10 Minute Daily Reality Check

10 Minute Daily Reality Check

139: Planet of the Idiots

Jul 24 • 19 min

Idiots! Idiots everywhere! I’m back with my friend Obi and we just saw the new Planet of the Apes, which is of course about apes taking over the world. Well, we live in a world that’s even worse. A world that’s been taken over by idiots. And you can see…

138: The Rules of Being a Bro

Jul 23 • 15 min

What does it mean to be a bro? I’m talking about what it really means to be a true male friend. Well, bros tell each other the truth. No matter how hard it might be to swallow. So, when a bro sees his friend dating a woman who’s not a high vibrational…

137: I Love You Please Forgive Me F*ck You

Jul 22 • 16 min

Today we’ve got a truly amazing episode with a truly amazing guest. Dr. Joshua is a spiritual counselor, and today we’re gonna talk all about spirituality. Or, more specifically, fake sticky note spirituality. See, you’re not spiritual or evolved just…

136: The Perils of Bitter Billy and Betsy

Jul 20 • 13 min

Bitter Billy and Bitter Betsy are always fighting. They’re always arguing, vying for control over their kids. They’re always blaming one another for the shit that each of them go through. But the message today for Bitter Billy and Betsy is this: let it…

135: Are Modern Kids Over-Parented?

Jul 20 • 13 min

Kids these days… I’m gonna call out all you super-moms and super-dads and tell you right now that you are OVER-PARENTING your kids. You’re not allowing them to grow, learn, fuck up on their own. If you’re a parent, this is a must-listen for you, because…

134: The Circle of Doom Spins… Are You Next?

Jul 19 • 13 min

A woman in Minnesota was shot by the police. People everywhere are hurting each other, divorcing each other, sometimes killing each other. Where are we headed? Why does our society feel trapped in this circle of doom… and are you next? That’s today’s…

133: The Ugliest Town in the World, Loserville

Jul 18 • 13 min

Have you ever taken a trip down to Loserville? I’ve gotta tell you, it’s a sad, ugly place. Because when you’re in Loserville, you’re committing yourself to a person who’s beneath you. A low-frequency individual. Today I’m riding solo, and I’m going to…

132: What Your Underwear Says About You

Jul 16 • 11 min

Here’s some radical self-help that no one will ever tell you: guys, all the women out there are judging your underwear! The stretched out, old undies you’re sporting as she undresses you are definitely making a statement! So today, I’m going to decode…

131: The Social Media Game of Delete

Jul 16 • 15 min

I’ve gotta tell you, there’s something about our culture that I find so disgraceful. And it’s the games we play on social media. The validation we think we’re getting. The person-to-person contact we’ve forgotten. Today’s reality check is what I call the…

130: Early Dismissal Syndrome

Jul 15 • 12 min

Let’s talk about early dismissal syndrome. Modern dating - dating apps especially - have made us so fickle because we always believe there’s something better out there. So we’re always searching for something better… and yet, we’re more alone than ever.…

129: The Universe Has a Secret for You

Jul 14 • 10 min

Let me tell you a little secret that I know. If you ask the universe for something - anything in the world - there are only 3 responses it can give you: yes; yes, but not yet; and no, because you’re gonna get something better. All you have to do is…

128: The Dangers of the Emotional Terrorist

Jul 13 • 14 min

The emotional terrorist… the person who’s always blaming. Always playing the victim, and yet THEY are the ones ripping through people’s lives. On today’s reality check, we’re going to expose the emotional terrorist for who they truly are. We’re going to…

127: The Most Dangerous Man Since Jesus

Jul 12 • 15 min

You want to know what’s really dangerous? It’s not walking down that dark alleyway at 1am… it’s actually challenging yourself. It’s living through your fears. THAT is the true definition of danger. And that is today’s reality check with myself and John…

126: The Man on the Street

Jul 11 • 11 min

“The man on the street,” “the cute blonde from whole foods…” if you have a cell phone, it’s probably full of names like these. The names we give people. The things we identify them by. Today’s reality check is that habit of ours. My guest John Keegan and…

125: Do You Have an LFI Draining the Shit Out of You?

Jul 9 • 15 min

Do you waste your time with all the LFIs in the world??? Wait - what’s an LFI, you ask? It’s a low frequency individual. Someone who, well, just isn’t evolved as a person. And they can really drain your time and energy. So today, John and I are going to…

124: Please Don’t Pee on the Seat… Or Else!

Jul 9 • 17 min

We’ve talked about moral compasses. We’ve talked about dishonest men and women who have no integrity. But today… we’re talking about one of the greatest crimes against humanity: poor bathroom etiquette. That’s right. I’m back in the studio with John…

123: Do You Lack a Moral Compass?

Jul 8 • 14 min

I’ve spent this weekend at one of my bootcamps with my great friend and fellow dating coach, John Keegan. Now, a lot of people don’t get what we do here, which is NOT teaching guys how to lie to get women into bed. We teach guys how to be moral in their…

122: The One Word That Will Make Any Woman Implode… But Why???

