25 min
Charlotte came home from work one day to discover her stepdad dead inside their living room. In the first of a two-part interview, I talk to Charlotte about the impact that had on her then, the emotional journey she has been on since that point and the…
Why You Aren’t Moving Forward // The Things We Don’t See
May 14, 2019 • 20 min
It is so easy to stay stagnant on a project, idea or in a part of your life you were once so excited about. Today I discuss how you can break out of this funk and how to start moving forward again. Are you the one holding yourself back?
How People Get Away With Treating You Badly // The Things We Don’t See
Apr 4, 2019 • 16 min
Sometimes we are selective about the sides of people that we choose to see. We can often tell ourselves that somebody is a “great person” even when they are not treating us great at all. If we can become aware of this, we can more easily determine the…
Why Loss Is Important To Life // The Things We Don’t See
Nov 26, 2018 • 37 min
In this episode, I discuss what it is like to go through the loss of a loved one. I tell ny own personal story of this, (regarding the recent passing of my aunty) talk about how those who succeed in life are not necessarily better than we are, explore our…
Why You Can’t Accept Yourself // The Things We Don’t See
Nov 12, 2018 • 29 min
In this episode, I talk about acceptance. I tell my own story of acceptance and about accepting my disability, I look at the psychology of acceptance and some of the negative connotation associated with the word, I discuss the experience of a lady on a…
The Psychology of Fear // The Things We Don’t See
Nov 4, 2018 • 28 min
In light of Halloween, I decided to make this episode all about fear. I talk about my own emotional fears involving sight loss, the psychology behind fear and where phobias come from, tools to help you start to navigate your way through situations in…
Blindness and Mental Health // The Things We Don’t See
Oct 28, 2018 • 16 min
The Things We Don’t See is a motivational podcast designed to look at people’s inner-struggles, based on their emotional and mental health, to identify ways to help improve these areas in our own lives and to learn from the experiences of others. In this…