The Sedated Man

The Sedated Man

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Welcome to the The Sedated Man podcast, where amazing things can happen for Christian men who have been asleep too long. This is where true scriptural masculinity lives, with no apologies! Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support


TSM-78 Being Stuck As A Christian Man
Oct 19 • 22 min
Most Faith Based Men I meet are stuck. Not sure where to go with their lives or in their families and congregations. I myself struggle with these same things. Its time for all of us to just stop!. Today we talk about how…
TSM-77 The Marriage Revolution. An Interview With Chris Borghese
Oct 12 • 44 min
Today we get to the core of the problem with men in their marriages and how they can begin to fix things and heal https://youtu.be/dDHUO_SfNME —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-76 Robin Hood And God. An Interview With Michael Ruiz
Oct 5 • 59 min
Manning up, mixed families, and why business is scriptural. A few of the things talked about and emphasized in this episode. Join Us! https://youtu.be/U7Pwdpc4RmE —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-75 Rise Up For The Gray Haired
Sep 28 • 16 min
To many times we are letting our kids run roughshod over the elderly in our congregations because we as men have not set the example and trained the hearts of kids to show love to this sacred section of our lives https://youtu.be/gUkQuM8aGaY —- Support…
TSM-74 The Words We Use. Tearing The Church Down One Word At A Time
Sep 14 • 23 min
If we speak poorly of ourselves, then we speak poorly of the creation god has made in us, and essentially tear the church down in the process. Today we talk about rebuilding that man form the ground up! https://youtu.be/bhJGFYKNJp0 —- Support this…
TSM-73 The Power Of The New Creation. An Interview With Chris Martinez
Sep 7 • 57 min
If you haven’t heard this story, STOP and listen to it now. This is what scripture is talking about when it talks about overcoming Sin and Living the New Creation https://youtu.be/-pewOj_6y1E —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-72 3 Things You Can Do Today To Get On The Same Page With Your Spouse
Aug 25 • 25 min
This is a common problem I come across. The husband is driving hard but the spouse doesn’t support the project or doesn’t want to know anything about it. In this episode we hit it head on, and I give three tips to bridge the gap.…
TSM-71 Gratitude: The Monster In The Closet
Aug 10 • 25 min
I have long struggled with whether or not Gratitude is active or passive. Is it a Tool or just a nice feeling toward someone or something else. Today we answer the question of just how much, by scripture, Gratitude can change your life and the lives of…
TSM-70 The Silent Killer Of Your Christianity
Aug 3 • 25 min
The boring humdrum of existence was never supposed to energize the Christian Man. The Holy Spirit was. Are you participating in “Check the box” Christianity? https://youtu.be/ph8ZDDttm_o —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-69 The Daughters Series Part 3: Getting It Right
Jul 17 • 23 min
What would it look like if you were actually a Godly, loving Father? Sara Peterson Answers that question on this episode https://youtu.be/IZVoxXTGW9o —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-68 Was Jesus A Liberal Or A Conservative? The Politics Edition
Jun 29 • 18 min
Today we talk about politics. Why do we allow it to rule our lives in the name of God? And why do we feel so much more passionate about who’s in office then about whats in scripture? —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-67 Why Your Story Matters
Jun 23 • 21 min
Your story is the one you and God have written exclusively for you. Its the one that could change lives for the better. Share it!! —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-66 The Nemesis Of Distraction
Jun 16 • 17 min
Distraction is flat out destructive. What will happen to the Kingdom when we are more defined by our stuff and our hobbies then by the blood of Christ? —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-65 Are You Your Own Goliath? A Comparison Of Saul And David
Jun 1 • 18 min
How Do you define your Christian walk? Bold Like David or weak like Saul. Today we discuss what your walk looks like and how to overcome. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-64 Family, Faith And Business. An Interview With Dave Woodward
May 25 • 18 min
Today we talk the balance of Faith, Family, and Business with a guy who has walked the path. Dave has been there and come out the other end. With a message of “Lean in and never give up” https://youtu.be/dNN3N8amroM —- Support this podcast:…
TSM-63 The Daughters Series Part 2: The Neglected
May 18 • 31 min
Today we talk about the grey area of neglect. Daughters mature and suddenly dad steps back because he doesn’t understand her changes and figures Mom has it. You are wrong! Your Daughters need you just as much during the “Change” , if not more. Maybe…
TSM-62 The Daughters Series Part 1: The Abused
May 11 • 43 min
