A Gay and A NonGay

A Gay and A NonGay

www.gaynongay.com
Two unlikely friends take on the world


Tomfoolery… and Dan The Poet
Aug 5 • 12 min
There’s two exclusives this week. After his viral sensation The Great Realisation, the boys welcome incredible poet Tomfoolery onto the podcast to hear his new LGBTQ+ ally poem Never Have I Ever. Meanwhile, Dan reveals his past life as a poet… Share your…
Dan’s Buns
Jul 29 • 18 min
What do cooking pasta, crossing your legs and going to Paris have in common? Plus Dan’s been chased down the road again, this time it’s not a dog, but a Karen. Shop our merch. Get your very own Pronoun Tee now with 10% to Mermaids, - visit…
Welcome To Chechnya with David France
Jul 22 • 25 min
This is a very difficult, upsetting and triggering episode. Today we’re joined by director David France to talk about his latest film Welcome To Chechnya. “Unmatched since Hitler, it’s a government led campaign to round up and eliminate all LGBT people.…
Dan’s Beard
Jul 15 • 11 min
Dan’s beard pics are getting all of the likes on instagram, James is annoyed. Do straight men enjoy thirsty attention from The Gays™? Plus has the ‘Karen’ insult run its course and James has a theory on J.K. Rowling. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and…
Breaking Hate with Christian Picciolini
Jul 8 • 24 min
JK Rowling. Donald Trump. Central Park Karen. There’s a lot of hate attacking our community and friends right now. Should we try to understand it? Where does it come from and how can we safely engage with people that hate us? James and Dan catch up with…
Pride 2020
Jul 1 • 13 min
Why is Britney a gay icon? Plus Dan’s getting a drilling and James tells us his feelings on Pride 2020 after attending the Black Trans Lives march in London. Shop our merch. Get your very own Pronoun Tee now with 10% to Mermaids, - visit…
Dating Amber with Lola Petticrew
Jun 24 • 26 min
A year after we travelled to Belfast for BBC Radio 1 documentary about so-called ‘gay conversion therapy’, the boys have an update on the state of gay in the U.K. Plus we chat to the queer star of Dating Amber, Lola Petticrew about growing up gay in…
Love Supreme
Jun 18 • 13 min
We discuss the long overdue US Supreme Court’s landmark decision on LGBTQ+ rights in the workplace. Plus with transphobia and racism rife in the UK, does arguing with people on social media achieve anything? Join our listener group,…
Smells Like Mean Spirit
Jun 10 • 21 min
James is upset with JK Rowling’s transphobia, Dan is fed up with Nirvana’s Krist Novoselic after his pro-Trump status and we welcome our listener Orren to discuss Black Lives Matter and the struggles of being both gay and black. Thanks for listening…
Black Lives Matter
Jun 3 • 1 min
A small audio note from us this week & some links For ways you can support Black Lives Matter visit: https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/.. Plus: Anti-racism resources for white people: bit.ly/ANTIRACISMRESOURCES Why don’t ‘All Lives Matter’?:…
Circus of Books with Rachel Mason
May 27 • 20 min
Have you ever wondered what it would be like if your parents owned a gay porn empire? πŸ†πŸ’¦. James and Dan chat to artist and film-maker Rachel Mason about her new Netflix film Circus of Books, which tells the story of her parents’ bookstore and gay…
Masc 4 Mask
May 21 • 19 min
The boys are back and after weeks of amazing guests, it’s just family this week. James & Dan chat about our latest documentary ‘A Cure For HIV?’, will Dan be taking an HIV test? Plus, is wearing a Covid Mask de-masculating? and find out why Dan can’t look…
The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 2
May 13 • 21 min
“I remember all the people who died with HIV, they’re always in my heart and I want to be their voice”. This week we welcome Adam Castillejo, The London Patient - the second person in the world to be cured of HIV. In a truly inspiring, life-affirming…
The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 1
May 6 • 20 min
We’ve heard about ‘expendable’ populations before, but last time they meant gay people. 32 million people have died of AIDS related illnesses since the 1980s and in 2018, 770,000 people died worldwide because of the virus. The London Patient: A Cure For…
Owain Wyn Evans
Apr 29 • 19 min
Famous for drumming to the BBC News Theme and throwing shade in his infamous drag queen weather, welsh weather presenter Owain Wyn Evans joins us for a ‘cwtch’ to chat acceptance, campness and his favourite contestant on RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 12. See…
Love Lives Here with Amanda Jetté Knox
Apr 22 • 32 min
It’s Lesbian Visibility Week and the boys are joined from Ottawa, Canada by LGBTQ/mental health advocate and trans ally Amanda Jetté Knox. Her family’s incredible story is one of the most inspiring queer journeys’ we’ve ever heard. We’re so excited, our…
Camp
Apr 16 • 20 min
James and Dan chat about an Australian interview with Tiger King’s John Finlay, and we discuss the meaning of the word ‘Camp’ with British comedian Stephen Bailey. We’re also so excited to tell you about our new shop! Visit www.gaynongay.shop. and be the…
Snatch Game
Apr 9 • 18 min
