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Sup guys. If you’re a reader of my blog, mikemehlman.net, then hopefully you’ll enjoy this podcast experience. This is sorta just an “audio experiment” for the time being. Maybe you’ll find this podcast boring as fuck. Or maybe you’ll get some value out of it. Either way, I’m humbled and grateful for your time.


Lousy date. But getting her home anyway
Oct 4 • 2 min
Lousy date. But getting her home anyway
How to be more confident
Oct 4 • 1 min
How to be more confident
“Mike, do you leave immediately after getting her contact?”
Oct 2 • 1 min
“Mike, do you leave immediately after getting her contact?”
English for sex prostitution swap
Oct 2 • 1 min
English for sex prostitution swap
Like a fucking mouse
Oct 2 • 0 min
Like a fucking mouse
Rejections with big surrounding audiences
Oct 2 • 1 min
Rejections with big surrounding audiences
Using condoms
Oct 1 • 1 min
Using condoms
Most rejections you take the girl won’t even look at you
Oct 1 • 2 min
Most rejections you take the girl won’t even look at you
More abundance = more “blind” dates
Sep 30 • 1 min
More abundance = more “blind” dates
Rare genuine reversal of female state
Sep 29 • 2 min
Rare genuine reversal of female state
Double Masakis
Sep 29 • 1 min
Double Masakis
How to win the friends over
Sep 29 • 1 min
How to win the friends over
Telling a girl how old you are
Sep 29 • 1 min
Telling a girl how old you are
“Deer in the headlights” vs genuinely unreceptive
Sep 5 • 1 min
“Deer in the headlights” vs genuinely unreceptive
“Unreceptive” girls who are actually receptive
Sep 5 • 1 min
“Unreceptive” girls who are actually receptive
“How high energy are you when you open girls?”
Sep 4 • 1 min
How high energy are you when you open girls?
“After you open her, do you keep walking or stop?”
Sep 4 • 1 min
“After you open her, do you keep walking or stop?”
Girls who see you out with other girls
Sep 4 • 3 min
Girls who see you out with other girls
What to do if your date’s late
Sep 4 • 0 min
What to do if your date’s late
Forgetting a date’s name
Sep 4 • 0 min
Forgetting a date’s name
“How aggressive should I be when opening girls?”
Aug 29 • 1 min
“How aggressive should I be when opening girls?”
“Does the city you approach in matter?”
Aug 29 • 1 min
“Does the city you approach in matter?”
Satisfying girls in the bedroom
Aug 29 • 2 min
Satisfying girls in the bedroom
You can’t get high on your own supply
Aug 29 • 1 min
You can’t get high on your own supply
Approaching with a massive surrounding audience
Aug 29 • 1 min
Approaching with a massive surrounding audience
Approaching a girl who’s with her DAD
Aug 22 • 2 min
Approaching a girl who’s with her DAD
Stop hanging out with loser beta guys
Aug 22 • 0 min
Stop hanging out with loser beta guys
Not having time to approach is always a bullshit excuse
Aug 22 • 2 min
Not having time to approach is always a bullshit excuse
Message every number you get
Aug 22 • 2 min
Message every number you get
Badonkadonk ass
Aug 22 • 1 min
Badonkadonk ass
Asking her back to your place
Aug 21 • 2 min
Asking her back to your place
Have you ever ditched your date?
Aug 21 • 1 min
Have you ever ditched your date?
Girls who jump away and run away
Aug 21 • 1 min
Girls who jump away and run away
Approaching in front of girls who just reject you
Aug 18 • 1 min
Approaching in front of girls who just reject you
A slightly unusual approach
Aug 17 • 1 min
A slightly unusual approach
“Mike, should I approach girls who are with guys?”
Aug 17 • 2 min
“Mike, should I approach girls who are with guys?”
Girls who wanna take it
Aug 8 • 0 min
Girls who wanna take it
Scary! I have to go!
Aug 8 • 1 min
Scary! I have to go!