Jul 7 • 12 min

Everyone should know this… there’s one word. On SPECIFIC word that makes women implode. And we won’t say it here, but everyone knows what it is. You can NEVER call a woman this word… But what my guest John Keegan and I want to ask is, why? Of course you…

121: How to Troubleshoot Your Idiot List

Jul 6 • 13 min

I’m going to challenge you right now with an assumption. There are people in your life you CAN’T STAND. They’re idiots. They never listen. But why? Why would you waste time with people who are so beneath you? It could be a friend, it could be your ex, it…

120: Negative 254 Degrees

Jul 5 • 6 min

Today we’ve got a short reality check as I’m getting ready to head off to NYC… but we’ve still managed to pack not one but TWO special guests. The first is my friend Matt from Coast Cryo, a cryotherapy sauna here in LA. And the other is… the cutest little…

119: Fur Love is Not Real Love

Jul 4 • 11 min

Last night, as I was watching the firework spectacle, I saw something interesting. And kind of sad. And it’s basically this: women and men more attached to their dogs, their furry little children, than to other people. Fur love is not REAL love, people.…

118: The Me-Me-Me Craze

Jul 3 • 12 min

Happy 4th of July. Now, before you go out and celebrate and have a good time today, let me piss you off for 10 minutes. Because we need to talk, America. We need to talk about this “me-me-me” craze that’s sweeping the nation. We’re so self-absorbed right…

117: How Not to Die

Jul 2 • 27 min

It’s a simple question: How do I NOT die? How do I live the healthiest life possible? Well, that’s what we’re going to answer right now. I’m in the studio with Dr. Michael Greger, author of the book “How Not to Die.” And we’re diving deep today into…

116: Do You Suffer From “When I” Disease?

Jul 1 • 10 min

“When I…” You know “When I” disease? You suffer from it when you say, “When I’m 40, I’m going to do this…” Well, why not now? Why not live your life? Because as you live your life, you’re able to learn lessons. Everything that’s put in your life is put…

115: Disneyland Dad Visits Dutch Oven World In Papa Smurf Dumpers

Jun 30 • 16 min

Happy birthday to me! It’s my birthday today, and before I pick up my daughter and then hop on a few coaching calls (check out my website davidwygant.com for some REALLY special deals on coaching), I’m in the studio with John Keegan… …and today’s topic is…

114: Toxic Relationship? HELL YES!!

Jun 29 • 19 min

Are you a man or woman who just seems to get in toxic relationship after toxic relationship? Well, this reality check is for you. Because we’re back in the studio with my great friend John Keegan, and we’re gonna dive deep into why we keep repeating these…

113: The “I Have It Covered” Mentality

Jun 28 • 14 min

“I have it covered.” Those are some famous last words of people who’ve been too stubborn, too arrogant, or too cheap to ever ask for help. And every time you tell yourself that, you move further and further away from the life you want to be living. So…

112: Are You a Tidbitter?

Jun 27 • 10 min

Are you a tidbitter? See, a tidbitter is someone who settles in life. They settle for an empty plate instead of a three-course meal. The settle for what they can get, instead of what they want, in their love life, their social life, their career, their…

111: Kill the Victim, Unleash the Inspiration

Jun 26 • 14 min

You know, I’m interviewed regularly by magazines, radio hosts and TV shows, but it’s never occurred to me to interview the interviewer. Well, that’s exactly what I did today. I was recently interviewed by Anelia of the Italian women’s monthly, AMICA, and…

110: What I Don’t Give a F*ck About

Jun 25 • 11 min

Another year’s gone by for me as my birthday approaches on July 1. And once again I find myself reflecting. Because as you get older, you start to realize what’s really important in your life… and what you don’t give a f*ck about anymore. So today is all…

109: Are You Captain Chaos?

Jun 24 • 10 min

Today is Sunday, a day for reflection. And there’s something I want all of you listening to really reflect on: you are the captain of your own ship, the creator of your own reality. So if you don’t like your job, you created that. If you don’t like your…

108: Love the Person, Not the Projection

Jun 23 • 11 min

Today I’ve got my great friend and fellow dating coach, Adam Gilad. And we’re going to talk about love. We’re going to talk about how to fall in love and how NOT to fall in love. See, so many people fall in love with the projection. The great body, the…

107: The Other ED Epidemic

Jun 22 • 13 min

There’s an epidemic in society right now. It’s affecting men both old and young. It’s destroying the dating lives of everyone it touches. It’s called ED. But, we’re not talking about erectile dysfunction. We’re talking emotional dysfunction. Huh? What’s…

106: Does Your Soul Have a Spiritual Disorder?

Jun 21 • 13 min

Today we’re talking about spiritual disorders. The things you can’t cure with physical therapy or a pill. SPIRITUAL disorders of the soul. We’re going to reveal the spiritual disorders we’ve come across in our own lives, and more importantly, whether you…

105: Do You Attract Emotional Vampires?