Having watched a total of zero episodes of Ru Paul’s Drag Race, Dan gives his opinion on Aiden Zhane’s departure from the show, leading to an unexpected conversation about the metal community and also James being bullied. See acast.com/privacy for privacy…
Lowkey Worker
Apr 1 • 20 min
Has A Gay and a NonGay’s life changed since the UK went on lockdown last week? Dan’s a ‘key’ worker apparently but James has accidentally moved in with someone and things are maybe a little too intimate 😬 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out…
Dr. Ranj
Mar 25 • 32 min
It’s time for some facts from an actual doctor. We’re joined by Dr. Ranj to chat Covid-19 and it’s effect on the gay community. Are hookups okay? What does it mean for people living with HIV and can we still get pizza delivered? Caught up on Coronavirus?…
Five Guys a Week
Mar 18 • 15 min
Live from the gay and nongay bedrooms, the boys discuss James’ ‘new Channel 4 show’, and the problems with not hooking up during the Covid-19 outbreak. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Live in Dublin with Colm O’Gormon & Rev. Chris Hudson
Mar 11 • 35 min
This episode contains a priest swearing, themes of child abuse and gay conversion therapy. To celebrate St.Patrick’s Day (yes we know it’s next week!) we’re sharing highlights from our live show in Dublin. It’s one of our favourite shows to date featuring…
Leather Jackets
Mar 5 • 14 min
Dan and James chat about recent police raids on Gay Village dark room sex in Manchester. Plus our podcast has a brand new sound thanks to queer pop music icon Bright Light Bright Light! Yay. Let us know what you think? We’re on tour soon and we can’t wait…
Double Standards
Feb 26 • 16 min
What a dish! Is it ok for James to objectify people even though Dan can’t? Plus we’ve got a very special adult tour announcement! Join us for The Podcast Tour! We’ve announced some of our special guests and we can’t wait to see you all in person. Get…
It’s Gonna Be Okay with MUNA
Feb 19 • 27 min
James and Dan catch up with the ‘greatest band in the world’ for a deep dive into queerness, safe spaces for LGBTQ+ people, self-deprecating lyrics and self-promotion. Plus with everything happening in the world today… Is it going to be ok? Join us for…
The podcast tour is coming
Feb 14 • 3 min
Happy Galentines Day. We’re so happy to announce some of the incredible LGBTQ+ guests joining us on The Podcast tour 🏳️‍🌈🎀🎧! We can’t wait to meet you and your friends this March :). Get tickets at www.gaynongay.com/live. . See acast.com/privacy for…
Phillip Schofield
Feb 12 • 16 min
The boys discuss the reaction to Phillip Schofield coming out as gay on national television, and the impact of ‘straight-seeming relationships’. If you’re affected by the issues in this episode, visit https://straightpartnersanonymous.com/. . For advice…
Fleabagging
Feb 5 • 13 min
James is educating Dan about some 2020 dating trends, the library is back open and we’re putting a load on. We’re coming to see you hunty. Join us on our first ever UK tour, check out our dates below and tap here for tickets http://gaynongay.com/live. .…
The big three
Jan 29 • 15 min
James has said ‘the big three’, Dan is appropriating gay culture again and we chat about the BBC’s official response to our Gavin & Stacy complaints; after they broadcast the word ‘F****t’ into over 17.1 million homes on Christmas Day. We’re coming to see…
Friends forever?
Jan 22 • 13 min
The boys discuss how hard it is to keep friendships - but is it easier for LGBTQ+ people? Plus James thinks he’s worked out how Dan’s relationship works. Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to…
Twenty Twen-T
Jan 15 • 15 min
We’re declaring 2020… TwentyTwenT – the year to actively go out of your way to stand up for our trans friends, especially when people like Sharron Davies are coming after them every day on twitter. - Plus Dan’s invaded a safe space – is everyone really…
Gavin and Stacey
Jan 8 • 11 min
Happy New Year! Dan can’t stop using his ‘2020 vision’ joke πŸ™„and James is no longer a ‘salon gay’. Dan gets defensive and Fairytale of New York is back… We discuss the fallout from Gavin and Stacey broadcasting the word F***** on Christmas Day. Sigh. Get…
Best of 2019
Dec 25, 2019 • 33 min
Catch up on the best of A Gay & A NonGay from 2019! We wish you all a happy holiday period and a fabulous New Year! See you in 2020. Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and…
Santa Strikes Back
Dec 18, 2019 • 13 min
It’s the most homophobic time of the year. James has censored ‘Fairytale of New York’ on his radio show but Dan notices a complication. Plus we welcome LGBTQ+ ally, Santa Claus, for an exclusive chat ahead of Christmas πŸŽ…. Continue the conversation in our…
No Bumming Please
Dec 11, 2019 • 19 min
The Bumming Tour is now called ‘The Podcast Tour’ in some places because we can’t promote ‘Bumming’ on Facebook’. Dan met the Cock Destroyers and James is having trouble adjusting to having a boyfriend. Plus there’s an important update on the protests…
LGBTQ+ inclusive education with Olly Pike
Dec 6, 2019 • 20 min
We chat LGBTQ+ inclusive education with amazing Children’s Author/Illustrator and YouTuber, Olly Pike. This episode contains mild themes of bullying and suicide. Donate one of Olly’s inclusive books to your school this Christmas, click here. Join us for…
