Food 4 Thot

Food 4 Thot

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A multiracial mix of queer writers talk about sex, relationships, race, identity, what we like to read, and who we like to read.


Black Lives Matter
Jun 10 • 65 min
The Thots are back with a special reminder: BLACK LIVES MATTER. Like you, we are angry, we are upset, we are frightened, we are inspired. In this special edition popcorn episode, we tackle specific aspects of the current moment: anti-racism, the police…
Get Away From Me
May 17 • 66 min
This week we explore a totally new concept for the Thots — Boundaries! What are they, and who has them (not Joe!)? Do they protect us, or do they isolate us? What are the boundaries we prioritize in our own lives, and where do we find our own healthy…
Mommy Queerest
Apr 19 • 62 min
We’re back and on this Sunday morning, we’re gracing you some Mommy Issues of our very own! For every Daddy, there’s a Mama nearby. We talk about our Moms, what we’ve learned, what we’ve kept, and what we don’t want, and we ask the eponymous question: if…
I’m Getting Close πŸ₯΄πŸ₯΄πŸ₯΄πŸ₯΄
Apr 5 • 63 min
We’re back! This week we get intimate by talking about intimacy! What did intimacy mean to you in the past, and what does it mean now? How do you find, or achieve intimacy, and how do you avoid it? And when things get a little too intimate, do we lean in,…
Thotpocalypse
Mar 24 • 64 min
SURPRISE!! Ur favorite Hot Thotties couldn’t leave you in the quarantine lurch! We’re back, and from a safe distance we’re as raucous, as nasty, and as Thotful as we’ve always been. We check-in with ourselves and each other, and as usual, we keep our…
Zaddy Can You Hear Me?
Mar 8 • 64 min
It’s Sunday morning Thots, and today we’re worshipping at the church of Zaddy! But like any good Zaddy, we flip the script on you! Are we Zaddies? Have we ever felt like Zaddies? And what’s behind the queer obsession with the Zaddy archetype? We ask all…
I’m the Baaaaad Guy
Mar 1 • 57 min
What’s so good about fighting the good fight, when you can fight the bad fight? We’re talking outsiders, the misunderstood: VILLAINS! What’s behind the binary of good and evil, and why are so many villains femme fatales? And lastly, are some of our…
We Don’t Belong
Feb 23 • 67 min
Y’all asked, we answered — by going all the way there! We dive into one of the greatest forces at work inside us all, and we ask the age old question: is the imposter calling from inside the house? How do we battle this pesky syndrome and keep living our…
Pete Ain’t Gay
Feb 16 • 58 min
This week we dish about centrism! Is civil discourse the way we move forward or does it simply ignore the cries of those most marginalized? In such trying times, how do we ensure that the revolution is televised?? We cream your bagels with a special…
Hoetry in Motion
Feb 9 • 62 min
This week we devote a full-episode to our favorite literary practice of all: HOETRY! We talk about what poems mean to us as readers, writers, thinkers, and sluts. As three brown queers and one rainbow brite, we ask whether poetry is intended for access,…
Wuts Luv Got 2 Do With It?
Feb 2 • 70 min
Love is in the air! Today we’re continuing our conversation on love — how vast it is, how intimate, how fun, and how painful! This week we queer our love and explore the complications and the ways our queer feelings make us both different and unique, and…
Popcorn is Gay Corn
Jan 26 • 62 min
Pop pop pop! We’re back and because we can’t make tough choices, we’re back with another popcorn episode, in which we lightning round discuss five spectacular topics! We take it all the way from tarot to jealousy and back again! We grease your poles with…
But Does It Spark Joy?
Jan 19 • 67 min
This week we’re on TOUR! We trynna have you singing “Joy to the world, the Thots have cum!” We go everywhere in this discussion, from what sparks joy and what doesn’t, to the fear that sometimes keeps our joy from us, the big and little ways we find joy…
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Jan 4 • 3 min
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Happy Heauxlidays!