The most efficient date possible
Aug 7 • 1 min
The most efficient date possible
Reacting negatively to harsh rejections
Jun 24 • 4 min
Reacting negatively to harsh rejections
Rejections will never go away. No matter what.
Jun 23 • 2 min
Rejections will never go away. No matter what.
The most attractive thing a guy can do when meeting women
Jun 21 • 3 min
The most attractive thing a guy can do when meeting women
The ideal way to say hi to a girl
Jun 20 • 2 min
The ideal way to say hi to a girl
Don’t give her time to close herself off
Jun 20 • 2 min
Don’t give her time to close herself off
Girls are often just in a “state”
Jun 20 • 1 min
Girls are often just in a “state”
How to be more happy
Jun 18 • 3 min
How to be more happy
Saying hi to girls for the first time
Jun 16 • 3 min
Saying hi to girls for the first time
Handling the tension of surrounding audiences
Jun 15 • 1 min
Handling the tension of surrounding audiences
Mike, what’s the most contacts you’ve gotten in one day?
Jun 14 • 2 min
Mike, what’s the most contacts you’ve gotten in one day?
Screening people in and out of our lives
Jun 14 • 2 min
Screening people in and out of our lives
A gym approach (one of many)
Jun 13 • 2 min
A gym approach (one of many)
Hitting on a girl’s friends
Jun 12 • 3 min
Hitting on a girl’s friends
Happiness is the ROI, not money
Jun 11 • 3 min
Happiness is the ROI, not money
Sleeping with girls
Jun 10 • 5 min
Sleeping with girls <60mins following daytime cold approach
How to say hi to a girl
Jun 10 • 1 min
How to say hi to a girl
How to build your confidence fast
Jun 7 • 1 min
How to build your confidence fast
Saying hi to groups of girls solo
Jun 5 • 4 min
Saying hi to groups of girls solo
Neediness vs non-neediness always permeates to the surface
Jun 1 • 1 min
Neediness vs non-neediness always permeates to the surface
Tinder: Why girls will swipe right for you then not respond to your message
May 28 • 8 min
Tinder: Why girls will swipe right for you then not respond to your message
The hypocrisy of girls who use Tinder
May 26 • 2 min
The hypocrisy of girls who use Tinder
The female “concern” I hear most frequently
May 25 • 2 min
The female “concern” I hear most frequently
Stop being so afraid. Everyone’s fucked up.
May 25 • 84 min
Stop being so afraid. Everyone’s fucked up.
The less she anticipates your approach, the more attractive it becomes
May 23 • 5 min
The less she anticipates your approach, the more attractive it becomes
Why some women will shame you for talking to other girls
May 23 • 4 min
Why some women will shame you for talking to other girls
Omg you’re so creepy
May 19 • 4 min
Omg you’re so creepy
Worst response to an approach I’ve ever received
May 17 • 7 min
Worst response to an approach I’ve ever received
Don’t hang out with loser guys who deter you
May 12 • 2 min
Don’t hang out with loser guys who deter you
“I need to return! I need to return!”
Apr 19 • 8 min
“I need to return! I need to return!”
Triple-stacking dates
Apr 16 • 9 min
Triple-stacking dates
Sleeping with a girl immediately after daytime cold approaching her
Apr 14 • 7 min
Sleeping with a girl immediately after daytime cold approaching her
Girls seeing you approach other girls
Apr 11 • 4 min
Girls seeing you approach other girls
Women who carry SMV entitlement
Apr 6 • 4 min
Women who carry SMV entitlement
Higher tension approaches = More confidence
Apr 6 • 4 min
Higher tension approaches = More confidence
Passing her alpha-beta shit test
Mar 23 • 4 min
Passing her alpha-beta shit test
Sleeping with her 15 minutes after you meet her on the street
Mar 19 • 10 min
Sleeping with her an hour after you meet her on the street
The more deregulated you are, the more attractive you are
Mar 16 • 4 min
The more deregulated you are, the more attractive you are
The easiest way to determine a guy is needy
Mar 16 • 6 min
The easiest way to determine a guy is needy
One of the strongest metrics of a male’s confidence level
Mar 16 • 7 min
One of the strongest metrics of a male’s confidence level
A “higher level” approach reflection
Mar 15 • 8 min
A “higher level” approach reflection
Finally shedding your fucking parents
Mar 10 • 19 min
Finally shedding your fucking parents
Non-dating confidence arbitraged from dating rejections
Mar 9 • 6 min
Non-dating confidence arbitraged from dating rejections
You have to just Do
Mar 8 • 19 min
You have to just Do
Stop fucking stalling. Yes, travel to Bumblefuck.