#NotAllStraightMen
Nov 27, 2019 • 14 min
James has had enough of NonGay’s after Dan moved in… for one night. Plus James has a new boyfriend but refuses to talk about it and we’re announcing our 2020 UK tour ‘The Podcast Tour’ ! Why not ‘bum’ someone you love by buying them a ticket for…
Live in Manchester: Stephen Bailey
Nov 22, 2019 • 50 min
Live from the Manchester Podcast Festival. Dan and James have had a falling out πŸ‘€. The boys are joined by our voiceover Fiona live, plus we chat to one of our favourite comedians Stephen Bailey. We’re so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary…
Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper
Nov 14, 2019 • 32 min
The Westboro Baptist Church, notorious for picketing funerals and spreading homophobia, are one of the most hateful and homophobic Christian organisations in the world. Megan Phelps-Roper was born to hate, joining her family at an anti-Gay picket at just…
Ellen loves Bush
Nov 8, 2019 • 13 min
Dan still hasn’t watched #DragRaceUK and the boys discuss Ellen’s friendship with George W. Bush πŸ‘€.Plus if you want to see us live at a show we’re playing at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to…
Dan’s mate’s Dad wrote a Porno
Oct 30, 2019 • 11 min
The boys celebrate marriage equality in Northern Ireland and James goes to a fancy awards do where he unexpectedly learns all about Dan’s ‘weird’ life at university. Plus if you want to see us live at a show we’re playing at the Dublin Podcast Festival…
James’ Feet
Oct 23, 2019 • 10 min
James can’t walk, and the doctor thinks it’s chlamydia. What?!Plus if you want to see us live at a show we’ve just announced a date at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!We’re…
Live in London: Matthew Todd & ShayShay
Oct 17, 2019 • 40 min
Live from the London Podcast Festival, Dan and James return to the stage joined by Matthew Todd, author of Straight Jacket and Pride, and welcome their first ever drag queen ShayShay.If you want to see us live at a show we’ve just announced a date at the…
An Outing
Oct 9, 2019 • 17 min
Dan and James take part in an accidental outing, and Dan has an unexpected incident with a dog. Plus if you want to see us live at a show we’ve just announced a date at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to…
Live from Edinburgh: Larry Dean
Oct 2, 2019 • 48 min
It’s our final show live from Edinburgh & today we’re joined by Larry Dean! He tells us if he’s a postman or a postbox, deciphers Scottish slang and tells us about his show Fandan.Plus if you want to see us live at a show we’ve just announced a date at…
Live from Edinburgh: Rhys Nicholson
Sep 25, 2019 • 42 min
Live from Edinburgh the boys chat to hilarious Australian comedian Rhys Nicholson and ask the all-important question - is it Home and Away or Gay? And does James actually like the look of dicks?Plus if you want to see us live at a show we’ve just…
Live from Edinburgh: Suzi Ruffell
Sep 18, 2019 • 45 min
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - Dan tells us about a rather sexy sounding exercise class he’s been going to and we’re joined by the incredible comedian Suzi Ruffell.Plus if you want to see us live at a show we’ve just announced a date at the…
Live from Edinburgh: Jodie Mitchell & Tom Ballard
Sep 13, 2019 • 45 min
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we’re joined by drag king extraordinaire Jodie Mitchell and Australian comedian and late night TV host Tom Ballard.We’re so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search…
Live in Edinburgh : Rosie Jones & No Country for Young Women
Sep 11, 2019 • 43 min
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we’re joined by ‘triple threat’ comedian Rosie Jones talking about her identity as a gay disabled woman, and how she discovered her sexuality, as well as the stars of BBC Radio 1’s No Country for Young Women…
Live in Edinburgh : Sophie Duker & Jen Brister
Sep 4, 2019 • 39 min
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we’ve got some big dick energy in the house with our amazing guests - Sophie Duker and Jen Brister. Plus we’re so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay. Lots of you got in…
Live in Edinburgh : Richard Gadd & Christina Bianco
Aug 29, 2019 • 28 min
From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 listen to our live recording with Richard Gadd and Christina Bianco. On today’s episode James challenges impressionist diva Christina to make metal more ‘Gay friendly’ and the boys chat to comedian Richard Gadd…
Live in Edinburgh : Jena Friedman
Aug 22, 2019 • 42 min
Live from the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness. Today we’re joined by American political comedian Jena Friedman to talk democracy, the state of America, their fave bros Russia and smashing the trolls! Plus…
Live in Edinburgh : Jack Rooke & BBC Radio 1’s Unexpected Fluids
Aug 19, 2019 • 37 min
Surprise! We’re live from the Edinburgh Fringe festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness every Monday and Wednesday. In our first recording, Dan’s baked cakes 😱we invite gay comedian Jack Rooke on stage to chat about homophobia, plus…
Ikea or Death!