Dec 16, 2019 • 64 min
Heaux, Heaux Heaux, Binches! The holidays are here and we’re talking mistletoe and Mistle-Hoes! Are you celebrating the holidays or are you coping your way through them? Can we, as queer folk, go fully homo for the holidays when we go home, or is home too…
What’s Ur Safe Word?
Dec 8, 2019 • 65 min
This week, we’re revisiting one of our all-time favorite episodes from Season 1 (feels like forever ago!) about safe spaces. Where and when do we feel most safe and what do we get from these spaces? How do you determine your safe space and how do you make…
Werkin’ 9 to 5
Dec 1, 2019 • 63 min
Rihanna told us to work work work work work, and babyyyyy we are WERKIN’ GIRLS! This week we’re talking about jobs and careers, decisions made and steps taken! Are we millennially lazy, stuck-up, or do we just have standards? And how do we, and should we…
Feed Us
Nov 24, 2019 • 66 min
EXTRA, EXTRA, Read All About It! We’re live at Strand Books launching Tommy ”Teebs” Pico’s 4th book in 4 years, FEED! What does it mean to build community around the table, to love ourselves in a world that doesn’t love us, and to nourish ourselves and…
Are You Committed to This Podcast?
Nov 17, 2019 • 60 min
It’s cuffing season, and while ur Thots love a good cuff, this week we’re talking about commitment! Are we fearless or fearful? When should we bend over and commit to that baby-arm, and when should we side-step that trap? And how far can we go in our…
Let’s Talk About Death, Baby!
Nov 10, 2019 • 63 min
It’s Sunday and your favorite Thots talk about that nasty thirst, that hardcore thirst, that deadly thirst! From our own personal philosophies around loss and eventual demise, to where we were when we learned about iconic deaths, we have a killer…
Introducing: The Sporkful
Nov 7, 2019 • 4 min
Are you hungry, dear thots? Need a bite to eat? Listen to Tommy talk about his food journey in the kitchen on this week’s episode of The Sporkful, and then deep dive into all their episodes on cooking, eating, restaurants, and how food and culture…
Bet Yr Bottom DollarπŸ€‘πŸ€‘πŸ€‘πŸ€‘
Nov 3, 2019 • 63 min
This Sunday we write you a check you can cash! The Thots are talking dollars and cents, capitalism and car payments! We give you our best tips and reveal our best decisions and our biggest, Thottiest, most costly, mistakes! We sprinkle your donuts with…
Turns Out I’m 100% That Witch
Oct 27, 2019 • 60 min
Candy and costumes and gutter-sluttery, oh my! It’s ookie-spooky time and we Thots wanna carve your pumpkins! We discuss costumes and spirits, masks and mystery, and what we unleash when we adorn ourselves in costumes and masks, and open ourselves and…
Boo, Binch!
Oct 20, 2019 • 64 min
We’re here, we’re queer, and we’re talking about the worldwide phenomenon of ghosting! When have you ghosted, or been ghosted, and what was behind the ghosting? Is it fair and viable, or is it an instance of popularized emotional abuse? We race your…
This Is Why You Don’t Fuck Writers
Oct 13, 2019 • 60 min
It’s Sunday, girls, and your Thots are back with a little extra-Thotty service. We turn inward, and consider the ethics of writing about exes and mining our personal lives for our art! Do we tell the tuth, embellish, or conceal? And if we protect, who are…
Stay mad 😑
Oct 6, 2019 • 70 min
Dearest Thot Pockets, we’re back and this time we’re talking about anger! Righteous, Queer, political, we tell you all about what gets our fists up and our blood boiling! Do we own our anger or do we hide behind it? We tell you how *not* to shoot your…
We’re Totally Asking For It
Sep 29, 2019 • 58 min
The Thots are back to bless your Sunday with Part 2 of our conversation on consent! We take it beyond the bar and into the bedroom where we chat about setting up boundaries and saying Yes. We wanna know: Do you like it rough, or easy like Sunday morning?…
We’re Back, Fam!
