Good Girls Talk About Sex

Good Girls Talk About Sex

www.leahcarey.com
Deep conversations with women about their personal experience of sex and female sexuality.


Hair down there or are you bare?
Jul 30 • 36 min
Do you have hair down there, or are you bare? A chorus of women answer the question. Plus: Is it okay to hate giving blow jobs? FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/hair-down-there-or-are-you-bare Book a PJ Party!!! www.leahcarey.com/pjparty…
Don’t marry someone you haven’t slept with - Heather
Jul 23 • 44 min
Heather grew up assuming she would marry a man and have children. So she did. But sex was never a good experience … until she had sex with a woman. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/heather-dont-marry-somebody-you-havent-slept-with Book a…
Do you prefer clit stimulation or penetration?
Jul 16 • 29 min
Leah tackles the hierarchy of orgasms—and getting there at all. This week women respond to whether they prefer clit or vaginal stimulation, which opens up a penetrating (see what we did there?!) discussion about preferences. FULL SHOW NOTES:…
I’m so f’ing multi-orgasmic - Stacey
Jul 9 • 46 min
Stacey has had a rich sex life, and now finds happiness, satisfaction, and opportunity for personal growth in open relationships. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/stacey-im-so-fing-multi-orgasmic Book a PJ Party!!! Info and registrations…
How many people have you had sex with?
Jul 2 • 32 min
Leah has asked many of her interviewees how many sexual partners they’ve had. It turns out there is no number that is “normal.” FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/how-many-people-have-you-had-sex-with BOOK A PJ PARTY!!! All the info and…
I was told I had ‘such a pretty face’ - Jessica
Jun 25 • 46 min
Jessica is one of so many women who have been told, “You have such a pretty face, if you could only lose 50 pounds…” FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/jessica-i-was-told-i-had-such-a-pretty-face CALL-IN: 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739)…
Do you have sex during your period?
Jun 18 • 21 min
Examining two questions: “Do you have sex during your period?” and “How do I feel attractive and sexy again after major surgery?” FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/do-you-have-sex-during-your-period CALL-IN: 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739)…
If he doesn’t ejaculate, is it sex? - Melissa
Jun 11 • 49 min
After childhood sexual abuse, Melissa is determined to keep unpacking her experiences and shaping a sex life that feels like actual fun. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/melissa-if-he-doesnt-ejaculate-is-it-sex CALL-IN: Want to leave a…
Voices of Color - Raising the volume
Jun 4 • 36 min
This week we put aside the regular episode to feature the stories and voices of women and non-binary folx of color. Podcasts mentioned are: • Courage Hackers with Nesha Frazier • Brown Girl Self-Care with Bre Mitchell • So-Called Oreos with Kia, Janae,…
The worse I felt, the more sex I had - Maya
May 28 • 40 min
Maya shares how religion affected her sexuality, the way she used sex to fill an emotional void, and the pleasure she has found with her husband. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/maya-the-worse-i-felt-the-more-sex-i-had CALL-IN:…
Solo – She told me I’m not broken
May 21 • 37 min
How I ended up doing a six month solo road trip around the country in my car, and the sexual healing I never expected to find while on the road. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/solo-she-told-me-im-not-broken CALL-IN: 720-GOOD-SEX…
I resented that my body was attractive to men - Lois
May 14 • 47 min
Lois carried shame into her adulthood due to childhood sexual abuse. As an adult, she found healing and had wonderful sex with her current husband, which has dwindled as they’ve gotten older. FULL SHOW NOTES:…
Solo – When I went to a Jamaican sex resort
May 7 • 35 min
Leah talks about learning the difference between sensual and sexual touch, learning how to determine and voice boundaries, and her ongoing battle with body image issues. FULL SHOW NOTES:…
I felt guilty about feeling pleasure - Cathy
Apr 30 • 57 min
Cathy dissociated from her body and felt huge shame as the result of childhood molestation. Today she advocates for all people to release shame and feel pleasure, regardless of their body shape and size. FULL SHOW NOTES:…
Solo - Learning to say NO before I could say YES
Apr 23 • 37 min
Leah talks about healing from childhood messaging about her body and sexuality, learning to say “no”, and how women protect men’s feelings during heterosexual sex. FULL SHOW NOTES:…
The ‘queer’ label feels good - Julia
Apr 16 • 44 min