Aug 14, 2019 • 9 min
Dan gets his tongue tied, and not just from kissing James! Plus we revisit a game from Dan’s past.—-Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with…
James 5
Aug 7, 2019 • 8 min
Ever dated anyone with your own name? Dan is fascinated to find out what James does with James, er 5? —-Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC Radio 1 team up…
A Gay, A NonGay and A Mae
Jul 31, 2019 • 20 min
Live from our big London show at The Underbelly in June 2019 - hear our chat with the amazing Mae Martin at A Gay & A NonGay Live!—Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen…
Metro
Jul 24, 2019 • 13 min
Dan writes an article for a newspaper that has James ‘double tapping’ for days Read it here: https://tinyurl.com/NonGayAlly—-Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our…
Jamie Dornan and Macklemore
Jul 17, 2019 • 9 min
Dan is buzzing after James’ DAD mistook him for Jamie Dornan. Will James accept this as proof that they look alike?—-Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC…
A Gay, A NonGay and a Pizza? πŸ•
Jul 10, 2019 • 19 min
James and Dan are back from World Pride in New York. Did James finally submit to the lure of Scott’s Pizza Tour? And is Dan a good ally? He doesn’t think so.—-Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at…
Pizza Pride πŸ•πŸ³οΈ‍🌈
Jun 26, 2019 • 13 min
James & Dan are off to #WorldPride in NYC - both want inches, but of a different kind! Happy Pride from A Gay and A NonGay!—-Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our…
Phubbing
Jun 19, 2019 • 11 min
Is it okay for James to watch the RuPaul Final during our podcast recording? Are we allowed to be on our phones if we’re hanging out with mates? Dan is triggered.—Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here:…
James’ Big Weekend
Jun 13, 2019 • 20 min
The curse of James announcing he has a boyfriend on the podcast and then having to retract it a week later continues… 😞—Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx—A…
A Gay, A NonGay and A Grandaddy with Armistead Maupin
Jun 5, 2019 • 27 min
Happy Pride month! Iconic author Armistead Maupin joins James & Dan to chat about Tales of the City being turned into a Netflix Original in A Gay, A NonGay & A Grandaddy! The boys chat about our shared LGBTQ+ history, Trans rights, Stonewall 50 and err…
NO SPOILERS
May 29, 2019 • 13 min
Dan goes on a ridiculous rant, but NO SPOILERS.Plus we want to see you next Saturday 8 June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com/live—Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here:…
Guacamole
May 22, 2019 • 9 min
James has something to tell you… he’s guacamole. Plus we dive deep on iced coffee and the need to feel special. —Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxGet in…
Shawn Mendes
May 15, 2019 • 14 min
Should NonGay people have to come out too? Plus there’s a huge announcement about our first ever UK Pride Tour! Tickets are on sale now at gaynongay.com/live —-Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here:…
Gay Relationships Are Hard
May 8, 2019 • 21 min
James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that’s having on his… boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having a meltdown so the boys offer support and there’s A LOT of admin. This episode contains themes of sex and child abuse.Today’s episode…
Hugs
May 1, 2019 • 12 min
Dan didn’t make the rules but he’s got some thoughts on man on man hugging. Plus who tf is Pete?—Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at…
A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary
Apr 24, 2019 • 33 min
We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special episode A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary. Host of BBC’s NB podcast, Caitlin joins us to help us understand what it means to be Non-Binary, how to be a…
Consent
Apr 17, 2019 • 16 min
Dan’s got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival… get ready for ‘Play Your Gays Right’! Plus we talk consent in LGBTQ+ spaces and whether it’s okay to ‘mug someone off’ if you’ve invited them back for sex?—-Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up…
Dorchester
Apr 10, 2019 • 19 min
We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on at The Dorchester in London. —-Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here:…
Burnout
Apr 3, 2019 • 11 min
Dan and James feel like they’re suffering from burnout but for different reasons. Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show -…
Eau d’amour
Mar 27, 2019 • 12 min
Dan’s discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into… Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @…
Kebab Awards
Mar 19, 2019 • 11 min
There’s a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab Awards! And a brand new NonGay Eye as Callum asks Dan’s advice on how to come out.For more advice on coming out listen to our BBC Radio 1 team…
0121
Mar 13, 2019 • 16 min
What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner “This One” on social media? We’ve a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks and the latest on homophobic protests outside a school in Birmingham. Plus NonGay Eye’s back…
Exclusively Gay
Mar 6, 2019 • 15 min
How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new LGBT Education action plan—We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South…
Destroyers
Feb 27, 2019 • 11 min
Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers.—We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at…
A Technicality
Feb 20, 2019 • 15 min
Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride’s decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does “technically single” mean?—-We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at…
Timothée Champagne
Feb 13, 2019 • 11 min
James has done the maths on how many guys he’s slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no idea who Timothée Chalamet is and Talia needs to press 15s repeatedly. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy…
NonGay Night Out
Feb 6, 2019 • 17 min
Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it’s the most NonGay thing you’ve ever heard… or is it?We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.This episode is…
Erased
Jan 30, 2019 • 30 min
James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys discuss gay conversion therapy with star and director Joel Edgerton.We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank,…
Fabulous
Jan 23, 2019 • 12 min
Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic.Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shopThis episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men -…