Mar 7 • 11 min
Stop fucking stalling. Yes, travel to Bumblefuck.
No one gives a fuck that your town/campus is small
Mar 7 • 10 min
Stop searching for excuses.
Shitty date, but how to get her home anyway
Mar 6 • 11 min
Shitty date, but how to get her home anyway
How to not change your behavior for her
Mar 6 • 5 min
How to not change your behavior for her
How to be attractive out on dates
Mar 6 • 18 min
Check out the blog at http://mikemehlman.net/ for cool articles, videos, etc.
How to REDUCE your conversion rates even more
Mar 6 • 7 min
How to achieve even LOWER conversion rates
Dating stunning women who are 40+
Mar 6 • 4 min
Dating stunning women who are 40+
The “three date rule”
Mar 6 • 11 min
The “three date rule”
Kissing girls + Improperly superimposing your “conclusions”
Mar 6 • 8 min
Kissing girls + Improperly superimposing your “conclusions”
An important short talk about loneliness
Mar 5 • 5 min
An important short talk about loneliness
My requirement for being just friends with a girl
Mar 5 • 3 min
My requirement for being just friends with a girl
Loving relationships through polygamy
Mar 5 • 10 min
Loving relationships through polygamy
How to go from Zero to “Wow I can approach”
Mar 4 • 10 min
How to go from Zero to “Wow I can approach”
The guidance I wish I received
Mar 4 • 18 min
The guidance I wish I received
The engine that drives happiness
Mar 3 • 10 min
The engine that drives happiness
Making money while living abroad
Mar 2 • 10 min
Making money while living abroad
Cutting your costs while living abroad
Mar 2 • 8 min
Cutting your costs while living abroad
Macro intent always wins
Mar 1 • 11 min
Macro intent always wins
The advantage we have as men (that women don’t have)
Mar 1 • 2 min
The advantage we have as men (that women don’t have)
How to become even more confident
Mar 1 • 19 min
How to become even more confident
The “correct” relationship
Mar 1 • 11 min
The “correct” relationship
“Love at first sight”
Mar 1 • 5 min
“Love at first sight”
Thinking about Girl B when you’re with Girl A
Feb 28 • 12 min
Thinking about Girl B when you’re with Girl A
When you’re into her, but she’s not into you
Feb 28 • 3 min
When you’re into her, but she’s not into you
Approaching abroad = Learning a 2nd language
Feb 24 • 5 min
Blog post to go with this podcast is here: http://mikemehlman.net/2017/11/11/the-benefits-of-language-immersion-not-what-you-expect/
Confidence is the most important male trait
Feb 24 • 6 min
(Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for updates.
The silver lining of starting to approach “late”
Feb 24 • 8 min
There’s no such thing as “Luck” when meeting women
Feb 23 • 10 min
It’s on you to put yourself in the right place at the right time. The blog article on this topic is here: http://mikemehlman.net/2018/03/01/nosuch-thing-as-getting-fucking-lucky/
The direct vs indirect opener
Feb 23 • 13 min
Don’t fucking pander. The blog article on this is here: http://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/26/directapproach/
The guy she wants on paper is not the one she’ll date
Feb 22 • 4 min
(Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for updates.
The key to having the most attractive conversations
Feb 22 • 4 min
Thanks for checking out this clip. Check out the others on this channel and on the blog (mikemehlman.net).
Why I have tremendous gratitude
Feb 22 • 6 min
I talk about how I’m not special and how several narrow probability windows aligning perfectly is what propelled me into my mindset today. (Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for…
How to be more happy
Feb 22 • 5 min
Money; Embracing adversity (Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for updates.