Jun 20 • 13 min

Yesterday was emotional midgets. Today, emotional vampires. You know, the people you date who just suck all the life and emotions and energy out of you. You see, men are especially prone to emotional vampires. Because men see the physical first. The nice…

104: Are You Dating an Emotional Midget?

Jun 19 • 15 min

Or emotional “little person,” for those who prefer to be a little more politically correct… But what do we mean, emotional midget? Well, it’s someone who’s NOT your emotional equal, and today’s reality check is my guest John Keegan and I warning you of…

103: I DARE You to Travel Down Vulnerability Road

Jun 18 • 10 min

Today’s reality check is a challenge. A challenge to travel down the road of vulnerability when you’re in a relationship. See, we get addicted to the oxytocin, the honeymoon phase when everything’s fine and dandy. But when shit hits the fan, what do you…

102: Embrace the Dad You Have

Jun 17 • 10 min

Today we’ve got a special Father’s Day episode. No guests, just me. And I’m going to talk about, well, fathers. Because we all have them, and most of us grew up with maybe some issues with our father. I had my own. But I’m going to tell you why it’s so…

101: The Daily Commitment Called Love

Jun 16 • 19 min

Love is… ___ (fill in the blank). Love is so many things, but above all, love is a commitment. And today, we have a very special episode with my great friend Larry Michael, and we’re going to go deep in love. We’re going to talk about what love is, what…

100: Textmance is NOT Romance!

Jun 15 • 13 min

Episode 100! We’re cruising through the 10 Minute Daily Reality Check, cruising through the month of June, and today we’re going to talk about the biggest waste of your phone: texting. See, a textmance is not a romance. You need face to face, or at least…

99: Your Life Sucks… Because of Your Attitude

Jun 14 • 12 min

Reality check, people: if your life sucks right now, it’s your attitude. 99% of the things that go wrong in your life can be traced back to you. Today I’m back with Eddie Palmer, and we’re going to reveal just how much your attitude affects everything in…

98: Beware of the Potted Plant Man

Jun 13 • 14 min

Men are like trees. Huh? What? Yes, men are like trees. The stronger the man, the deeper his roots are. Strong, quality men need to have a solid foundation in life. But the man you want to stay away from is the potted plant man. The man whose roots go…

97: Does Love At First Sight Exist?

Jun 12 • 12 min

We’re going to dub today’s episode a rapidfire question Tuesday, and today I’m going to answer one particular question: Does “love at first sight” exist? My answer? Well, yes. But… there’s a catch. I won’t reveal what it is (but here’s a hint: it has to…

96: The Definition of Family

Jun 10 • 11 min

With Fathers Day ‘17 around the corner, I’m flying solo on today’s podcast to reflect upon the meaning of family. Today, you’ll hear a bit about my personal life and my own family and what family means to me. But more importantly, I’m going to challenge…

95: Recycled Self-Help DOES Suck

Jun 10 • 13 min

You know why we call this show Radical Self Help That Doesn’t Suck? Because recycled self-help actually DOES suck. It’s garbage, and it’s not authentic. So what’s today’s reality check? Well, what my guest John Keegan and I are going to impress upon you…

94: The Mystical Language of Women

Jun 9 • 13 min

Oh, the mystical language of women. The language no man understands. Because he’s not wired like a woman. He doesn’t understand how women can get so worked up over something that he just brushes off. So if you’re a man who wants to decipher the mystical…

93: Fuck You, Don’t Judge Me!

Jun 8 • 13 min

You stand accused… of making some f*cked up decisions in your past. But who hasn’t done that? Who hasn’t made mistakes? So why are you judging me for the things that I’ve done? Today’s reality check is just that. We’re going to talk about NOT judging…

92: The Battle Between Daytime & Nighttime Sex

Jun 7 • 11 min

Ladies, why do men act so different at night than they do during the day? Why does nighttime sex always seem so much more intimate? Well, it has nothing to do with whether or not they love you. Today I’m in the studio with my good friend Obi, and we’re…

91: A Cry for Help!

Jun 6 • 11 min

You know, on the 10 Minute Daily Reality Check we give you lots of advice. But what if… there was a dating coach who wasn’t following the best dating advice!? This is all hypothetical of course, but what if there was a dating coach that told guys NOT to…

90: Chapters of the Past

Jun 5 • 12 min

We all have stories from our past. Some haunt us, and some we cherish. But I’m betting you don’t realize just how much these chapters of your past affect you today. Well, that’s what my guest John Keegan and I are going to reveal. We’re going to talk…

89: Beware of this Girl!

Jun 4 • 14 min

Beware of THIS girl… you know, the girl who’s SO interested in you. Who makes you feel wanted and loved. But she needs money. She needs her man to take care of her because she has it so hard… If you’ve ever known this girl, you NEED to listen to today’s…

88: Honesty is So Damn Sexy

Jun 3 • 17 min

God, honesty is just so damn sexy. Being raw and open and vulnerable for once. But you know what’s not sexy? Liars. People who lie about their age, their pictures, or anything else on sites and dating apps. So today, my guest Eddie and I are going to…

87: How Can You Find Love Projecting Lies?