Tales from Miami
Jan 16, 2019 • 14 min
James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story.For support and information about HIV we recommend Terrence Higgins Trust in the UK and in the US Greater Than Aids.Mug someone…
Dan’s Pants
Jan 9, 2019 • 21 min
Dan’s world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon.This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your…
TwentyBiTeen
Jan 2, 2019 • 15 min
#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen!This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off for New Year at our shop -…
Best of 2018
Dec 27, 2018 • 41 min
Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some pretty shocking cow biology. Plus more serious stuff including an interview with the amazing Juno Dawson…
Santa
Dec 19, 2018 • 12 min
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we’re delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his wishes for Christmas 2018.This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com.…
Fairytale of New York
Dec 12, 2018 • 18 min
You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****… is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and the only thing offensive is their…
STI
Dec 5, 2018 • 15 min
Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this ‘depression stuff’ James talks about just ‘podcast content’? Please remember to get regularly tested at your local sexual health clinic - find out more at…
World Aids Day
Dec 1, 2018 • 31 min
A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support…
World Aids Day 2018
Dec 1, 2018 • 31 min
A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support…
Wrestling
Nov 28, 2018 • 26 min
It’s a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is WWE and hitting people for ‘entertainment’ just another display of toxic masculinity? And is all male…
Deep Feelings
Nov 21, 2018 • 16 min
How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR - James is no longer dating.Podcasters anonymous - tell us your woes: us@gaynongay.com—A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James…
Isolation
Nov 14, 2018 • 24 min
James shares some upsetting but unsurprising news from Stonewall on LGBT mental health in the UK but Dan’s friend seems a bit bored of us discussing James’ depression on the pod. There’s also some admin and both A Gay and A NonGay clearly know absolutely…
PC 4 PC
Nov 7, 2018 • 21 min
We dive deep on the perils of Instagram and find that Dan doesn’t even recognise his own humble brags. #Blessed-A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com…
πŸ‘» Ghosting πŸ‘»
Oct 31, 2018 • 21 min
James wants you to know he is ok and discusses the stigma surrounding anti-depressants. We also talk ghosting, because it’s Halloween and we love a tenuous link. How long can you be ‘mugged off’ before you’ve been ghosted and is ghosting the right thing…
Exclusive
Oct 24, 2018 • 14 min
Trigger warning : this episode contains discussion of depression and suicide.James is having a difficult time and Dan knows a weird amount of Meat Loaf lyrics . Plus how do you know when it’s time to go exclusive in a gay relationship.—-This episode is…
First Boyfriend
Oct 17, 2018 • 23 min
James tells Dan about his first boyfriend and everything takes a turn for a conversation we thought was confined to Gay & NonGay fanfic.—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA…
Paula
Oct 10, 2018 • 13 min
It’s getting cold but Dan is here with 10 fantastic reasons why you should wear shorts all year round, plus memories of the Solihull Library and Arts Complex in 2003. What more could you want?—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s…
Bert & Ernie
Oct 3, 2018 • 12 min
Dan reviews his queen of rock Avril Lavigne’s new single at HIGH VOLUME, and there’s a startling realisation about Dan & James similarity to Bert & Ernie.Plus some important information on the Gender Reform Act - please find out more and submit to the…
Pride & Prejudice
Sep 26, 2018 • 28 min
It’s the end of Pride season in the UK and James has some upsetting thoughts. Plus Dan has a beard - does he need to keep it oiled?—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay &…
Come Together
Sep 19, 2018 • 16 min
Happy 101st! It’s business as usual as James propositions Dan for some male bonding. —-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James…
100
Sep 13, 2018 • 40 min
It’s episode 100 of A Gay & A Nongay! Can you believe? It’s a long way from ‘Hello’ and NonHat wearers.Listen to our centenary episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at…
Banana 🍌
Sep 5, 2018 • 8 min
It’s a short one this week as Dan and James get ready for their celebratory 100th episode!Rule No. 1: Don’t sexualise a banana 🍌—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us…
Gay on the Train
Aug 29, 2018 • 17 min
Dan gets chatted up on the train and won’t stop bringing up YMCA while James can’t stop laughing at Dan’s recent foray into the world of lip-sync.—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider -…
Gay for Pay
Aug 22, 2018 • 19 min
It’s official. Dan is ‘gay for pay’. Plus the boys are back from sell out shows at the Edinburgh Fringe festival where they discussed NonGay Jack Whitehall getting cast as Disney’s first openly gay character. Featuring a chat with out LA actor, star of…
Number 10
Aug 15, 2018 • 22 min
We discuss James’ recent DJ set at… 10 Downing Street. What should you do when politicians with questionable histories invite you round for tea? Read the UK LGBT Action Plan here.—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning…
Taxi 4 James
Aug 8, 2018 • 14 min
Nothing makes James laugh harder than Dan’s teenage band, and Dan has finally caught up with Queer Eye.—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at…
Birds
Aug 1, 2018 • 18 min
Dan wants water, and knows an alarming amount about birds. Say hey to him if you see him at Brighton Pride this weekend, but James won’t be there. Plus an announcement about our forthcoming 100th episode!—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the…
Freaky Friday
Jul 25, 2018 • 19 min
Dan has “finished The Velvet Rage” and is now the expert on gay men.—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17…
Mincing
Jul 18, 2018 • 16 min
Dan’s back from celebrating his first ever Pride in Seattle! The boys discuss the anti-trans protesters at #PrideInLondon, and “what kind of fresh hell, is a lad?”. —-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance…
Save Dan
Jul 11, 2018 • 18 min
Is James ‘hysterical’? Is Dan being bullied? #SaveDan. Plus James is done with f*ckboys and Dan’s had a tweet about ice cubes.—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us…