Parenting + Children out of wedlock
Feb 21 • 3 min
(Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for updates.
What I look for in a woman
Feb 21 • 4 min
The way in which we approach/behave with women determines those with whom we pair. (Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for updates.
How to become an Approach Machine
Feb 20 • 6 min
The two most important points that I believe are the “potent duo-unlock” for getting you from Zero to Something in terms of starting to introduce yourself to new people. Two blog posts that go with this video are here:…
How to be hyper-confident
Feb 20 • 9 min
The link between confidence and rejection. (Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for updates.
A valuable chat about marriage
Feb 19 • 27 min
Here we discuss marriage and male-female sexual dynamics. (Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel, please subscribe for updates.
Judgment is a profound weakness
Feb 19 • 3 min
People will impose their judgments on others without any context. I don’t want this clip to come off like I’m preaching, but I really do want to drive home the point that if people judge you, especially without having context, they’re weak, not you. This…
An important discussion about money
Feb 18 • 9 min
Happiness in relation to money; choosing life experience over money Also a blog post on this topic: http://mikemehlman.net/2018/12/03/an-important-point-about-money/ (Blog: mikemehlman.net; IG: @mike_mehlman; Snap: @michaelnewyork) If you like my channel,…
An important discussion about entitlement
Feb 13 • 17 min
An important talk about how approach/rejection relates to entitlement. In this video we delve into any potential negative reflex responses we might have to getting rejected. Even if we come from a genuine place of non-neediness, we’re not perfect and are…
My wish for you
Feb 11 • 5 min
Narrow probability windows; passing the baton; mindset; confidence
Low %s due to audacity/experience VS mere inefficiency
Feb 11 • 9 min
I’ve talked about in my blog, podcast, and other videos how the more experienced you are, the lower your percentages. Not the other way around. I inculcate/hammer this point to really reinforce for you that if you’re being bold and aggressive enough, you…
One of the biggest hallmarks of male experience
Feb 11 • 6 min
The more experienced you are, the lower your percentages. Not the other way around. I’ve preached about this before, but I inculcate/hammer this point to really reinforce for you that if you’re being bold and aggressive enough, you SHOULD BE getting…
Bigger things in life
Feb 11 • 3 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
How to be your most attractive as a male
Feb 11 • 6 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Female non-receptiveness is the male non-approach
Feb 9 • 3 min
The female natural state is to experience hesitation receiving an approach the same way a male hesitates making one. That’s another reason you should never take anything personally.
Situational audacity
Feb 9 • 2 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
When there’s a surrounding audience
Feb 9 • 5 min
The greater the tension associated with an approach, the more confidence you reap as a result of making it.
How to go from Zero to hyper-promiscuous
Feb 9 • 5 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Start owning your rejections
Feb 9 • 10 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
How to be your most attractive in conversations
Feb 8 • 14 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
More on the MeToo / Feminist movement
Feb 8 • 4 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
My first approach ever
Feb 7 • 5 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
How to stop caring about others’ opinions
Feb 7 • 12 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Age and dating
Feb 6 • 2 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
A chat about Japanese girls
Feb 6 • 6 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Seeking parental approval
Feb 5 • 9 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Process vs outcome + Girls who flake
Feb 4 • 8 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Yes, tell her you think she’s attractive right away
Feb 4 • 8 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Approaching duos/groups at the campus library
Feb 4 • 18 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Housing costs when you move overseas
Feb 4 • 4 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Adversity forces change in you
Feb 2 • 24 min
In this clip, I talk about some setbacks I faced while in medical school and how those helped propel my character into a much more positive direction.
The goal of the MeToo/feminist movement
Feb 1 • 4 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
Redefining relationships (special 31:25 podcast)
Jan 31 • 31 min
This will probably be more of a “bombshell” podcast. This will particularly bring value to those who engage in polygamy who question the notion of longer term relationships, love, and family.