Sep 22, 2019 • 61 min
Ring, ring, Thots! School’s back in session, and to celebrate being back together, we say yes to each other! We pay tribute to queer chosen fam, how they shape us and our lives, and why they are sometimes the best fam there is! We butter your bagels with…
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Sep 19, 2019 • 3 min
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Introducing…SCREAM, QUEEN!
Aug 25, 2019 • 5 min
Scream, Queen! Is a podcast about scary movies, by people not typically depicted in scary movies. Hosts Drea Washington and Tommy Pico dish about what goes bump in the night—from a black/queer/indigenous perspective—and have a damn good time. Produced by…
The Future is Gay as Hell
Jun 23, 2019 • 58 min
In this week’s episode, we turn our Thotty gazes to the future! As we put season 3 to rest, we ask ourselves the hard questions: what do we want, and when do we want it? Do we think about our futures or do we focus on the present? And who, and what, are…
Baby, Bi, Bi, Bi (feat. Ashley Ford!)
Jun 16, 2019 • 63 min
Your fave Hotty Thotties are back again to blow your bi-bi-binaries! This week we explore the full spectrum of desire and sexuality, asking ourselves how rigid we are in our fully Thot-tastic lives, hearts, bedrooms, and dreams!We blast off with one of…
Insignificant Others, Part 2
Jun 9, 2019 • 72 min
Hello from the good Thots of Portland, OR! In our rabble-rousing show at Portland’s inaugural Listen Up Podcast Festival, we dive deep into relationships, situationships, and we ask each other: can intimacy include distance? We start by fluffing your…
Don’t Listen to Us
Jun 2, 2019 • 68 min
Switching things up because we, too, are militantly vers, the Hot Thotties bring you a full episode of Penny for Your Thots! We answer your questions about love, sex, the Thotty Politic, and everything else— and offer a cute disclaimer: get a second…
Crushed It
May 26, 2019 • 61 min
Ur fave tater Thots are back and this week, we talk all things crush! Who stole or hearts first? How do we cope with the pain and pleasure of ending someone oh so badly? We’re back to remind you, just as spring heats up, to never worry—it’s just a lil…
Listen Again: We Are Not Lonely, We Just Hate People
May 5, 2019 • 67 min
My queens! We aren’t returning to the studio just yet, but thanks to Spotify and Gay Star News’ Digital Pride festival, we are bringing you back an oldie but a goodie for the festival theme: ‘tackling loneliness and isolation.’ As queer people, we get to…
Introducing Uncover: The Village
Apr 6, 2019 • 3 min
Two waves of murders, 40 years apart. Who’s killing men in Toronto’s gay community and why are they getting away with it? The latest season of Uncover from CBC Podcasts is out now: cbc.ca/uncover Learn more about your ad-choices at…
Bye, Bye, Binary! (feat. Alok Vaid-Menon!)
Mar 17, 2019 • 61 min
Fender bender, or gender bender? The Thots discuss our earliest gender bending moments, our relationships to boxers vs briefs, and the battles we fought to affirm our genders, before surrendering the white flag (ie. briefs!). When, and how, did we find…
You a Bad Girl and Your Friends Bad Too (feat. Danez Smith and Angel Nafis!)
Mar 10, 2019 • 62 min
In true queer fam style, the Thots take you for an intimate hand-holding stroll down friendship lane. What makes a best friend, how deep does friendship go, and does queer friendship mean anything different from anything else? What are the promises we…
The Great and Terrible Internet (feat. Dylan Marron!)
Mar 3, 2019 • 67 min
Age, sex, location, bb! From dial-up to digital, chat rooms to dating apps, the Thots explore the internet! We probe every corner of the ‘net for first porn experiences, earliest AIM screen names, and primitive illicit searches for online queer…
The Thots Go to Hollywood (feat. Steven Canals!)