BREEDER
Jul 4, 2018 • 15 min
Dan has ‘the gist’ of Pride, and James needs to remember this weekend is not all about husband hunting. Plus a case of vocabulary when the nongay gets called an unexpected name.—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive…
Russia
Jun 27, 2018 • 19 min
Would your family and friends be proud of you being LGBTQ+, even if it put themselves in danger? Should a gay person lie about their sexuality if they’re in danger? James’ brother is heading to Russia for the #WorldCup and it raises some questions… Plus…
Pronouns
Jun 20, 2018 • 18 min
James and Dan explore whether to talk about pronouns in daily life, and Dan is inspired by the fab five to dish out some advice.——-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see…
Section 28 🀒
Jun 13, 2018 • 18 min
We forgot to wish Section 28 a happy birthday, oops! And why is everyone going on about Russia? Ugh.—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at…
Thirsty
Jun 6, 2018 • 12 min
James & Dan go to a festival, but James is too thirsty for all this NonGay chatter.—-This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh…
Shorts
May 30, 2018 • 11 min
Dan’s love of shorts comes back to bite him (IN THE BUM)This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukTickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at…
The Bum Sex Files
May 23, 2018 • 16 min
James has had ‘hot sex with a hot guy’ and wants to tell Dan all about it. Meanwhile, Dan has questions regarding a recent Amazon purchase.——This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider -…
Officially Funny - our British Podcast Award winning entry
May 19, 2018 • 19 min
We just won the Bronze Award for BEST COMEDY at the British Podcast Awards and consider us weeping and screaming all at once! Bottoms, Santa, Avril and Bumming - we thought you might like to hear what makes us award winning :-) Thank you for being with…
Meringue
May 16, 2018 • 15 min
James wants to talk about gay dads leading Dan to somehow accidentally volunteer to become a co-parent with James.——This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukTickets for A Gay & A…
Berlin
May 9, 2018 • 13 min
Everyone gets a bit giddy when a trip to Berlin is mentioned. The least morning commute appropriate episode ever.——This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukTickets for A Gay & A…
Gay Bar
May 2, 2018 • 16 min
Dan finds himself uncomfortable on a night out, while James stresses about becoming a home owner.——This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK’s award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukTickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the…
πŸ“ Blocker
Apr 25, 2018 • 13 min
It’s finally time for James to apologise to Dan after he receives some listener feedback. Plus has Dan been deliberately ‘cockblocking’ James? —-Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease…
Slow Cooker
Apr 18, 2018 • 15 min
Say what, we’ve been nominated for Best Comedy Podcast at The British Podcast Awards. Yay! James is “shook” and Dan has a problem with it. Plus the boys discuss Dan’s new toy. Spoiler alert: it’s a slow cooker. Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the…
Korn or Porn
Apr 11, 2018 • 12 min
Dan has prepared a special ROCK game for James to ‘enjoy.’ James makes a phone call and gets an unexpected answer.Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little…
Bi Now, Bi Later
Apr 4, 2018 • 17 min
We’re chatting bisexuality, James has his first Patreon Boyfriend plus Dan’s explanation of inverted hatred in the metal community is alarmingly familiar——Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The…
A Gay, A NonGay & A Trans with Juno Dawson
Mar 28, 2018 • 71 min
“Transphobia is the forest fire that needs urgent attention “To celebrate and commemorate International Transgender Day of Visibility we’ve recorded a special episode with amazing author of books like The Gender Games and This Book is Gay - Juno Dawson!…
Ugly Cry 🎑
Mar 21, 2018 • 12 min
James & Dan both break their promises for lent. Yep. It’s sp*** and meltdowns all in one place after James is triggered by the incredible new movie Love Simon. And we’re getting ready for next weeks special episode, ‘A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans.’Please…
Top and Tail
Mar 14, 2018 • 12 min
Dan and James plan their night sharing a bed together, while James is jealous that Dan’s more popular on instagram than him.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are…
Lowkey Offended
Mar 7, 2018 • 14 min
A Gay and A Non Hat Wearer. ICYMI the boys reveal their sexuality. Why does James feel different after 2 months of taking PrEP? And Natalie Imbruglia has some surprising subliminal messaging in her songs. Please support our special little friendship at…
You Mug!
Feb 28, 2018 • 16 min
The UK’s LGBTQ+ homelessness crisis is top of mind after James hosts Student Pride and Dan’s asked our voiceover lady to record some special ‘NonGay’ liners. The Albert Kennedy Trust is a voluntary organisation based in England, created in 1989 to serve…
D before Date?
Feb 21, 2018 • 13 min
Dan has a novel take on what ‘bumble’ might be for and James suggests a new approach to dating, inspired by Love, Actually.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr…
Mummy and Daddy
Feb 14, 2018 • 16 min
Happy Valentines Day - a day when James wants to call Dan ‘Daddy.’ Plus A Gay & A NonGay brings you an unexpected biology lesson about cows. Soz.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent…
Orgy
Feb 7, 2018 • 13 min
Do nongays have as many orgies as gays? James is back on the dating apps and shows Dan how Grindr works. Plus the results from James’ survey are in - Does Dan look like Jamie Dornan?Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A…
Fifty Shades Of Narcissism
Jan 31, 2018 • 9 min
Dan thinks he looks like the HOTTEST MAN IN HOLLYWOOD. James does not agree.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email…
PREPisode
Jan 23, 2018 • 18 min
James & Dan chat safe sex . What is PREP? Can it protect you from HIV and does it make you… erm, fart?Find out more about HIV and the need for better sex education in the UK at Terrence Higgins Trust, and in the US at Greater Than Aids.A Gay & A NonGay is…
School
Jan 17, 2018 • 15 min
Dan wants to ‘smash James’s poppadoms’ with his masculinity and James drags up some of Dan’s old social posts to see if he’s worthy of their friendship.We thought this was an interesting article about the difference between bullying and banter. Just to be…
James 3, The Finale
Jan 10, 2018 • 13 min
James comes face to face with his gym crush.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia…