The point of this is to show you the things your future daughter may have to deal with if you as a Father do not change some of the habits you have now, or admit they are even a problem. This is about setting them up for success by manning up as Dads and…
TSM-61 Bad News Isn’t Always Bad. An Interview With K.E. Rupert
May 4 • 55 min
Today we talk with Ken Rupert. When He and his wife realized they had a Special Needs child, He chose to provide for that child well beyond his years, rather then just plug him into the system. He had to master his financial situation and his health at…
TSM-60 Bible Business. An Interview With Myron Golden
May 1 • 36 min
Today we talk with Myron Golden about the business aspects of the Bible and how it is really a mindset issue. Myron is one of the most knowledgeable men I have spoken with when it comes to this subject. Enjoy and find all the links at…
TSM 59 Advance Yourself. An Interview with Dom Brightmon
Apr 27 • 41 min
Today we talk with Dominique Brightmon. Author of “Going North”, and “Stay the course.” Dom also runs the “Going North Podcast”. We talk about usable tools that Dom has created to keep your positive energy up, and the negativity out. Going North-…
TSM-58 Issues With Men In The Military. An Interview With Former LTC Mike Yaeger
Apr 20 • 42 min
Today we talk to former Colonel Mike Yaeger about his experience with men in the military. The difference between young men now and young men 10 years ago, how the entitlement mentality affects the soldier and why suicide rates are up amongst younger…
TSM-57 The Return Of Leadership. An Interview With Joe Lee Of “Focus On Christ”
Apr 13 • 50 min
Today we talk to Joe Lee about his Business “Focus On Christ”.(www.focusonchrist.com). How to help the Return of Leadership to your congregation and see men step up once again. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-56 Overcoming Porn. An Interview With Shane O’Neill Of Proven Men Ministries
Apr 6 • 40 min
Today we talk about the harmful effects of porn on not only men but women. We also talk about what churches can do, and the tools available to help their flock. Dont brush this one aside. Listen and be honest with yourself and others. —- Support this…
TSM-55 The Grace Of God. An Interview With Gene Curl
Mar 30 • 35 min
Today we talk with Gene Curl of The Recovering Faith Podcast. We talk about his story of growing up with an abusive father and why he feels compelled to help those with a negative view of God come to a new perspective. —- Support this podcast:…
TSM-54 From Con To King. An Interview With Steffan Redhawk
Mar 23 • 39 min
Today we talk to Steffan about Change, Prison, More Change and Business as an outreach. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-53 Why Brotherhood? An interview with Joe Prim of Ever Vigilant
Mar 16 • 32 min
Today we have our first interview!! Joe Prim with The Ever Vigilant Podcast comes to talk about Brotherhood and its importance to the very Salvation of men. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-52 Making Things Right With A Deceased Parent
Mar 9 • 21 min
What do we do when a parent dies and we have not made peace with the problems and abuse that may have existed in the relationship? Today we talk about why its vital to our spiritual and family health to let that go regardless of blame and bitterness. —-…
TSM-51 The Couch Calleth
Mar 2 • 15 min
Get up and Quit Making Mediocrity The New Christian Norm —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-50 Five Private Things You Need To Know About Veterans
Feb 16 • 20 min
Why It Is So Important To Make Sure Veterans Are An Active, Contributing Force To Your Congregations. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-49 So You Think A Home Church Is The Answer
Feb 9 • 16 min
Just a real look at what it takes to start a Home Church and things to think about before you make the leap. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-48 Why Women Should Never Mentor Men
Feb 3 • 18 min
Talking about why men should not seek advice on how to be a “Man” from a woman, and how scripture shows women have enough to do without that responsibility as well —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-47 5 Reasons It Is A Problem To seek Forgiveness Rather Then Permission
Jan 26 • 19 min
Discussing how to overcome choices that negatively affect you and those around you. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-46 How To Find Joy In The Job You Hate
Jan 19 • 17 min
Finally feel good about going to work, even if you hate what you do! —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-45 Masculinity, Meltdowns, And An Introduction To The Titan
Jan 12 • 22 min
Talking about my recent meltdown, and why Christian Men are Titans in Christ —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-44 How To Stop Outsourcing “The Boss” To Your Wife
Jan 5 • 15 min
Stop Calling your wife the Boss and honor her and God by stepping up and executing that position yourself. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-43 How To Overcome And Conquer The War On Men
Dec 22, 2018 • 20 min
The War on Men requires conviction and acknowledgement. We will discuss both here and the solutions —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-42 How To Challenge Burnout And Make It Your Slave