How to set up a first date
Jan 27 • 4 min
The number-one way to lose a girl
Jan 26 • 5 min
Pretty straightforward
The more experienced you are, the lower your percentages
Jan 26 • 6 min
My blog post on this: http://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/26/the-more-experienced-youare/
A slightly weird topic
Jan 24 • 3 min
How to be more non-needy
Jan 24 • 3 min
It’s what’s tried and true.
My worst blown opportunity
Jan 24 • 9 min
It’s this type of thing that fuels you going forward
How to find a girlfriend
Jan 24 • 2 min
Your actions have to match your rhetoric
Approaching with an abundance mindset
Jan 23 • 2 min
Plenty of girls out there
It’s YOUR responsibility to approach, NOT hers
Jan 23 • 4 min
Be a man and start owning your approaches. It’s not on the girl to say hi to you. Life isn’t fair that way. Handle it.
When to text her
Jan 21 • 1 min
Why you should always be willing to walk
Jan 17 • 9 min
Always be willing to walk if the interaction isn’t what you’re looking for. You never know, your non-neediness might just reward you in an unexpected way.
Whether or not to give compliments to girls
Jan 17 • 2 min
An important short clip here
A deeply personal conversation about appearance
Jan 16 • 16 min
I talk about in one of my articles how the more we transfer emotionally heavy thoughts to an external location, the less of a big deal they become. I imagine the reason I’m willing to put this deeply personal podcast out there for you to hear is because…
The most important sexual asset a male has
Jan 16 • 7 min
Probably one of my most important podcast clips right here.
An extremely important clip about LOOKS and dating
Jan 16 • 13 min
Probably one of the most valuable clips I’ve made so far
Why getting older is a good thing
Jan 14 • 5 min
Some talking points about how things change as you move through your 20s.
You can’t have less than zero
Jan 12 • 2 min
Important short clip.
How to ask a girl out when you see her often
Jan 11 • 10 min
Crux is toward the end if you’re ADD and can’t handle 11 minutes.
It’s not about what you look like
Jan 10 • 2 min
It’s true.
If you want top 0.1% confidence
Jan 10 • 2 min
No one is entitled to a high level of confidence. I’ve talked about in the blog how I believe confidence comes from experiencing and overcoming repeated rejection/adversity. If you want a high confidence level, you have to expose yourself to high levels…
You never know the outcome of your approaches. Ever.
Jan 8 • 1 min
The approaches you don’t make are the ones that would have taken you places.
You are not whatsoever entitled to being confident
Jan 7 • 2 min
Confidence only comes with long-term, repeated, daily adversity (i.e., lots and lots and lots of rejection). You are - no one is - entitled to confidence.
An important point about neediness/non-neediness
Jan 5 • 6 min
An important lesson I learned from coming to Japan + penetrating the language barrier here.
Generating organic off the back of FB ads
Jan 4 • 5 min
Some surprises/unexpected findings associated with blogging/podcasting
The biggest difference between the 31- and 21-year-old male
Jan 4 • 2 min
Short clip with an important point of distinction
How to be forward while out on dates
Jan 2 • 10 min
Looks like 2019 is going to be kick-started with this one.
If you get lazy, you’ll pay the consequences
Dec 26, 2018 • 4 min
Never take non-neediness for granted
University approach is as easy as it gets
Dec 26, 2018 • 2 min
University approach is as easy as it gets. A good short clip here.
Stop delaying and just go for it
Dec 14, 2018 • 4 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
“I’ll see you around!”
Dec 14, 2018 • 1 min
Just push for her contact anyway.
How to have the ideal conversation
Dec 13, 2018 • 3 min
That’s it.
Why my dating advice is the best in the world
Dec 7, 2018 • 5 min
Especially the latter half of this clip hits it home.
99.999% of the dating advice out there
Dec 7, 2018 • 1 min
How to be as non-needy as possible
If you haven’t yet found your confidence
Dec 2, 2018 • 5 min
Latest episode of MikeMehlman.net
How to be your most attractive
Dec 2, 2018 • 5 min
Important short clip packed with goodness.