Julia and her partner have an open relationship – but they haven’t taken advantage of it yet. This is an amazing conversation for anyone considering opening their relationship. FULL SHOW NOTES:…
Solo - I saw a lot of things I didn’t understand
Apr 9 • 34 min
In these new solo episodes, Leah tells her own story. Today, she talks about confusing messages she got around sexuality as a child. Also: listener questions! FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/solo-i-saw-a-lot-of-things-i-didnt-understand…
Never having sex again would be great – Jillian
Apr 2 • 51 min
Jillian has a significant aversion to sex. Because she is actively searching for answers, Leah provides some gentle coaching and exercises. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.leahcarey.com/podcast/never-having-sex-again-would-be-great-jillian CALL-IN: Want to…
Voluptuous Leah & Sex in the age of COVID-19
Mar 19 • 49 min
Voluptuous Leah is a plus-size model and Instagram influencer. We talk about sex in a plus-size body, people who fetishize fat, and finding a partner who appreciates her for who she is rather than the size of her body. Starting at 25:50, we talk about how…
We are brand-new baby swingers - Brianna (part 2)
Mar 6 • 42 min
Brianna grew up in the Baptist church where she learned that sex was sinful, but she and her husband have recently begun exploring swinging. In part 2 of our conversation, Brianna shares how that exploration began and how their swinging activities have…
I lied about orgasms every time - Brianna (part 1)
Mar 5 • 45 min
Brianna grew up in the Baptist church where she learned that sex was sinful. In this first of a two-part episode, Brianna talks about her early relationships, meeting her husband, and how they recently began talking about exploring swinging. Become a…
I’ve had two abortions and zero regrets - Timari
Feb 20 • 42 min
Timari wanted to share her history with abortion because it hadn’t been addressed much on the show yet. Along the way, we also talk about being raised in the Mormon church, being in an abusive marriage and cheating, and her sex life with her current…
SOLO Bonus - Update and Valentine’s Day
Feb 14 • 12 min
In this short solo episode, Leah talks about what she has learned since spoke to you directly in January - what she affectionately thinks of as her “breakdown” episode. Also: Valentine’s Day wishes and good news about the future of the “Good…
I had to get drunk to have sex - Tenisha
Feb 6 • 51 min
Tenisha is a practicing Christian who went through a period of intentional celibacy as an adult. In this conversation she talks about her early conversations in internet chat rooms, needing alcohol in order to have sex, her choice to become celibate at…
Vibrators changed my life - Jazz
Jan 23 • 45 min
Jazz is a gender non-conforming person who uses the pronouns “they” and “theirs”. The major theme of this episode is gender. Jazz talks about how genitals are not the be-all-end-all of gender. If all of the recent talk about gender as a spectrum has you…
SOLO - I have to put on my own oxygen mask first
Jan 9 • 19 min
In this special episode, Leah talks about her recent slide into anxiety and depression. The “too long, didn’t listen” version is: the podcast will continue on a regular schedule, but I’m taking a step back from everything else to give myself some time…
Year One Celebration - Q&A extravaganza
Dec 26, 2019 • 52 min
It’s been a year! In this final episode of 2019, we revisit some of our most popular conversations so far. Much of this material ended up on the cutting room floor the first time around, so it’s all-new content for regular listeners (Patreon supporters…
I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa
Dec 12, 2019 • 48 min
Lisa grew up as an elite-level gymnast, so she had a heightened awareness of her body in the world from an early age. Her first marriage was with a good man who she had no sexual chemistry with, and she ended up having many affairs. Today she is in a…
Secrets are complicated - Sarah
Nov 27, 2019 • 49 min
Through her teens and early 20s, Sarah dated MUCH older men. She talks about the pressures she felt and how the power differentials in those relationships worked. She is now married to a man her own age and in the second half of the show we talk…
A throbbing in my nether regions - Michelle
Nov 14, 2019 • 58 min
Michelle was attracted to males early in life, but those feelings cooled and she came out as a lesbian. Her wife of 17 years is the love of her life, but their physical relationship has always been difficult. Recently Michelle met a man who brought her…
Is it too late to get what I want? - Jo
Oct 31, 2019 • 45 min
Jo is a 58-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heteroflexible, and in a friends-with-benefits situation. She has physical issues that make sex challenging. Her preferred relationship style is “none” – as in, she doesn’t want a…