Dec 15, 2018 • 15 min
Today we talk about Burnout as a tool and how to conquer it!! —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-41 How To Prize A Powerful, Sensational Woman
Dec 1, 2018 • 18 min
Today we Redefine the “Stay at Home Mom”, and talk about why your wife is the greatest tool in your arsenal of overcoming —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM 40- How To Bear The Courage Of The Bastard Sword
Nov 23, 2018 • 17 min
Is your sword shiny, dull and unused? This is how we handle accurately the sword we are issued in Christ and why it should look used and battle hardened —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-39 How To Make “No” A Positive Part Of Your Life
Nov 17, 2018 • 18 min
Today we talk about how to say No and still be a good person and not feel bad about it according to scripture. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-38 How To Realize You May Be Broken And Not The Church
Nov 11, 2018 • 18 min
Today we talk about why your problems at Church could quite possibly be you and not them —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-37 How To Find Your Backbone After A Miserable Divorce (Part 2): Can I Remarry?
Nov 3, 2018 • 21 min
Today we talk about whether a Divorced Christian Man Can Remarry. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-36 How To Find Your Backbone After A Miserable Divorce (Part 1)
Oct 28, 2018 • 25 min
Today we talk about getting back to our square one, and not letting our divorce define who we are. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-35 How To Reignite The Fire Of Masculinity
Oct 20, 2018 • 20 min
Today we talk about what it means, by scripture, to be masculine in a world that wants to condemn it. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM 34- How to Protect the Girl and Increase Intimacy
Oct 13, 2018 • 15 min
Today we talk about why your sex life is tied to your wife’s overall trust in you. We also talk about how to increase that trust and ultimately your intimacy —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-33 How To Stop Feeling Like A Bad Dad
Oct 6, 2018 • 24 min
Today we talk about why you need to put this feeling behind you and the questions you can ask yourself to get there. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-32 How to Love and Lead your Confident Wife
Sep 29, 2018 • 19 min
Today we talk about your “Live out Loud” wife and how you can get her respect and Love and Lead her effectively. You Got this! —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-31 The Difference Between Sin and Mistake
Sep 14, 2018 • 13 min
Today we talk about why Sin and Mistake dont have to occupy the same space. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-30 Proving the Scripture to others. How to know what you know.
Sep 8, 2018 • 25 min
Today we talk about resources to use and why it is so important to have a great grasp of scripture —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-29 Why Walmart is Crushing Your Christianity
Sep 1, 2018 • 15 min
Today we Hammer down on Mindset and how important it is, right down to where we shop and why —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-28 Risk Makes Men
Aug 25, 2018 • 18 min
Why does current Christian Dogma state that Risk Aversion is Ok? Today we talk about Gods version of Risk Management and why more Risk is Good. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-27 Growing apart: Where is That in Scripture?
Aug 18, 2018 • 18 min
Today we talk about why “Growing Apart” in Marriage will lead to Sin through Divorce and sedation. We also talk about how to fix it. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-26 Why being a “Sinner Forgiven” is causing you to Fail
Aug 11, 2018 • 13 min
Today we talk about why the modern view of Christianity as being a ” Sinner Forgiven” is not only untrue, but not found in scripture. We also talk about how to change your perspective to become the Man you need to be —- Support this podcast:…
TSM-25 Pursuing your Wife and Winning in Your Marriage
Aug 4, 2018 • 18 min
Today we discuss why pursuing your Wife is vital to your marriage and your Faith —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-24 The Legend of the Two-Fer: How to purge this Man from your life
Jul 28, 2018 • 16 min
Today we discuss the “Two-Fer” which is a term I came up with to refer to the old saying “two for the price of one”. This is when men are one way at home and another when they are with “the boys”. We talk about calling that guy out one purging him from…
TSM-23 The Myth of the Midlife Crisis: Why this doesn’t apply to Christian Men
Jul 14, 2018 • 14 min
We discuss how scripture views the midlife crisis, and how the world uses it to extract money from your pocket —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-22 Brotherhood and Suicide
Jul 7, 2018 • 18 min
Today we talk about the direction connection between Suicide and a lack of Brotherhood, and how to fix it. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-21 The Christian Mens Battle Cry: Be Imitators of Me!