The bootleg podcast
Nov 25, 2018 • 3 min
random chat
Don’t be afraid to document your journey
Nov 23, 2018 • 1 min
Is there ever a time we don’t look back in 3-4 years and say, ‘wow, a lot has changed.’
The girl on the bus
Nov 23, 2018 • 3 min
A short clip about public trans approaching
Why you like my blog but your friend doesn’t
Nov 22, 2018 • 5 min
Crux comes toward the end of this short and important clip.
The time to hesitate has ceased
Nov 20, 2018 • 3 min
Those moments where you just decide to go for it can turn out to be your most pivotal decisions in life.
The macro effect of good intent
Nov 20, 2018 • 3 min
When you come from a place of good intent, all of the positive effects aren’t palpable/felt in the short-term.
How to become a go-getter
Nov 14, 2018 • 2 min
Latter part of this clip in particular ties it together.
How to grow your self-esteem
Nov 11, 2018 • 6 min
Important points about self-esteem and the application to non-dating aspects of life.
Stop using your intellect as an excuse
Nov 11, 2018 • 4 min
Doesn’t matter how smart you supposedly are. Never tacitly use your intellect as a justification for non-action when your intuition truly says action is warranted. Ask yourself: are you not approaching/making a life decision because that’s *really* the…
The best part about the language barrier
Nov 8, 2018 • 2 min
Having a chat about my choice to move to Japan, and this point sort of hit me mid-convo, without ever having thought about it prior.
Why entitlement is holding you back
Nov 8, 2018 • 4 min
Why entitlement is holding you back
A male’s choice to be monogamous
Nov 5, 2018 • 4 min
A male’s choice to be monogamous
A really important point about emotional connection
Nov 5, 2018 • 2 min
A really important point about emotional connection
Passing the baton
Nov 4, 2018 • 2 min
Passing the baton
An important Litmus test
Nov 3, 2018 • 6 min
This short clip discusses a few really good points. Enjoyyyy
How to care less about others’ opinions
Oct 31, 2018 • 4 min
Kick-starting the month of November (at least here in Japan at 12:23am Nov 1 [it’s still Halloween most everywhere else!]) off with this short clip.
How I knew medicine wasn’t for me
Oct 26, 2018 • 5 min
After graduating med school, I gave up the career in order to move to move to east Asia, learn about language and culture, and write. Haven’t looked back since.
The only thing that wins is truth
Oct 25, 2018 • 11 min
If you’re a reader of my blog, this is definitely a deeper and more important clip.
Self-awareness + understanding your core
Oct 25, 2018 • 4 min
I don’t believe there’s anything wrong with creating width of content in order to reach more people, but I think one should be self-aware and then devote more time to strengths vs weaknesses. In other words, writing is my core, and although I’m exploring…
How I grew my blog
Oct 24, 2018 • 5 min
How I went from zero to……tiny, but non-zero
Everyone absorbs content differently
Oct 24, 2018 • 2 min
- Video, audio, written-word -Why I started podcasting
When approaching girls interferes with study
Oct 24, 2018 • 4 min
This is a short one for you guys in university.
How to not change your behavior for girls
Oct 22, 2018 • 2 min
This is a good post to go with this clip: http://mikemehlman.net/2018/07/04/why-you-should-never-force-your-conversations/
How to open a girl on the street
Oct 22, 2018 • 5 min
More on the blog about this here: http://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/26/directapproach/
I force absolutely zero
Oct 22, 2018 • 4 min
In this clip I talk about leaving instantly if the girl is unreceptive. Never force anything. Pushing back against a girl’s unreceptiveness in any form - and it doesn’t matter how “nuanced” - is neediness.
STACKING your dates
Oct 21, 2018 • 6 min
I don’t really know what to tell ya. It’s story time. (But real guy talk.)
Authenticity goes a long way
Oct 21, 2018 • 3 min
Doesn’t matter how nervous or “un-smooth” you are.
Girls are often just “in a state”
Oct 19, 2018 • 3 min
This is a short and very valuable clip in terms of not taking rejection personally. I also talk about approaching a second girl in the plain site of a girl who just rejected you.