Feb 24, 2019 • 66 min
In celebration of the iconic golden man, and the gayest heaux-li-day of the year, we travel cross-country to Hollywood in search of the three Gs—glitz, glamour, and Glenn! Once on set, we ask the biggest question of the year: Mary Queen of Scots, or Mary…
Insignificant Others πŸ’˜
Feb 17, 2019 • 74 min
Roses are red, violets are blue, these heauxs are Thotty, and so are YOU! In our LIVE Galentine’s Gay Special, your fave sweet tarts discuss and disclose our various situation-ships, our dysfunctions and desires, and why our messy selves love a situation!…
Ho in the Area Code
Feb 10, 2019 • 70 min
Get yr passports ready binches, these heaux are cumming on the road! Ur favorite Thotties explore what it means to be a ho on the go, and protecting, projecting, and loving our queer selves as we take on trains, planes, cabs, and carriages! As always we…
Get Me Bodied (feat. Guy Branum!)
Feb 3, 2019 • 65 min
Are you there, God, it’s me—Mario Lopez! Craving deeper exploration, the Thots examine the roots of our own body goals, the physiques that captivate us, and loving our body-ody-odies so we can find the boyfriend…within? ;-) We get things going by swiping…
Ass-tral Projections (feat. Chani Nicholas!)
Jan 27, 2019 • 63 min
Double, double, toil, and…. Thottery? Get out your birth charts and explore what’s written in the stars as the Thots learn about the cosmic connection between our lives and our births! We get the witching hour started by swiping right or left on our…
This Episode is Bringing Sexy Back
Jan 20, 2019 • 73 min
Let’s talk about SEX, BB! Get down n’ dirty with the Thots as we tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing *butt* the truth about our sex lives! Pet peeves and fantasies, daddies and bois, get nasty as we bare (bear?) it all! We start by asking our…
Here Cums the Bride πŸ’¦(feat. Meredith Talusan!)
Jan 13, 2019 • 64 min
Dearly Beloved binches, we are gathered here today to witness the Thotting together… butt wait! Must we live, love, and laugh as though our lives are heteronormative? Or do we get a free pass to Thot as we wish? We regale you with our multiple-choice…
Let’s Go to Church! πŸ™ŒπŸ»πŸ™ŒπŸΌπŸ™ŒπŸ½πŸ™ŒπŸΎ (feat. Darnell Moore!)
Jan 6, 2019 • 62 min
In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth, and declared herself a bottom! This week the Thots take to their knees at the pulpit in search of faith, salvation, and the answer to the greatest question of all: Does God exist, and what are her…
New Year, Same Queers
Dec 30, 2018 • 70 min
Happy New Queer, binches. This week, we are giving you a delicious course of tapas. In an incredible, thot-defying feat, we are taking on five (5!!!) topics in one episode which were hand-selected by us and suggested by you on social media: How do we…
THE BEST OF FOREVER DOG 2018
Dec 27, 2018 • 177 min
Thank you for listening to Forever Dog podcasts this year and please enjoy this year-in-review clips show! Listen to find a new favorite podcast to subscribe to in 2019 or just a killer back catalog to binge during your holiday travels. And please follow…
We Just Wanna Be Tracee Ellis Ross (feat. Bowen Yang!)
Dec 22, 2018 • 70 min
Merry Thotmas, binches! We’re giving you our episode one day early as a festive treat! And what’s more delicious than the one and only Bowen Yang in a juicy discussion about *~**~~ dating *~*~** Dating is absolutely trash, but how do we navigate this…
Let’s Go Camping (feat. Matt Rogers!)
Dec 16, 2018 • 61 min
Lions and tigers and bears, it’s CAMP! Ur favorite Hot Toddy Thotties dive deep into the style that makes so many of us such legendary queers. We ask what *is* camp and why do we love it so? In our heaux-lier than thou holiday rendition of Top Secret, we…
Represent Me Daddy (feat. Harron Walker!)