Jun 30, 2018 • 17 min
Today we talk about how we need to follow Paul’s example and be a man worth following ourselves, and how to do that. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-20 Now Serving: Fear!
Jun 15, 2018 • 11 min
A quick talk about how Fear has no place in the Christian walk and how we need to step past Fear in Faith —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-19 Swearing: Myth or Monster?
Jun 9, 2018 • 14 min
Today we tackle Swearing head on. no one likes to talk about it and it always seems divisive. Hopefully this Podcast helps put that to rest. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-18 Conviction or Preference? Which do you live by?
May 28, 2018 • 19 min
We discuss the difference between Conviction and Preference, and how it can make you a Great God Fearing Man or an Excuse to speak but not act. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-17 Alcohol and Tobacco. Sin??
May 19, 2018 • 19 min
Today we talk about whether Alcohol and Tobacco (with a sprinkle of Tattoos) are actually a sin and a Sedation Problem. Tune in!! —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-16 To Church or Not to Church
May 13, 2018 • 18 min
This is a special edition talking about whether a man should be in church every time the doors are open, or whether he can still be God-Fearing and never attend church —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-15 Food Addiction, A Primer
May 12, 2018 • 18 min
Today we discuss Food Addiction. What it is, How it affects a Godly Man, and what to do about it. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-14 The Sexless Marriage
May 4, 2018 • 20 min
Pt 2 of Episode 13. Dealing with the problem of Sexless Marriage and how its an unscriptural situation. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-13 Porn and the God Fearing
Apr 28, 2018 • 25 min
Today we delve into the relationship between Porn and The God Fearing —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-12 Compassion, Selflessness, Selfishness, and Tough Love
Apr 26, 2018 • 15 min
Dealing with Sedation as it applies to others who are not deserving. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-11 How to Forgive Yourself Today!
Apr 18, 2018 • 15 min
This time we delve into how to forgive the most important person in your Salvation Walk. You! —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM- 10 The Rut
Apr 14, 2018 • 14 min
In this episode we talk about one of the most destructive thing that leads to sedation. Being stuck! —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-9 Knowing What You Know
Apr 9, 2018 • 13 min
This episode covers why having an answer when asked spiritual questions is so important —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-8 Marital Balance
Apr 6, 2018 • 13 min
A request form one of our listeners to delve deeper into the balance in marriage when the husband has caused some trust issues due to abuse of authority. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-6 A Fathers Authority
Apr 5, 2018 • 9 min
Talking today about how abusiveness comes in different forms and different faces. And why your role as a father is a vital importance to you, your kids, and ultimately your marriage. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-E7 The Prodigal Son
Apr 3, 2018 • 12 min
Starting to discuss some of the reasons we may sedate (such as a severed relationship with a child) and why that is no excuse to deprive the world of the leader that God has created in Men. —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-5 Why and How Scripture supports “ The Law of Attraction”
Mar 29, 2018 • 8 min
Today we take a look at Scripture and its application to the law of attraction —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM -4 Query
Mar 29, 2018 • 3 min
A request to my listeners to let me know whats heavy on their hearts so we can discuss those things and get you on the road to getting those things fixed —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM-E3 The Sin In Sedation
Mar 17, 2018 • 12 min
Why Sedation may not be Sinful by itself, but Sin lies in wait within Sedations doorway —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support
TSM- E2- Stuck on the Dot
Mar 13, 2018 • 9 min
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Intro
Mar 7, 2018 • 5 min
The Sedated Mans beginnings —- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thesedatedman/support