Daniel J Schwarzhoff

#015 “Let Go” of What? It All Boils Down to Resentment
Sep 25 • 34 min
The key to letting go is not in escaping the person, the thing, or the memory of what has upset us, but in not getting upset—knowing how to let go of resentment. Dan and Dan Jr. talk about Krav Maga, abusing yoga, and real maple syrup. Maggie asks if her…
#014 Chronic Procrastination – It Isn’t Psychological
Aug 13 • 32 min
Psychologists have some interesting theories for why people procrastinate. They know that something deep is happening. But they don’t understand it. Problems with procrastination stem from a metaphysical energy, AKA resentment. Its roots are in anger and…
#013 What Do Food, Sex, and Your Parents All Have in Common?
Aug 4 • 31 min
The most important people in your life are your parents. Your relationship with mom and dad has unexpected consequences. Whether they are dead or alive, if you see them daily or hardly at all, if you’re close or estranged, you can overcome any bad habit,…
#012 You Don’t Know What Love Is
Jul 28 • 35 min
You don’t know what love is. You think you do. But you don’t. We’ve all been misinformed, not only about what love is but how and where to find it. Also, Dan and Dan Jr. discuss raising children, and what causes a person to feel ‘shame.’
#011 The Marriage Mistake
Jul 4 • 44 min
Find out why unmarried couple have such a hard time raising well-adjusted, happy children.
#010 Depression – Is Science in Way Over Its Head?
Jun 28 • 45 min
Why is it that after turning their lives and wills over to doctors, those diagnosed with depression never get better, and ultimately only get worse? Anyone suffering from what clinicians call depression has been trapped inside their own head, lost in…
#009 Giving up sin, becoming perfect, ambition, and dating apps
Jun 13 • 44 min
Answering some of your questions. Can we ever stop sinning and does that mean that we have become perfect? Also, experiencing ambition and fear as a young adult, the role of pride in addictions and relapse, and some observations about the popular ‘dating’…
#008 Don’t Turn Into a Useless Blob
Jul 21, 2018 • 43 min
Dan discusses the little feelings, thoughts and ideas we all get, with which so many struggle – the thinking that often brings fear, resentment or doubt – and the simple solution to them. Also, Hank keeps getting interrupted while he meditates, and Paul…
#007 Antidepressants – You’ve Been Duped
Apr 27, 2018 • 34 min
You’ve probably heard that antidepressants can help rebalance the chemicals in your brain. But in truth, just about everything the professionals say on the subject of depression is speculative. Dan explains exactly how psychoactive medications cause a…
#006 Cannabis Is Not Evil
Apr 4, 2018 • 41 min
But before you light up that next joint… You’ve already heard all the pros and cons of marijuana – the legal, moral as well as the health arguments. But there’s one thing about cannabis you haven’t considered. There is an underlying emotional element to…
#005 How It Happened
Mar 21, 2018 • 32 min
How does someone become an alcoholic or an addict? We talk about Dan Sr’s drinking, Dan Jr’s not drinking, drug addiction, President Trump’s opioid initiative. George sees only darkness when he meditates, Amy wants to know if she has to believe in God,…
#004 Let Go
Mar 12, 2018 • 19 min
Dan and Dan Jr. talk about prescriptions for anxiety and depression, the efficacy of positive thinking, college fraternities and campus partying. Dan answers a question from Gary, a man living with his father who is an irritable and violent, drunk.
#003 Hell Breaks Loose
Feb 21, 2018 • 36 min
A person who commits suicide or mass murder isn’t who you think they are. He has become the identity of someone else, who’s gotten inside him. This is metaphysical, and because of this, experts will always look toward wrong solutions. They’re confused…
#002 What is ‘Ego?’
Feb 17, 2018 • 28 min
The simple fact is that everything you’ve ever been told about the Ego, everything you have read or heard from psychologists, spiritual pundits, religious clerics, and university professors has been wrong.
#001 The Real Cause of Anxiety
Feb 17, 2018 • 23 min
No one likes to feel anxious, but the discomfort serves a good purpose. It’s a symptom of something gone wrong – that something is broken. Drinking, eating, sex, antidepressants, smoking – these all are ways to remove the symptoms while leaving the cause…