No one will f*ck me, I will f*ck them – Shasta
Oct 17, 2019 • 39 min
Shasta is a 45-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as Canadian First Nation/Cree, heterosexual, monogamous, and married to her husband who she has been with for 20 years. Major themes include balance of power in heterosexual relationships,…
I wish my husband would leave me - Aimee
Oct 3, 2019 • 43 min
Aimee is a 37-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, straight, and married. Although Aimee considers herself monogamous, she has recently begun an affair with another man that her husband does not know about. We talk about this…
I’m the funny one, not the pretty one – Erin
Sep 19, 2019 • 42 min
Erin is a 34-year-old, cis-gender female who describes herself as queer, in a new relationship, she isn’t certain of her preferred relationship style. Erin deals with OCD, plus related mental conditions that cause her to pull her hair and pick her skin.…
I thought I couldn’t orgasm - Martyna
Sep 5, 2019 • 45 min
Martyna is a 29-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heterosexual, monogamous, and in a relationship. She grew up in Poland and now lives in South Africa. Major themes in this episode include depression, learning about consent as an…
Sex is like Domino’s Pizza - Margot
Aug 8, 2019 • 44 min
Margot is a 39-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as black, British, bisexual and currently in an open, long-distance relationship. She also travels widely and lives for extended periods in other parts of the world, giving her insight…
I saw myself through the male gaze - Diana
Aug 1, 2019 • 45 min
Diana is a 37-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heterosexual, married and monogamous. Diana had a traumatic birth with her older son, which led to a disconnection from her body and her pleasure. She was able to have a vaginal…
There’s something to be said for having tits - Davina
Jul 25, 2019 • 58 min
Davina is a 33-year-old, trans-gender woman who describes herself as white, Jewish, queer, polyamorous and actively dating. Major themes in this episode include being transgender, discovering and navigating gender identity, and sex as a trans woman.…
I feel like my belly’s too big – Jane
Jul 18, 2019 • 44 min
Jane is a 36-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heteroflexible, monogamous and with a partner of three years. Jane went to Catholic School while she was growing up in Scotland and in her family she learned that certain topics…
When we started to explore kink – Betsy
Jul 11, 2019 • 41 min
Betsy is a 38-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, straight, monogamous and in a relationship. Betsy had sex for the first time at age 27, and after a brief period of one-night-stands, married a man whose sexual desires were…
Masturbation was more sinful than sex – Shelly
Jul 3, 2019 • 44 min
The Latter Day Lesbian
We have sex about once a month - Laina
Jun 27, 2019 • 40 min
Laina is a 33-year-old cis-gender woman who describes herself as Chinese, heterosexual, married, and monogamous. Laina has one child and struggles with body image. She believes that nobody would want to have sex with her, and that her husband only…
Exploring queer sex - Jessi (the return)
Jun 20, 2019 • 45 min
Jessi Kneeland is a 32-year old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, bisexual, single, and monogamish. Jessi gets up-close and VERY personal about her recent explorations into sex with women. This is Jessi’s second appearance on the…
I don’t know if I was ever sexually gratified - Inez
Jun 13, 2019 • 45 min
Inez is a 32-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, heterosexual, married with children, and monogamous. Inez is dealing with chronic illness and is in a currently sexless marriage. Topics covered in this interview include:…
Bad self-esteem but a great body – Danielle
Jun 6, 2019 • 43 min
Danielle is a 41-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, Jewish, heteroflexible, married and monogamous. Danielle and her husband Adam host the podcast , where they explore every hilarious, heartfelt, shocking, embarrassing, and…
It was never: I’m ready, let’s do this - Shana
May 30, 2019 • 42 min
Shana is a 41-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as biracial (half black/half white), heterosexual, monogamous and currently in a relationship. Major themes explored in this episode include healing from old hurts, learning about consent,…
Season 2 Trailer
May 23, 2019 • 5 min
Season 2 of Good Girls Talk About Sex is almost here! It begins Thursday, May 30! Make sure you’ve subscribed in your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss a single episode. Here’s to your better sex life!