Korea is a total mind fuck
Oct 18, 2018 • 9 min
A good chat about culture and food. I also talk about my observations of Korean approach and my experiences with Koreans in general.
Eliminate negative people from your life
Oct 17, 2018 • 3 min
This clip is short but important. (SORRY ABOUT THE BULLSHIT STATIC)
Your surroundings are fucking everything
Oct 17, 2018 • 6 min
Once again, I’m sorry for being an asshole and having TERRIBLE static in this episode. Couldn’t edit it out. So it was either throw it away or just upload. (And no, I don’t have an interest in re-recording contrived shit.)
Stop making bullshit excuses
Oct 16, 2018 • 5 min
That’s it.
Setbacks are your catapult forward
Oct 16, 2018 • 11 min
JUST A HEADS UP: I’m so sorry for the terrible static on this clip. But I believe the candid content is too important to ultimately delete this episode.
How to make money living abroad
Oct 14, 2018 • 3 min
This is a hyper-short but very effective clip. Enjoy.
There’s no such thing as serendipitous encounters
Oct 10, 2018 • 5 min
There’s no such thing as serendipitous encounters. There’s no such thing as getting fucking lucky. 99% of the time, you “getting lucky” is really you going out of your way to put yourself in the right place at the right time. You didn’t “accidentally go…
The time required to “become confident” approaching
Oct 7, 2018 • 6 min
At what point do you just one day “become confident” approaching? “How much time” is required.
How to make the leap to move abroad
Oct 2, 2018 • 11 min
In this clip I talk about how to finally make the leap to move abroad. If you’ve been thinking of dropping the life you have now and just going for it, listen to this clip.
Males with the highest confidence prefer day game
Oct 1, 2018 • 11 min
This short clip discusses some points of contrast and similarity between day and night game. Here are some articles from my blog on the topics: http://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/26/daygame/ http://mikemehlman.net/2018/06/04/finally-post-on-night-game/
A really important point about confidence
Sep 29, 2018 • 5 min
Confidence and fear are full-spectrum. This is a short clip discussing the link between dating and non-dating aspects of your life.
How to always have a 100% success rate
Sep 28, 2018 • 8 min
This clip discusses the most pivotal change in mindset/perspective that can get you from stage-zero to ACTUALLY approaching.
Rejection IS the win
Sep 25, 2018 • 6 min
This short clip is about reframing your mindset to be process-, rather than outcome-, oriented with meeting new girls.
Solo-approaching duos, trios, etc.
Sep 25, 2018 • 7 min
My general sentiments regarding introducing oneself to 2+ girls at once, while solo. I talk in more detail about this here: http://mikemehlman.net/2017/10/28/approachingsolo/
Don’t be afraid of the C-word
Sep 16, 2018 • 10 min
If you want to meet women, you have to risk “creepy.”
Living a life true to yourself
Sep 14, 2018 • 5 min
A short clip about breaking free from others’ opinions. I really hope this brings you value. Also, I’ve written a lot on this topic here: http://mikemehlman.net/2018/01/20/living-true-to-yourself/
Once she’s at your place
Sep 14, 2018 • 7 min
This is about what to do when you get a date back to your place. If you make it through this short clip, the latter input is particularly important. Thanks again for listening!
Never be fucking surprised
Sep 13, 2018 • 5 min
This short clip is essentially a reiteration that the initial interaction you have with a girl has zero correlation with whether she will actually follow through or not. If you want more detail on this topic, I wrote an article here on it: (…
Taking a girl home on the first date
Sep 13, 2018 • 10 min
The title is self-explanatory. This short clip isn’t about any type of bar/club scene pull. It’s about how to transition into taking a girl home on the first “real date” you go on, as well as the psychology behind that process.
Tremendous gratitude
Sep 8, 2018 • 13 min
In this episode I talk about why my blog exists and the tremendous gratitude I have for the mindset I hold. I also talk a little about confidence and rejection. Thanks so much again for listening. ~Mike Mikemehlman.net