Jun 2 • 13 min

Everybody’s a guru today. Everybody’s an expert today. Because, thanks to social media, they have a platform. They have a place to go and pretend to be something they’re not. But then, if you’re entire online life is projecting lies… how can you ever…

86: Social Media is the New Cigarette

Jun 1 • 14 min

What’s the first thing you do when you wake up? When you’re stressed? When you have 5 minutes of free time? Maybe you’re a smoker and you smoke. But for 99% of everyone else, you’re checking Facebook… because social media is the new cigarette. Join us…

85: iMessage… the New Tattletale

May 31 • 10 min

Who’s that texting you? What are they saying? There’s something out there that’s spying on all our texts and personal lives, and it’s not the NSA tapping your phone. It’s the iMessage that’s made all of us so neurotic and insecure! Join my guest John…

84: Take Control of Your Gut, Take Control of Your Health

May 30 • 27 min

Summer’s here, and you know what that means? Time to take control of your health - take control of your gut. I’m joined by my regular guest John Keegan, and we have another special guest today: Dr. Michael Ruscio. Dr. Ruscio is a nutrition and gut health…

83: The Guru-ism Plague

May 29 • 12 min

Pop quiz: what’s the only qualification to be a guru nowadays? Answer: a Facebook, Instagram, or Snapchat account. That’s really all it takes. But today, my guest John Keegan and I are going to blow the lid off this whole guru-ism plague and tell you what…

82: How to Handle Female Testosterone

May 28 • 12 min

Can you handle a strong women? Most men who are stuck with their manginas can’t. And if that’s you, well then this podcast is for you. I’m in the studio today with Elizabeth Lucas-Averett, or Ella, host of the On Air With Ella podcast, and we’re going to…

81: Is Social Media The End Of Romantic Love?

May 27 • 15 min

Likes. Pokes. Shares. Dick pics. Ok, did that last one throw you off? Maybe you don’t think dick picks below in that same list, but they do. Because it’s all part of social media now. And what social media has actually done is taught us NOT to…

80: What the Hell is a Soul-gasm?

May 26 • 15 min

Orgasms are so overrated. That’s right. I said it. Probably the best thing you think you’ve ever experienced… is bush league compared to what I’m talking about: the SOUL-GASM. The mind-to-mind, soul-to-soul connection you feel with a man or woman. Huh?…

79: The Lies Single Parents Tell Their Kids

May 25 • 15 min

Oh, this one’s either going to blow your mind or piss you the hell off… because we’re going to talk about single parents. And we’re going to talk about the lies single parents live, and what they’re really teaching their children every day. My guest today…

78: How to Win the Diet War

May 24 • 15 min

As many of you know, I’m huge on taking care of yourself. Fitness. Nutrition. Dieting. But there’s so much BS out there - so many fad diets that you can’t tell the truth from marketing gimmicks. Well, today I invited Dr. Nina Savelle-Rocklin to speak with…

77: Mindgasms & How to Get Stoned From People

May 23 • 11 min

Here’s something that gay men & women have down to a tee, which us humdrum heterosexuals just can’t fucking get right: the full-on MINDGASM. See, I love having a mindgasm. I love actually getting stoned off the people I’m with and the places I go to. It’s…

76: Let the Weird Flag Fly!

May 22 • 16 min

You know what I say? F*ck being normal. That’s right. Because normal people are forgettable. Normal doesn’t attract. You want to be good at flirting? You want to be an interesting, memorable person? BE WEIRD! Let the weird flag fly, and fly it high. So…

75: How to Design Your Own God

May 21 • 12 min

Let’s talk about something we haven’t talked about so far: God. And I want to take a different approach and suggest that, whatever your beliefs are, you may already have your own idea of God without realizing it. Today I’m in the studio with Camille…

74: Who Are You Bullshitting?

May 20 • 15 min

Who are you bullshitting? Why do you think you deserve the things in life that you think you deserve? What’s your story? We have such a capacity to delude ourselves, but today that ends. Because today’s reality check is: stop bullshitting yourself and…

73: Who the F*ck Do You Think You Are???

May 19 • 12 min

Let me ask you a question: who the F*CK do you think you are? So many people are walking around with this idea of their selves that’s, well, not true. So who are you really? Are you the great, amazing, evolved person you think you are? That’s today’s…

72: Beware!! Don’t Let This Happen To You!

May 18 • 12 min

Beware! Have you ever gotten a phone call from the “IRS” and they claim you’re going to get fined or arrested? Well folks, those are scammers. So today, my guest John Keegan and I decided to scam the scammers. We called them back and, well, hilarity…

71: The Mangina Monologues

May 17 • 9 min

Let’s talk about the modern mangina. Because I’m here to help you through coaching, bootcamps, and my programs, but some of you just refuse to lose your mangina, lose your fear and start attracting women. So it’s time for some tough love. And that’s…

70: How to Be Ungay While Having a Bromance

May 15 • 10 min

Alright, just a disclaimer: neither I nor my guest John Keegan are homophobic. But all political correctness aside, let’s talk about bromances… and how to really have one without questioning your sexuality ;) And that’s today’s reality check, and we’re…

69: Braingasm vs. Orgasm - Who Wins?