Minisode with Reema Zaman
Apr 18, 2019 • 17 min
Reema Zaman is a 35-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as Bangladeshi, heterosexual, monogamous, and single. She released the book “I Am Yours” in February 2019. It is the story of reclaiming her voice after years of trauma and abuse. I…
Season One finale - The Quick Five extravaganza
Apr 4, 2019 • 37 min
Each regular episode ends with a rapid fire Q&A, “The Quick Five.” But I ask more questions than I broadcast, so this special episode is a compilation of those answers. I hope what you’ll take away from this is that however you do YOU and YOUR BODY is…
Submission is a gift because it’s hard - Amy
Mar 28, 2019 • 43 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Amy, a 47-year-old cis-gendered white woman who describes herself as bisexual and married. I was interested in talking with Amy because she teased me with this bit of info: after being with…
I warned him that I’m a plus-size girl – Elizabeth
Mar 21, 2019 • 42 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Elizabeth, a cis-gendered white woman in a monogamous heterosexual relationship who is approaching 40. Elizabeth has an active sex life with her male partner, which includes pegging. While…
I’m trans and here’s why it’s awesome – Trystan
Mar 14, 2019 • 43 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Trystan Reese, a transgender white man in a monogamous gay marriage who is 35 years old. In 2017, Trystan gave birth to a baby conceived with his husband Biff. Their story has been shared in…
Sex scenes in movies turn me on – Yaz
Mar 7, 2019 • 45 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Yaz, a 30-year-old who describes herself as half-Persian/half-European, polyamorous, and single. I wanted to interview Yaz because I recently saw her describe herself this way: “My assets…
Sex workers are selling a fantasy – Kate
Feb 28, 2019 • 42 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Kate, a cis-gendered white woman in a monogamous heterosexual marriage who is 37 years old. Kate is a stripper in Portland, Oregon. I met her one afternoon when I visited Sassy’s with a…
The STARS method
Feb 21, 2019 • 35 min
In this special bonus episode, Dr. Evelin Dacker explains the STARS method she created. It’s an easy-to-remember acronym that will help you begin conversations leading to great, consensual sex. But I don’t want you to just get the theory behind…
My sex education came from Judy Blume – Evelin
Feb 21, 2019 • 41 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Dr. Evelin Dacker, a cis-gender half-Mexican, half-Jewish polyamorous woman who is 53 years old. Evelin is a sex-positive physician in Eugene, Oregon and the CEO of Sex Positive Portland, an…
Attention came with a price tag – Jessi
Feb 14, 2019 • 41 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talked with Jessi Kneeland, a 31-year-old cis-gendered white woman who is bisexual, monogamous, and currently single. Jessi is a coach, speaker, writer, and altogether kickass person who is passionate…
Most people don’t assume I’m gay – Jenna
Feb 7, 2019 • 41 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Jenna, a 34-year-old, cis-gendered female who describes herself as white, lesbian, monogamous, and engaged to be married. Jenna knew from an early age that she was attracted to women, and…
I made out with a cousin in the closet - Stacey
Jan 31, 2019 • 44 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Stacey, a 45-year-old, cis-gendered female who describes herself as black, heterosexual, single, and non-monogamous. While some may know the term ethical non-monogamy, it’s still not spoken…
Because I was a good girl – Terri
Jan 24, 2019 • 45 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Terri, a 32-year-old, cis-gendered female who describes herself as Pakistani, straight, married and monogamous. Terri was born in Pakistan and for the first ten years of her life, she lived in…
My husband was offended by my dildo – Sharon
Jan 17, 2019 • 41 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Sharon, a 58-year-old, cis-gendered female who describes herself as Caucasian, straight, single and monogamous. Sharon opens up about her night of many firsts: first date, first kiss, and…
He said we could never tell anybody – Meagan
Jan 17, 2019 • 43 min
In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Meagan, a 36-year-old, cis-gendered woman who describes herself as Hispanic, straight, single and monogamous. Meagan talks frankly about her childhood explorations of sexuality, how she felt…
My boobs aren’t an erogenous zone – Liz
Jan 17, 2019 • 40 min
In the very first episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Liz, a 37-year-old, cis-gendered white woman who is single, heterosexual, and monogamous. When it came to exploring her sexuality, Liz took her time – while all her friends were…
Good Girls Talk About Sex podcast trailer
Dec 30, 2018 • 3 min
The Good Girls Talk About Sex podcast is launching soon - get a sneak peek here!