That Boy is a Bottom
Jan 3, 2018 • 17 min
James tests Dan on our sassy new jingles which leads to more BOTTOM ADMIN chat. Plus our listener Jacobi’s sent us a special cookery book… New Year New Eww! Soz.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson…
A Teeny Weeny Little New Year Thank You
Dec 27, 2017 • 4 min
We just wanted to say thanks πŸ’•See you in 2018 for more meltdowns, wokeness, live shows and the return of James 3 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Wonderful Christmastime
Dec 20, 2017 • 14 min
How difficult is it being gay at Christmas? Is it James’ new year resolution to find a boyfriend? Plus we invite Santa into the studio for his first LGBTQ+ interview.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson…
Insecure
Dec 13, 2017 • 10 min
Dan is insecure. Or is he very secure? Discuss.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by…
Cuddles
Dec 6, 2017 • 10 min
James thought it might be funny to do a ‘would you rather’ but, finds out from Dan that it’s not.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter,…
Irish Goodbyes
Nov 29, 2017 • 11 min
Turns out when you put things on the internet, people can hear them, as James found out this week from his ex.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch…
Rebound
Nov 22, 2017 • 10 min
Dan’s in a mood and James is on the rebound.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia…
James 3, Part 2
Nov 15, 2017 • 9 min
James is back obsessing about a certain other James… and don’t you dare phone Dan unless it’s an emergency.Plus… AUSTRALIA, we love you and are so happy about marriage equality!!!A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr)…
Relationship Update
Nov 8, 2017 • 13 min
Oh dear. James has a relationship update Don’t call it a ‘meltdown’A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay.…
Bring Your Own…
Nov 1, 2017 • 18 min
James has a BOYFRIEND… but his BF has a ‘thing’ for Dan?? Meanwhile Dan wants to invite James to an exciting new cookery class but it’s bring your own WHAT?!Come and see us at Waterstones, Tottenham Court Road in London (sorry) on Thursday 9 Nov when…
#metoo
Oct 25, 2017 • 14 min
#metoo—-Come and see us at Waterstones, Tottenham Court Road in London (sorry) on Thursday 9 Nov when we’ll be in conversation with author Darryl W Bullock, whose latest book David Bowie Made Me Gay is the first book to cover the breadth of history of…
Bowie
Oct 18, 2017 • 10 min
Plans are afoot for the next live show, but there’s just one problem - James can’t pronounce ‘David Bowie’Come and see us at Waterstones, Tottenham Court Road in London (sorry) on Thursday 9 Nov when we’ll be in conversation with author Darryl W Bullock,…
On Religion
Oct 11, 2017 • 20 min
James tackles our first complaint while getting a masterclass in the branches of religion from Dan. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter,…
Nudes
Oct 4, 2017 • 23 min
James reveals all about his relationship with ‘Dan 3’ and is already thinking about the wedding. Meanwhile the boys discuss unsolicited dick pics, selfie sticks and how to take the perfect photo of your bottom.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast…
LIVE @ London Podcast Festival
Sep 27, 2017 • 43 min
Yay! It’s A Gay & A NonGay LIVE at the London Podcast Festival. We’ve had so many lovely tweets asking for longer episodes so we hope this satisfies your THIRST.James chats coming out, Dan finally reunites with his college band Taxi for Paul and we answer…
Slagtag
Sep 20, 2017 • 7 min
How long do you have to hang around flirting with a guy after you realise he’s straight? Plus Dan’s giving up his favourite word for October.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email…
Palm Springs
Sep 13, 2017 • 15 min
This episode is ‘clothing optional’. James is back from L.A with a lot of tea to spill. The boys chat strip clubs, open relationships and why Dan takes so long to reply. Plus, how do you prepare for nongay sex?A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast…
Cake
Sep 6, 2017 • 15 min
Gross Alert! We had to rename this episode from the original title James gave it. Let’s just say Barr discusses lots to do with his online video collection.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson…
Pastry Man
Aug 30, 2017 • 9 min
Today’s lesson - don’t ever offer Dan Hudson free food and then not give it him. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig…
Breakup
Aug 22, 2017 • 13 min
James breaks up with the most important person in his life while Dan has trouble connecting with his emotions (but in a shock twist, not his bum.)A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email…
Wikipedia
Aug 16, 2017 • 8 min
We’re back! And someone has been tampering with James’ wikipedia page.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or…
Best Bits
Aug 9, 2017 • 24 min
We’re on our holidays but in case you’re new to the podcast, here’s our best bits from the last year. Thanks for being a friend, we love you!A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email…
Garden
Aug 2, 2017 • 12 min
Have you heard? Dan has a garden. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced…
Pride Bandwagons
Jul 26, 2017 • 13 min
It’s a No Meltdown special as we explore James’ new lovebite as well as review how London Pride made us feel. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on…
Taxi for Paul
Jul 19, 2017 • 9 min
Plans for the next live show are afoot so to help James goes deep on the internet to discover Dan’s past. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on…
Lust for Love
Jul 12, 2017 • 11 min
James has a revelation about his approach to dating, and someone steals Dan’s toothbrush. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay,…
Pride
Jul 5, 2017 • 10 min
Thanks for Pride Month, USA… now it’s our turn! London Pride is this weekend, but is Dan invited?A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter…
Jellyfish 🐟
Jun 28, 2017 • 13 min
Is Dan more or less ‘homophobic’ since hanging out with James? After a recent interview things are getting heated, and wet - bring a poncho. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email…
Bumming
Jun 21, 2017 • 7 min
Bumming? A word you can use in 2017 or not? A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or…
Between Stags
Jun 14, 2017 • 8 min
Dan is taking James out of his comfort zone, but first he’s got a couple of stags to go to.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter…
Bath Maths
Jun 7, 2017 • 14 min
… that moment you decide to triple check that your nongay friend is definitely 100% nongay! Can James’ accountant friend break Dan’s unwavering commitment to a heteronormative life style?A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr…