May 15 • 11 min

Sex! That’s today’s reality check for you. Because there are too many men out there who get pussy-matized, and women out there who get dick-matized, by people they really don’t even like. So today, my guest John Keegan and I are going to ask you a simple…

68: Do We Sugar Coat or Do We Text Like It Is?

May 13 • 12 min

Are you a sugar coater? Or do you text like it is? See, the problem with texting nowadays is that it’s allowed us to avoid confrontation and sugar coat anything that makes us uncomfortable. So today, my guest John Keegan and I are going to do more than…

67: Are Penis Afros Back in Style?

May 13 • 11 min

Happy Mother’s Day! Today’s topic might be strange for Mother’s Day, but you know what? We have to get it out there. Let’s talk about our dicks. It seems the penis afro is making a comeback, and today my guest John Keegan and I are going to talk about…

66: Good Enough to F*ck, Not Good Enough to Call

May 12 • 12 min

Are you good enough to f*ck, but not good enough to call? That’s a question for both men and women, by the way, because it goes both ways nowadays. That’s today’s reality check and I’m back with Eddie and Greg, and we’re going to talk about why you’re…

65: The Male Side of Single Parenting

May 11 • 13 min

Let’s talk about something not a lot of people talk about: the male side of being a single parent. How do you deal with the ex? How do you still be the best parent you can be for your son or daughter? We’re going to talk about all of this and more in…

64: The Illusion Called Self-Righteous Love

May 10 • 14 min

Today, everybody’s got a guru. Everybody’s got a self-help book. Everybody’s got a diet, an exercise program, and a lifestyle. And you know what? They keep telling you how great it is. They want you to follow it… because they love you. Well you know what?…

63: The Dangerous World of Texting the Ex

May 9 • 13 min

I know we’re all told to recycle - but let me tell you about something that you DON’T want to recycle: your relationships! Today we’re back with Eddie and Greg and we’re going to talk about the dangers of texting your ex instead of moving on - and the…

62: You Can’t Fake Swagger

May 8 • 10 min

Swagger. Confidence. These are some of the most powerful qualities that anyone (man OR woman) can have. But what do they really mean? Well, today we’re back with Greg and Eddie, and that’s what we’re going to talk about. We’re going to reveal what swagger…

61: Idolizing False Instagram Gods

May 7 • 10 min

It used to be that we idolized the all-star quarterback who dated the prom queen. But these days, we’re idolizing men and women on Instagram and Facebook for… well, I’m not sure exactly. And that’s what today’s radical reality is. I’m joined once again by…

60: How to Go Long for Love

May 6 • 10 min

Today we’re joined by 2 recent guests, my good friend Greg and Eddie Palmer, the best personal trainer on the West Coast. And we’re going to talk about how to go long for love. Because in this ADD world of Tinder and Bumble, most people go short. They’re…

59: Are You Sucked Into the World of Useless Disruption?

May 5 • 11 min

Disruption: here’s the thing about it… we need disruption. We need a break from our everyday reality, and that’s exactly what this podcast is about. But today, we’re being disrupted by the most useless B.S. All the negativity on Facebook. Pictures of…

58: Wake the F@#K Up People!

May 4 • 11 min

I’ve said it once. I’ve said it literally thousands of times on this podcast alone. PUT THE IPHONE DOWN AND WAKE UP! Because while you’re busy checking your Instagram feed or snapping the picture that no one is going to care about after 30 minutes, life…

57: Feminine Power or Prostitution?

May 3 • 12 min

Sugar daddies - they’re everywhere. There are sites where women can meet sugar daddies and have an “arrangement.” They get food, they get money, they get jewelry… …and they’re supposedly “empowered” women?? Well, no, they’re not. More like prostitution.…

56: Why Your Stories are Bullshit

May 2 • 19 min

We’ve all got stories. Stories of how our lives are supposed to be. The white picket fence. The perfect partner who we’re supposed to meet and fall head over heels in love with. Every day we try to live out our stories, but you know what? They’re…

55: The Balance Between Masculine And Feminine

May 1 • 20 min

Once upon a time, we lived in a masculine-dominated world. But today is different, and for better or worse, there’s sometimes a blurred line between each of our masculine & feminine energies. Men act feminine. Women act masculine. But in reality, we need…

54: The Rise of the Lumbersexual

Apr 30 • 18 min

Oh man do we have a fiery podcast for you today, and it’s going to piss off a lot of you bearded hipsters out there. But you know what? You need to hear it, because more and more guys are starting to look like Taylor from Billions (and if you don’t get…

53: The Best Passive-Aggressive Techniques for Revenge

Apr 29 • 19 min

Oh, so many of you men and women are so vengeful! You lover didn’t say the right thing, do the right thing or act the right way… so you have to take your revenge out on them passive-aggressively for the next month or so. There are plenty of ways to do…