Dec 9, 2018 • 60 min
We’re here, we’re queer, you see us, you want to *be* us! But is all representation good? We used to be happy just to be seen, but as the world moves forward, do we get to critique the ways in which we are painted, or in which we paint ourselves? Butt…
We’re Going Mental
Dec 2, 2018 • 64 min
Mental health? More like mental hell nah! This week we get into the ooey, gooey conversation of what it means to be “okay” when it comes to your anxiety, depression, or any other assortment of things you should go to therapy for. Plus! In a lovely…
Thots Erased (feat. Garrard Conley!)
Nov 25, 2018 • 66 min
This week the Thots share the studio with literary stud Garrard Conley to celebrate the release of Boy Erased. We discuss art, vision, and the question of whom our work is for. Is the art we devote our lives to intended for ourselves or a larger,…
Sweet Sweet Fantasy (feat. John Paul Brammer!)
Nov 18, 2018 • 66 min
Do you believe in magic? Celebrating crafty sea-witches and magic carpets, the Thots we’re discuss the transformative nature of fantasy and sci-fi. What do we get to explore in fantasy and allegory that we turn away from in life? How were our childhood…
This Podcast is Problematic
Nov 11, 2018 • 61 min
Today’s discussion is yet another suh-lippery schlope! We’re talking problematic faves. What does “problematic” even mean? What happens in between “problematic” and “cancelled”? When it comes to our faves — how do we consume art and culture responsibly?…
Men Are a National Problem 😩 (feat. Thomas Page McBee!)
Nov 4, 2018 • 61 min
As renowned gender theorist and public intellectual, Cher, once said: “Men are like dessert. I adore dessert, I love men.” she says. “But… I don’t need them to live.” The conversation around men has drastically shifted in the last year, and even in the…
πŸ‘‘ She’s Arrived πŸ‘‘
Oct 28, 2018 • 70 min
IT’S SEASON 3, BINCHES!!! Beyonce, Mariah, Whitney, Barbra, Rihanna…what does “diva” mean in 2018? Is diva a positive or negative term? And is the connotation changing? This week, the Thots delve into the concept of divadom, examine some of our most…
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Oct 22, 2018 • 3 min
Here we come, binches Okay, three things. 1. VOTE. #ThotTheVote vote.org - register, get your absentee ballot, confirm your voter status, or get an election reminder! swingleft.com - type in your area code to find out how you can canvas, volunteer, or…
A Very Special Thotnouncement… πŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒ
Oct 14, 2018 • 4 min
Okay, three things. VOTE. #ThotTheVote vote.org - register, get your absentee ballot, confirm your voter status, or get an election reminder! swingleft.com - type in your area code to find out how you can canvas, volunteer, or phone bank for a candidate…
Bonus!! There’s No Such Thing as “Safe Spaces” Part 1 (feat. Zach Stafford!)
Aug 26, 2018 • 64 min
(ANNOUNCEMENT) NEW ORLEANS THOTS, We are hosting a Big Queer Pod Fest this Saturday (Sept 1) at 6PM, at Ace Hotel New Orleans with Jeff Masters of LGBTQ&A and Ira Madison III of Keep It! Joining us will be guest-thot Jake Shears of the Scissor Sisters…
Bonus!! You is Kind, You is Smart, You is Problematic.
Jul 29, 2018 • 61 min
Who owns who’s stories? How do we begin to tell stories across difference? When done so successfully, what defines that success? Barry Jenkins, a straight man, directed Moonlight one of the greatest queer stories in cinema. Ryan Murphy, a cis white man,…
Food 4 Thot x Junk: Podcast Vers
Jul 8, 2018 • 48 min
Hello my little Skittles, have I got some vittles for you: This week’s Junk is a special crossover ep with those gay sluts who love to read, Food 4 Thot! That’s right, we’ve got Fran Tirado, Joseph Osmundson, and Dennis Norris II—nobody’s junior—showing…
Bonus!! Swallow This Pride (feat. Angel Nafis)
Jun 28, 2018 • 41 min
In this extra special bonus episode, we are LIVE! on stage at NYC’s Bell House with special guest Angel Nafis. We joined other queer AF podcasts for the first annual Big Queer Podfest with the proceeds of the SOLD OUT crowd going straight to the Trevor…
Smell U L8r!