Nongay problems
May 31, 2017 • 8 min
It’s time for Dan to let rip. He’s a minority too guys, and he won’t let James forget it. \ m /A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter…
BEARS
May 24, 2017 • 22 min
Does Dan know what a dark room is? Does James know what a clitoris is? The answer to both these questions is of course no. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
SLUT
May 17, 2017 • 17 min
James is desperate to know if Dan thinks he’s a ‘slut’ - but what does that actually mean? Plus the boys discuss the concept of ‘expiry dating’ and if James will be single forever. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
JAMES 3
May 10, 2017 • 10 min
It’s time for another meltdown - James fills us in on a mysterious guy from the gym… also called James. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
POWER SNEEZE
May 3, 2017 • 11 min
Dan introduces James to the bizarre concept of ‘power sneezing’, and James discusses the issues surrounding airport douching. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
COLIN STRIKES BACK
Apr 26, 2017 • 16 min
It’s the podcast equivalent of a F.U.R.B answer back song - A Gay & A Non Gay with special guest star - COLIN. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Colin
Apr 19, 2017 • 13 min
A comprehensive BREAKDOWN of James’ love life - or why giving 6/10 is not okay. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Baghdad
Apr 13, 2017 • 12 min
What’s more of a struggle? The LGBTQ+ movement or liking alternative music? Plus we’re nominated for an award, and we’ve already rehearsed our speech. Yay! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
The 1.7 Percent
Apr 5, 2017 • 15 min
What does James do on a train when nobody’s looking? And will he move to Paris? Plus the boys are accidentally going on holiday to New York together, but will Dan convince James to go ‘off the beaten track?’ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out…
Victorian Porn
Mar 14, 2017 • 19 min
Has James had sex with a woman? Has Dan kissed a man? Plus uninsured pizza parties… See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
First Date
Feb 14, 2017 • 13 min
Dan and James investigate The 36 Questions That Lead To Love See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
An Investigation
Jan 31, 2017 • 10 min
James launches a special investigation into an invasion of his privacy. There’s one suspect, you guessed it, Dan. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
SPRINGSTEEN IS DADDY!
Dec 9, 2016 • 24 min
Nongay Dan decides if he’s a top or bottom whilst James’ intolerably single life goes from bad to worse … also are dicks nice to look at? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Bromosexuality
Nov 1, 2016 • 28 min
James and Dan discover they’re part of a new friendship trend. #RIPCrabs See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
HOUSEMATES
Sep 27, 2016 • 24 min
Dan and James talk housemates asking weird questions and deciding who to let in through the front door. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
GOLDEN
Sep 11, 2016 • 21 min
Dan and James are back and they’ve become such good friends they’ve been on holiday together. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
The Story So Far
Aug 16, 2016 • 24 min
James brings us an emo look back at his and Dan’s special friendship so far. A Gay Non Gay returns soon. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
WEDDING
May 9, 2016 • 15 min
Dan insists on further douche talk, James goes off on one about wedding lists and we discuss DIVORCE! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
THRUPPLE
Apr 28, 2016 • 24 min
Dan is ‘quite’ emotional after a run. James is back from hanging out with star of Ru Paul’s Drag Race ALASKA in NYC and there’s THRUPPLE problems. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Manscaping
Apr 19, 2016 • 14 min
Dan & James dive into bush trimming and chat about all the men Dan’s been having round See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
GAY QUESTIONS GAY ANSWERS
Mar 30, 2016 • 19 min
James is mad about not being offered coffee, and we’re talking ‘cleaning up’ at other people’s houses See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Kebabs
Mar 20, 2016 • 8 min
James is upset that Twitter won’t verify him, but Dan is more excited about his invite to the British Kebab Awards See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Birthday
Feb 29, 2016 • 12 min
James forgets Dan’s birthday, we discuss open relationships, sausages and if your mum jokes are funny when you’re an adult. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Valentines
Feb 12, 2016 • 14 min
It’s Valentines - James is three months clean of tinder and introduces Dan to new the new dating app ‘Bro’. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Professional
Feb 8, 2016 • 9 min
AGAANG is back and James and Dan have decided to ‘go professional’ while discussing their love for Oasis and The Corrs. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
The Christmas ‘Special’
Dec 22, 2015 • 17 min
Dan and James get together for one last time in 2015 to talk weddings, beer and Christmas. It’s a Christmas Special y’all! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Rude Questions
Dec 2, 2015 • 11 min
James gets asked an awkward question and then puts Dan on the spot. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Chickens
Nov 17, 2015 • 12 min
One word… Chickens.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia. See…
Showers
Nov 10, 2015 • 8 min
James finally puts Dan in his phone but then learns something gross about his hygiene.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig…
James2
Nov 2, 2015 • 7 min
James is affronted when he finds out that he is referred to as ‘James 2’ in Dan’s life.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig…
Lads
Oct 19, 2015 • 8 min
James questions Dan’s hatred of being tagged a lad, and Dan learns what ‘On Fleek’ means.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay,…
Hello
Oct 12, 2015 • 10 min
The very first episode of A Gay & A NonGay.James & Dan’s mutual friend, Dan’s girlfriend has gone away for a month and left them both at a loose end… There is no way these two men would hang out of their own accord but here’s what happens when they have…
Introducing A Gay and A NonGay
Oct 12, 2015 • 0 min
Imagine being gay and having to hang out with your girlfriends straight boyfriend. This is the hilarious tale of two unlikely friends forming new friendships, challenging our preconceptions of each other and crossing divides. Welcome to A Gay and A…