52: The Presence of Mark Wahlberg

Apr 28 • 11 min

Ah, the presence of Mark Wahlberg. Because the guy’s got presence… and yes, I’ve got a bit of a man crush on him. And I’m not ashamed to admit it. There’s something to admire in that. And he’s not the only one. Our current president has got it. Our last…

51: The Meaning of Moms

Apr 27 • 9 min

Your mom is - as my guest John Keegan says - a library of you. She brought you into this world, and she knows everything about you. And without her, there’s just something missing from your life. Both John and I have lost our mothers in recent years, and…

50: The Power of Masturbating Your Love Self

Apr 26 • 6 min

Let’s take a second to think about what masturbation is… it’s not just a fantasy, but also a visualization. Visualizing what you want… what you strongly desire more than anything else. Now, let’s take that idea and apply it to your life. Your actions.…

49: The Polarity of Social Media

Apr 25 • 16 min

Wow… so I’ve always had my “social media is hurting us” soapbox, but some recent events have taken it to a whole new level. If you haven’t heard, a man in Thailand recently took his son’s life - and then his own - on Facebook live. So today, I sat down…

48: Can You Handle Radical Sex?

Apr 24 • 14 min

I’ve spoken about this in previous episodes - WAITING before you buy your ticket onto the bang bus. We’ve talked about waiting before sex, whether it’s 30 days, 45 days or 100 hours. It’s a pretty radical view - in fact, so extreme that it made my guest…

47: Instagram’s Dirty Secret (Featuring Tripp Advice)

Apr 23 • 12 min

Today I’m joined by my good friend Tripp from Tripp Advice, and we’re going to let all you instagrammers in on a dirty little secret: Instagram is the new porn! Guys have become addicted to it like they’re addicted to porn, and all you Instagram ladies…

46: Carol Anne Come Into the Light!

Apr 23 • 11 min

OOOO. So dark. So gloomy. Everyone seems so glum nowadays! And I just feel like Diane Freeling in the movie Poltergeist yelling, “Carol Anne, come into the light!” Why so dark? Today, my good friend and regular guest John Keegan is in the studio with me,…

45: What Marcia Brady Says About Ghosting

Apr 21 • 10 min

Ghosting - many of us have done it, and we’ve all been a victim of it. I have, my guest John Keegan has, and so has Marcia Brady when she gave in and decided to go out on a date with Mr. Popular, Doug the quarterback. And then he ghosted her with the…

44: Are Baby Thoughts Plaguing You?

Apr 20 • 17 min

So many people don’t really know what they’re looking for in love. They think they do. They have their stories they’re trying to play out, but it’s just not their love story. And here’s the big story that a lot of women are trying to live, which I discuss…

43: What the F#%ck is a Love Blueprint?

Apr 19 • 16 min

Oh, do we have an amazing reality check today. It’s about the love blueprint that all of you have. It’s what you’re looking for in your love life. See, so many of us are dick-matized and pussy-matized when it comes to love and relationships. We mistake…

42: The Perils of the Love Gypsy

Apr 18 • 15 min

The love gypsy: that person that moves from relationship to relationship with about, say, 92 seconds of staying single in between. Beware the perils of the love gypsy! Because here’s the thing: if you’re constantly moving from one relationship to another,…

41: Thou Shalt Show Restraint

Apr 17 • 13 min

Today we’re back in the studio with Eddie Palmer, and we’re going to talk about RESTRAINT (and if you hear that word and immediately think I’m talking about getting handcuffed to the bedpost… this episode is definitely for you). Here’s the thing: we’re in…

40: Busy… The Death of New Relationships

Apr 16 • 14 min

Today we’re going to talk about two of my favorite people: Busy Billie and Busy Betsy. You see, Billy and Betsy talk talk talk about how much work they’ve done, how evolved they are, and how much they want to date. Talk talk talk. But when the time comes,…

39: Lose Your “Type” and Find Your Standards

Apr 14 • 13 min

Everyone’s got a type, right? It’s something we all hear. It’s something we all tell ourselves. The skinny blonde with blue eyes. The muscular, rugged man with that George Clooney smile. Here’s a question, though: would you date them if you were blind?…

38: The Assassination of The Representative

Apr 14 • 13 min

Ahh, the representative. The version of yourself that you THINK people want to see, that you THINK people will be attracted to. I’ve got news for you, and you know what’s coming here: if you ever want to be successful at dating, you have to KILL the…

37: All You Need Is Swipe.. Swipe Is All You Need

Apr 13 • 8 min

John Lennon said it best: “All you need is swipe.” Because when you’re just swiping, you don’t actually have to get to know someone. You don’t have to worry about thing like, “Can I get their number?” “Will they meet me for a date?” “Are they even a real…

36: When Is The Perfect Time For The 1st Kiss?

Apr 12 • 13 min

I’m a pretty unfiltered, do-what-I-want kind of guy. But I have to be honest: the only time I ever really get shy is first kiss time. I mean, I’m a dating coach, but I still get shy! There’s no getting around it. It’s awkward. Incredibly awkward. That…

35: 100 Hours ‘Til Sex!?