May 27, 2018 • 65 min
On this, the Food 4 Thot season 2 finale, your favorite Tater Thots come full circle by considering the cycles that govern us all. Whether it’s night and day or life and death, we recognize that beginnings and endings are always present. We pay homage to…
Shake Shacktivism
May 20, 2018 • 68 min
Save urself, bbs This week, we dive deep into politics, organizing, art, and activism. We’re joined by professional activist and boi-with-perfect-biceps Eliel Cruz. As writers, queer folks, and people of color (except Joe), our work is inherently…
We Are Not Lonely, We Just Hate People
May 13, 2018 • 71 min
We consider the difference between two of our favorite Tarot cards: The Hermit, who is alone by choice and on a deep, spiritual journal of self-discovery, and the Eight of Cups, a card of breakups, leaving love behind, losing what we thought we had…
This Episode is Literally Everything
May 6, 2018 • 65 min
For our next installment of Food 4 Thot, we shake things up a bit. We get tons of topics submitted for suggestion everyday from our fans, so this week, we take on five. First off — drag. Why is drag problematic and when can it be great? Then, HIV/AIDS —…
Working Hard or Just Hard?
Apr 29, 2018 • 62 min
Ciao bellx, For Food 4 Thot this week, we get into a thick and philosophical question about talent and hard work. When you navigate conversations about your own career, would you say you are talented, or would you say you are hard-working? Are these…
Thot Like a Master (feat. Alexander Chee!)
Apr 22, 2018 • 63 min
Qyeens, Boi, do we have a treat for you: this week, honorary podfather Alexander Chee is on Food 4 Thot. We talk about his new book and the art of how to tell your own story — whether it’s on Instagram, in your writing, or with your girlfriends over…
Cheaters *Sometimes* Prosper
Apr 15, 2018 • 62 min
Sup, sluts. On this week’s episode of Food 4 Thot we are LIVE and in color at Buzzfeed HQ chatting about one of our favorite topics: cheating. Being loyal or open with your partner is a hot topic in queer relationships, but a lot of grey areas and…
R U OK? (feat. Jenna Wortham!)
Apr 8, 2018 • 72 min
Hello little glow worms, Boy, do we have a juicy episode of Food 4 Thot for y’all. This week, the New York Times’ Jenna Wortham joins us in the studio for a thot-provoking little conversation about wellness and all its woes. How do we, as queer people,…
Who R U Wearing? (feat. Jacob Tobia!)
Apr 1, 2018 • 73 min
Hey fashionist@s, On this week’s episode of Food 4 Thot, we discuss personal style. In the studio with us is writer and producer Jacob Tobia who’s been around the block before when it comes to those who judge you based on appearances. How do you define…
A Family Affair (feat. Christopher Soto!)
Mar 25, 2018 • 60 min
Hey fam, On this week’s episode of Food 4 Thot, we’re talking about what makes a queer family and all its ties. Pulitzer Prize-winner Christopher Soto is in the haus, and we’ve got questions. Who is your queer family? How do you define it? What if you…
The Hills R Alive w/ the Sound of Faggots (feat. Jayson Smith!)
Mar 18, 2018 • 68 min
This week, we talk all about gay voices, and what it means to have one. Our guest-ho this week is writer Jayson Smith who in addition to being a goddamn genius, is also low-key a singer. Did you get made fun of for your voice as a kid? Do you like it or…
Mask 4 Mask
Mar 11, 2018 • 63 min
This week we talk about ~authenticity~ and how we as queer folk put on personas and masks from time to time. What’s your persona? Do you exaggerate your personality on social media? Is there even such thing as “natural” when it comes to queer composure?…
Thots! Camera! Action!!! (feat. Ira Madison III!)
