Notes on the 9th commandment from lectures by Dr. John Frame. S.A. in the news i.e. scandal surrounding Anthony Weiner & listener email. TBT? A lie does not have to be true to make a deep devastating impact. It simply has to be believed. Realizing sexual addiction is a symptom of a deeper infection. Healing from it is going to require focusing the bulk of our efforts on treating the infection over the symptoms. And seeing where we have traded truth for a lies.