Apr 10 • 11 min

Yesterday, Jonathon Aslay and I rocked the boat a little bit with a pretty radical suggestion: wait 30 days until having sex. Well, today I have a very special guest who has a bit of a problem with that rule: Brian Howie, host of the acclaimed Great Love…

34: The 30 Day No Sex Rule

Apr 10 • 18 min

Oh do we have a special episode today. I’m here with my good friend Jonathon Aslay and we’re going to talk about something he posted on Facebook in response to a post about women not being happy with the male dating pool. And what we’re going to really…

33: The Most Powerful Drug of All, Humans

Apr 9 • 14 min

Dating is a heady brew. It’s an extremely powerful feeling to find someone and actually know that they’re you’re emotional and spiritual comrade. Dating is the constant opportunity to fall in love. And that’s what we all want: to fall in love, be in love.…

32: Are You a Review Troll?

Apr 8 • 17 min

You know, some people just can’t handle the f*cking truth? Like all you Yelp and Amazon review people. You passive aggressive people who presume to judge people who you know nothing about, who can’t take responsibility for ANY of the things that go wrong…

31: Leave Your Dating Representative at Home

Apr 7 • 11 min

What do I mean by “the representative?” It’s the well-behaved version of who you AREN’T. It’s who you THINK people will be attracted to, who you think people will be impressed by. And when you date and you bring the representative instead of your…

30: I Know a Little Life Secret

Apr 5 • 12 min

I know a little life secret… and it’s something we talked about a little yesterday. Want to know what it is? Live your life like you’re an artist. Life is a theater, and you’re an improv artist. Every second of every minute of every day, life throws…

29: Why I Love Being a Stimulation Junkie

Apr 5 • 14 min

My guest John and I are both stimulation junkies, and I’ve gotta say: we f*cking LOVE it. See, when you’re stimulated, that’s when you’re really alive. That’s when you’re present. That’s when you’re not letting the little things bother you. You’re…

28: The Sounds of the Zombie Culture

Apr 4 • 11 min

Brring. Ding-ding. Beep. Bloop. These are the sounds of the zombie culture, the culture that’s stuck to their iPhone like they have permanent blowjob neck. When did we become so inconsiderate? When did we, as a society, decide that the little white screen…

27: The Monster in Your Hands

Apr 2 • 11 min

What if I told you… the monster in your home is actually in your hands? It’s the smartphone, which you use as a replacement for human beings, human contact and connection. So today’s challenge? A day free from the monster in your hands.

26: Does Googling Kill Attraction?

Apr 1 • 13 min

Do you Google a potential date as soon as you meet them? Maybe you look them up to see what they post on Facebook? (God forbid they voted for Trump and you didn’t, right?) Here’s the problem: why can’t you just get to know them? When you look someone up,…

25: What To Do If You Are Big Worded

Apr 1 • 17 min

Big words don’t impress me. And they probably don’t impress the person you’re trying to impress with your impressive big words. Today John and I are going to talk about how each of us got by without EVER using our intelligence, but rather by using what…

24: The Dangers of Playing With A Man’s Balls

Mar 31 • 12 min

Every man loves to have his balls fondled, of course. But that’s not what we’re talking about here. What we’re talking about are the kinds of ball-busting women who will play with a man’s balls, his ego, his manhood. So why do so many women do this? Today…

23: Hide Hide And Ignore You Silly Human

Mar 30 • 14 min

Hide! Move to a neighborhood filled with people who are just like you, and then hide from them. In the line at Starbucks, keep your head down staring at your phone. Here’s the challenge of the day: instead of ignoring people… TALK TO THEM! And write down…

22: Here Comes Judge Hypocrite

Mar 29 • 15 min

Here comes the judge hypocrite! Do you judge people without ever getting to no them? I mean, hey. I’m no saint. I’m guilty as charged of making judgment. Here’s the deal with judgment, though. Because we’re hypocrites. We’re hypocrites in the sense that…

21: The Truth About One Night Stands

Mar 27 • 10 min

All you guys out there (and gals, I’m not says you’re innocent here) who dream of no-strings-attached f*ck-buddy one night stands - Is that really what you want? To “conquer the pussy?” You think that’s what you want in your sex life? I’m not so sure…

20: Funeral for the Past

Mar 26 • 15 min

Today is a special episode. Because today’s the episode where we hold my own funeral. You see, I used to be David Wygant. Wild, primal, instinctual. But now I’m the David Wygant that will feel a woman’s energy. So join us today as we talk about growing…

19: Dating Is Not a Popularity Contest

Mar 26 • 13 min

I got 10 matches on Bumble the other day! Can you believe it!? I mean, I honestly can’t believe you’d even think something like 10 Bumble matches is even important! Because it’s not, really. Dating is NOT a popularity contest. Do you really need hundreds…

18: Letting Go Of The Negative

Mar 25 • 13 min

Today I’ve got a really great guest, Nada Leena, and today Nada is going to talk to us about letting go of the negative. Letting go of the past and turning it into something positive. Nada is the founder of Rise Up for You, a company that empowers women…

17: The Warped Thoughts Of Men

Mar 23 • 14 min

Ohhhh the warped thoughts of men. Some of the stuff you guys think about women… seriously so many of you need coaching! But look. I’m on your side. I blame porn, really. And today, I’ve got a very special guest, one of my favorite female dating experts,…

16: Can A Woman Ask A Man Out Without Shrinking His Balls?