Mar 4, 2018 • 68 min
We’re going to Oprah voice Hollywooooooooooood. Just in time for the Oscars, we’re discussing…. Literally anything but the Oscars. The Academy will always disappoint us with mediocre guests and bad gay jokes and giving awards to cis people playing trans…
Call Me By Yr Obscure Gay Memes
Feb 25, 2018 • 65 min
This week, we brought back our Official Thot Book Club with this season’s selection: André Aciman’s Call Me By Your Name. As is the case with most queers (for both the book and the movie) our opinions were divided. Was the conceit of this movie too white…
We (Don’t) Belong 2gether
Feb 18, 2018 • 67 min
This week we talked about breakups and everything that entails. How do y’all move on after you’re hurt? Do you have good relationships with your exes? After a breakup do you stand outside his house late at night while listening to Imogen Heap’s “Hide and…
We Don’t Believe in Life After Love
Feb 11, 2018 • 65 min
It’s almost our favorite holiday, Discount Candy at Walgreens Day, and in honor of that, we’re talking all about love on today’s episode. We thots are all across the romantic spectrum: some of us don’t believe in life after love, some of us love to love…
Body-ody-ody Issues (feat. Harron Walker!)
Feb 4, 2018 • 65 min
We’ve got a gutting episode this week, all about bodies (and the issues that ensure). When were you first aware of your body? Why do you love your body? Why do you not? We’re joined in the studio by writer Harron Walker who’s got a lot to say about what…
Werking Grl
Jan 28, 2018 • 63 min
We’re back after a short break with our most emotionally harrowing episode yet talking about one of the touchiest subjects ever: our careers. What happens when you conflate your identity with your career? What about when a boo-thing comes along and throws…
Zaddy Lessons
Jan 14, 2018 • 77 min
It’s a beautiful day in the slay-borhood, and just before we go on a very short break, we’ve got a fat little episode to hold over you adoring thots. This week, we talk about mentors, father-figures, daddies, and zaddies. How do these archetypes enter our…
Not *That* Kind of Gay (feat. Jeffrey Masters!)
Jan 7, 2018 • 70 min
Guys, remember when “Will and Grace” was all we had? Remember how there’s so little representation out there for us in the mainstream, that “Will and Grace” is like, still the only thing we point to when referencing gay entertainment? This week, the Thots…
4 Queers Walk Into a Bar…
Dec 31, 2017 • 61 min
New year, new us. JK, JK we’re staying exactly the same — and we’re cruising into 2018 with a very “us” episode. And can we just say — it might be our favorite from the season. We the Thots discuss “consent” which is more than a buzzword for all y’all’s…
A Vry Thotty Holiday Special
Dec 24, 2017 • 72 min
Here’s a little XXX-mas special for you. For our holiday episode, we’re re-gifting you our most recent live show! Donning some gay apparel, we got into the heaux-liday spirit with a lil game of Thotty Mad Libs (it’s exactly what it sounds like) and the we…
Warning: Adult Content
Dec 16, 2017 • 60 min
Gentlethots, in this episode, we start a new segment where we talk about everything that made us cry this week (lol), for our Impure Thot, Joe shares a nightmarish cautionary tale involving a full bottle of poppers and his mom’s Subaru Forester. Our theme…
Let Us Upgrade U
Dec 8, 2017 • 59 min
Beloved thots, we’re back. Our premiere episode is all kinds of mess, starting with a satiating game of Top Secret, wherein the thots decide whether or not their favorite cultural icons are tops. Then, we drop some wisdom on y’all with Certified Thot Life…
Never have we ever…
Dec 3, 2017 • 4 min
THOTNOUNCEMENT! If you’re in New York, we’ll be hosting a *free* Season 2 launch party courtesy of Ace Hotel New York! Catch your RSVP with the banner on food4thotpodcast.com and our Facebook events. One more week til our season premiere, thots! Join us…
Bonus!! 2 or Not 2 Tweet? (feat. Joel Kim Booster!)
