The Undesirables

The Undesirables
Modern romance done wrong.
Tucker’s big breakup
Apr 17 • 51 min
Tom’s been going on too many dates and Tucker breaks the news about his breakup with Planetarium Girl. Along the way, we talk about Tom’s first (and likely only) date from Bumble, casual physical intimacy, feeling weird about dating multiple people, the…
Tom tries speed dating 2.0
Apr 10 • 48 min
Tom sits down with Ben Goodman from CitySwoon to find out what the hell is “speed dating 2.0” and how fast is he going to get rejected by how many people, exactly? Then, Tom and Tucker debrief on how it went, the most notable characters of the night and…
Lindsey Metselaar from We Met At Acme
Apr 3 • 52 min
Tom and Tucker sit down with Lindsey Metselaar, the amazing and talented host of the hit dating podcast We Met At Acme, for a lively chat about astrology, what it’s like to date with a dating podcast, open relationships, and why the hell Tom isn’t on…
Laura and Dylan Petro, founders of dating app Bounce
Mar 27 • 49 min
Tucker and Tom sit down with Laura and Dylan Petro, sister-brother duo and two of the founders of Bounce, a new spontaneous dating app where you match and make plans for a date ~tonight~ all without a single message. They break down how that works, why…
Tom’s blind date from Time Out’s The Undateables
Mar 20 • 39 min
Tom went on a blind date through Time Out magazine’s The Undateables column and has a lot to say about it. Then he sits down with Will Gleason, the matchmaker behind the column, to debrief and find out how this all works, anyway. Meanwhile, Tucker catches…
Long distance woes and having a type
Mar 13 • 51 min
Tucker and his girlfriend *REDACTED* grapple with having different long distance styles, how much to communicate, and how specific a person’s “type” can get (answer: very). Tom reaches out to his ex before downloading all the apps again and asking…
Rachel, pt. II, on “Facebook official” and exes
Mar 6 • 67 min
While Rachel and Tucker re-litigate their breakup, Tom gets sad over his own. Along the way, they answer some important questions like does Piggly Wiggly still exist and how sensually do you lick someone’s elbow on the first date? If you like what you…
Rachel, Tucker’s ex, on her first ever Tinder date
Feb 27 • 47 min
Tucker and Tom’s friend Rachel is BACK by popular demand! She drove all the way to the Big Apple to finally try this whole “Tinder” thing out for real and actually go on a date! They address hot topics like what to do with your arms during a kiss, whether…
Phone sex, bad sex and the morning after
Feb 20 • 57 min
Tucker and Tom explore the awkward beginnings of phone sex and the awkward endings of bad dates. It’s been a few months since Tucker and Tom got to sit down one on one and catch each other up on their personal lives. Who’s dating whom and how does someone…
Deanna Richards, relationship therapist, on polyamory
Feb 14 • 58 min
Tucker and Tom are back… in relationship therapy. After what some would call “a season’s worth of misery” and others would call “friendship,” Tucker and Tom decide it’s time to bring their problems to Deanna Richards, a licensed mental health counselor…
Season 1 recap trailer
Nov 28, 2018 • 0 min
The Undesirables are coming back for season 2 on Valentine's Day 2019! Catch up on season 1 now.
Season one finale: Are dating apps good? Are we bad?
May 30, 2018 • 68 min
Season one is over so Tucker and Tom take a hot minute to reflect on all the mistakes they made along the way.
Lucy Sweetkill, professional dominatrix and sex educator
May 9, 2018 • 80 min
Special guest and professional dominatrix Lucy Sweetkill teaches Tucker how to choke someone sexually without totally murdering them and tells Tom exactly what kind of bottom he is.
Short-term relationships and unreciprocated texts
Apr 25, 2018 • 20 min
Tucker breaks up with New York for the weekend while Tom perfects the art of not getting dates.
A chat with the creators of a hookup app
Apr 18, 2018 • 44 min
Tucker and Tom sit down with the developers of a new late night dating app to ask a very important question… You Up?
Labels, how soon to meet up and breakup stories
Apr 11, 2018 • 48 min
Tucker and Tom swap stories to figure out who breaks up with people the worst. Is it too close to call? Let us know.
Jacques Boudreau, resident married guy, on being married
Apr 4, 2018 • 60 min
Not even 10 episodes in, Tom finally replaces Tucker.
Rachel, Tucker’s ex-girlfriend, on swiping without intention
Mar 28, 2018 • 60 min
Tom reveals the results of his human experiments while Tucker and special guest Rachel pat each other on the back for leading on romantic interests.
Fetish requests and defining the relationship
Mar 21, 2018 • 50 min
Tom sabotages his chances at finding love by being too cheap again. Tucker has an anxiety attack LIVE ON AIR.
Failed hookups and dating multiple people
Mar 14, 2018 • 59 min
Tom sees the sunrise. Tucker sees only guilt.
Tom’s big breakup and Tucker’s sex hang-ups
Mar 7, 2018 • 50 min
Tom's got big news and Tucker pulls defeat from the jaws of success.
Hitting it, quitting it and actively flirting
Feb 28, 2018 • 48 min
Tucker and Tom both score dates and immediately find themselves in over their heads.
Tom’s desperate quest on hookup app Pure
Feb 21, 2018 • 25 min
In a desperate quest for intimacy, Tom finds himself with a fresh perspective on the hookup app Pure.
“Oh god, what are we doing?”
Feb 14, 2018 • 25 min
Your introduction to Tucker and Tom, two guys just trying their best.