Mar 23 • 13 min

One of my friends, Jonathon Aslay, really stirred the pot up on Facebook the other day by stating something bold: A woman CAN ask a man out! So, I invited Jonathon into the studio to expand on this controversy with me and Jon Keegan. And we’re going to…

15: The Stupidity Of The News

Mar 21 • 15 min

Here’s the stupidity of the news in a nutshell: most of the time, it’s not news at all! Snow storms that never happen. Scandals blown way out of proportion. See, they’re just trying to keep you entertained for their ad revenue. It’s all speculation. It’s…

14: Your Opinion Really Is Not That Important!!

Mar 21 • 13 min

This is going to be news for a lot of you, but I have to say it: Your opinion is really NOT that important! But here’s the bigger point: Why do you care that so many people know your opinion? Why do you NEED to broadcast your thoughts to so many people?…

13: Why Swipe Dating Is A Barrel Of Monkeys

Mar 20 • 13 min

Remember that game barrel of monkeys? You would throw the monkeys on the ground and then sit there for hours trying to hook them together. Well, that’s what “swipe dating” (Tinder, Bumble, etc.) has become like. Because you can’t really get a feel for…

12: The Dark Side of Inspiration

Mar 19 • 13 min

We all have good moments and bad moments. Good days and bad days. Great inspirational bursts… and then really dark inspiration. But here’s the thing: don’t deny yourself that darkness. Don’t pretend everything’s ok in life when it’s not. Empower yourself…

11: When and When Not To Use Dirty Talk

Mar 17 • 13 min

Dirty talk can be downright hilarious. I mean, don’t get me wrong. I LOVE dirty talk, but the things we say to each other sometimes…? So that’s today’s topic on the 10 Day Reality Check. Today I have John with me in the studio again, and we’re going to…

10: Passion Creates Attraction

Mar 16 • 11 min

There are certain things in this world you definitely don’t want to “catch”, from the clap to the common cold. But one contagious thing you definitely NEED to catch is passion. Because if you are passionate, you will always be attractive. If you are…

9: The Fear of Humans

Mar 14 • 10 min

Yesterday, we talked about how America’s, well, playing with their hands too much. And then before that, we talked about how we’re playing with our little electronic toys too much. So what’s all this leading up to? Fear of humans. Fear of other people.…

8: America, The Masturbation Capital Of The World

Mar 14 • 12 min

If I was given a vagina for just one day… you wouldn’t hear from me for 24 hours. Because you see, in America we’ve become the masturbation capital of the world. We masturbate all day and then we wonder why we’re not meeting other people, why we’re not…

7: How The iPhone Stole Your Lives

Mar 13 • 11 min

Every day, we’re swiping. We’re typing. We’re texting each other about the people we’d like to meet, the people we’d like to connect with, instead of… (here’s a novel idea) CONNECTING WITH THEM! In today’s rant - I mean, podcast - I have my good friend…

6: Why Little White Lies Keep You Single

Mar 13 • 10 min

Dating, especially online dating, has become so filled with lies. You lie about your age or your attitude or your outlook on life. Your pictures that make you look younger, skinnier or different are lies (implicitly). White lies, sure. Maybe you think…

5: The Secret Lesson That Strippers Teach Us

Mar 11 • 10 min

We’re really a touch-starved society. We don’t touch one another at all. Today my guest is my good friend and one of my coaches, TJ. And today, TJ is going to claim that strippers have a lesson to teach us in this area. They’re dancing on your lap and are…

4: Mind to Mouth (Just Say It)

Mar 10 • 11 min

Mind to mouth: that’s how we do this 10 Minute Daily Reality Check, and that’s the name of this episode. That’s how Donald Trump won the presidency, folks. That’s how little kids are, that’s the lesson they teach us. Don’t be in your head, don’t be…

3: Claiming What You Want

Mar 9 • 10 min

Today’s reality is an interesting reality for all of you out there who are dating. We do this painful dance around the issues instead of just talking and being upfront with each other. When it comes to sex, men don’t want to bring up the issue of sex…

2: Dating On Demand: Welcome To The Netflix Of Dating

Mar 7 • 10 min

Online dating has become like shopping on Amazon.com. Literally, we’ve been dating people like we’re shopping — like we’re looking for a movie on Netflix. We can’t make a decision anymore because we don’t have the reviews. Dating has become so fearful for…

1: What Is Daily Reality Check And Why Do You Need It?

Mar 7 • 14 min

Ten minutes is all we ask for you to listen to change your perspective on current issue from dating, sex, relationships, money, wealth, fitness. What we are is the easiest, quickest advice to make your day an even better day. What we’re not is some…