Nov 28, 2017 • 61 min
THOTNOUNCEMENT! If you’re in New York, we’ll be hosting a *free* Season 2 launch party courtesy of Ace Hotel New York! Catch your RSVP on our website and Facebook events. Anyway! We’ve got a *bonus* ep for you, and this week we’re joined by the…
We put the “come” in “come back.”
Nov 15, 2017 • 4 min
We feel positively titillated to tell you that we’ve partnered with INTO for our second season to bring you the thottiest content possible (and weekly!)Not to mention, ya girls are gonna be pushed into every Grindr-users phone every Sunday, as a…
We love a tease.
Nov 12, 2017 • 4 min
Our second season will be in yr thotty ears next month. Can’t wait that long? Come see us headlining (nbd) the Brooklyn Podcast Festival at The Bell House November 19 with special sexy guest thot Joel Kim Booster who (again nbd) just had a stand up…
LIVE! and Living for It (feat. Angel Nafis)
Jun 11, 2017 • 73 min
SURPRISE BINCHES! Season 1 ain’t over quite yet. We have an extra delectable bite for you — the recording of our LIVE show at Ace Hotel in New York muthafuckin’ City. We packed the house to celebrate the fact that Tommy Pico dropped is book Nature Poem…
It’s Not Me, It’s U (feat. Alexander Chee)
May 28, 2017 • 66 min
This week, we have guest host *gay drum roll* Alexander Chee! The critically acclaimed, award-winning novelist and essayist! Google him, binch! This episode is about rejection — how do we cope with rejection in our writing, in our race, and in our…
Gay Sluts Who Read
May 14, 2017 • 67 min
THOTNOUNCEMENT: We are hosting our very first LIVE show on May 23, 7pm at Ace Hotel New York. Join us in a conversation about Tommy’s spankin’ new book NATURE POEM, with a launch party after, cute cocktails, & *official* Thot Merch. RSVP:…
Bottoms Up!
Apr 29, 2017 • 67 min
This week’s episode is about — well — sex positions. When it comes to the gay community, we’re all privy to using terms like “top,” “bottom,” and “vers” — but what do these terms really mean? Are they tools or tired clichés? Also, we go in DEEP on the…
Boy Byeeeeeeeeee
Apr 16, 2017 • 63 min
This week’s episode is about “escape.” Escape in our favorite books, escape in theater, escape in the Internet, escape in punk. The act of running away is inherent to the queer experience, so when the hell do we ever stop running? Also, we talk about the…
Wide Homo Spaces
Apr 2, 2017 • 68 min
This week we talk about “safe spaces.” Are they a thing? Does everyone get a safe space? The four thots (all from different parts of the country) talk about where they sought refuge before they moved to the gay Emerald City. Also, Joe gets his first big…
But Do I HAVE 2?
Mar 19, 2017 • 70 min
This week we talk about different kinds of “obligation.” Like finishing a Zadie Smith book, eating a bad kale salad, reading an essay that one friend sent you, or staying in a bad relationship. Also, the thots go through their favorite resistance tactics…
Ur Not My Type
Mar 5, 2017 • 71 min
This week we talk about “types”—how we typify things, sexually or literarily, and how those types can evolve or hold us back. We also talk about the classism of Fire Island, the gaiety of Moby Dick, and why petty white men tried to erase Eartha Kitt from…
Like a Virgin
Feb 19, 2017 • 70 min
This week’s theme is “first times”—first times doing butt stuff, first times seeing ourselves in literature, first times questioning religion, and first times accepting Beyoncé as our Lord and Saviour. We also get to talkin’ about gay bars and steak…
Season 1 Trailer
Feb 13, 2017 • 4 min
It’s gettin’ thot in here. This bad boy is a sneaky peek at some of the best (and honestly worst) moments from the Food 4 Thot season. First full episode to go up soon. Subscribe on iTunes, or get it delivered right to your inbox with the form on our…